03/08/2021
My breastfeeding journey 🤱
This was the first day, when Daniel was 12 days old that i effortlessly breastfed in public while having lunch.
I was so proud of this moment, i remember it like it was yesterday! 🙌
While i was pregnant i heard so many horror stories about breastfeeding and how difficult it was. Sidenote: stop telling mums to be your horror stories, its not cool!
Was I just lucky? I didnt come across any major hurdles with feeding Daniel and I quickly got in the swing of feeding in public without drawing attention to myself. That was my main concern!
As my experience grew, so did my confidence and I stop worrying about people looking as i knew i was doing what I felt right for us 👩👦
For some reason a common question amoungst mums is "how long will you breastfeed for" and i was guilty of asking this very same question.
What a tit i was (full pun intended🤣)
Who cares? It's none of mine or anyone elses business!
What made me really sad was that it felt like a competition, "you've stopped breastfeeding already?" and the pressure of lasting as long as you can is a real thing!
I finished breastfeeding when Daniel was 6 months old and not by choice, i really wanted to feed for longer but at 3 1/2 months Daniel started getting teeth! He grew a tooth a month and the end result was very painful feeding sessions. I knew for me and my ni***es our journey was coming to an end 😓
How did I feel after?
Sad that it was over, happy that i had my body back and extrememly proud that I went through that jounrey.
To all breastfeeding mums, who leak through their pads, who have to move in awkward positions to get baby to latch on and who struggle with the guilt when the journey comes to an end. You are amazing 🦸♀️