30/03/2023
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Another year older. People tend to stop celebrating their birthdays after a certain stage and I can see why…
For some, there’s no need for a big party or going out and getting wasted (not that there’s anything wrong with that, at ANY age!) but I get it.
My birthdays for me now have turned into a time of reflection, to look back in the past year or more and think what would ‘Last Year Tara’ think of me today?
Well, she would be proud. Proud of the woman I am becoming and the people I choose to surround myself with. Proud of my little home with and proud of my business and where’s it’s headed.
This is something I need to do for myself as I don’t often talk of my hardships on social platforms or rarely to anyone to be honest but it hasn’t been all…
“oh I’m a “boss bitch” now, and Im living my best life ✌🏾 “
I’ve had some real lows the past year but we move. I can now say I am happier than I have been in a long time, than I ever was in my 20s. Those “Best Years” that everyone talks about. For me they were full of travel, fun & adventures but also insecurity, heartache & loneliness. I used to think I had to choose between settling at home, buying a house, having a “career” or living the life I wanted. Having has changed that. It will give me the freedom to do whatever I want, whenever I want. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a nest fly home to when you need it and I’m grateful I have found the balance. Now to start planning & make it happen!
People usually focus on the start and the end of your story, forget about the human in between ♥️
Anyway, that was an unexpectedly long caption! I’m off to dive in the ocean 🌊