Sonny Hallett

Sonny Hallett I’m a neurodivergent and q***r therapist, trainer, and consultant based in Edinburgh, UK.

This Saturday!
28/07/2025

This Saturday!

Edinburgh's 6th Autistic Pride Picnic will be held again in The Meadows (in the usual place at the Prince Albert Victor Sundial) from around 2-5pm on the 2nd of August 🧺

This is an opportunity to celebrate autistic identity and the autistic community - and to spend some time with autistic people, chat, eat picnic food, and lie around in the grass (if the weather allows!).

All are welcome - it's an autistic space in the sense that autistic social norms apply, but not an autistic-only space. Like all AMASE events, it's LGBTQ-friendly, but when we talk about Autistic Pride we mean pride in being autistic, regardless of sexuality, gender, or anything else. The event is also family-friendly.

More details and how to get there can be seen on our website here: https://amase.org.uk/pride

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21/07/2025

Cultivating PCE Growth Amid Challenges: Live 2-Hour Keynote Preview

Really looking forward to this :)I will be speaking on Thursday 20th November. Day ticket holders to the symposium will ...
17/07/2025

Really looking forward to this :)

I will be speaking on Thursday 20th November. Day ticket holders to the symposium will be able to join the pre-symposium (online community meeting and live-streamed keynote speech) online, so if you are planning to go for just the Friday or Saturday you can still catch me online on the Thursday. (And if you’re coming in person on any of the days it’ll be lovely to see you!)

Sonny Hallett will be delivering their keynote speech as part of the 2025 PCE Europe symposium on Thursday 20 November (pre-symposium event). The title and abstract of their keynote speech is below.

For more information about Sonny and the other Keynote Speakers, visit https://www.strath.ac.uk/humanities/psychologicalscienceshealth/counsellingunit/cpd/pceeuropesymposiumglasgow2025/keynotespeakers/

TITLE: Be Yourself. No, Not Like That - Normativity in therapy training and its impact on all of us

ABSTRACT: The person-centred approach is grounded in the idea that we thrive through realness, congruence, and trusting of an individual’s experience. Therapy training, however, can often feel intensely un-trusting, implicitly demanding incongruence - something which particularly impacts trainees from minoritised backgrounds. When trainees can’t find ways to be themselves and also meet the assessment criteria, they risk difficulty, dropping out, even finding the training process traumatic. This isn’t just a ‘diversity and inclusion’ problem— it’s harmful to the profession as a whole, with impacts on all trainees, therapists, and clients, as we carry these pressures on into our practices and ways of being as person-centred therapists, and pass them on to our colleagues and clients.

This keynote will explore how the conditions in training shape the therapists we become, and by extension, the spaces we make for our clients and communities. I argue that diversity isn’t the problem. Instead, the discomfort that institutions and trainee cohorts feel around difference is a symptom of how deeply ingrained normative expectations can be. The resistance to diversity, equity, and inclusion, shown so starkly in the news every day, I think comes from an anxiety about the loss of dominance of normative ‘standards’ for how to be: uncertainty about the many ways of being a person - and indeed a therapist. Real person-centred practice requires courage: a willingness to be present with uncertainty and fear, and to embrace difference. Without active challenge, our trainings will inevitably reflect the same normative pressures present in wider society, and our therapy practices will unwittingly reinforce it. Training, therapy, and communities of practice become difficult and constraining places for growth, when they could be so growth-promoting and expansive.

As a neurodivergent, trans, mixed-race therapist and supervisor, I draw on my own experiences—as a trainee who navigated these difficult waters, and now as someone who helps others through them. If we are serious about person-centred practice, we have to ensure that our trainings and communities are spaces where every student and colleague can develop their own idiosyncratic, congruent ways of working. If we want diverse cohorts and communities of practice, we need to be able to imagine more diverse ways of being a therapist, and to welcome that into our trainings and practice.

15/07/2025

Ask questions, share reflections, and meet BACP board candidates Erin & Mat in this open Zoom session

I’m very excited to be delivering a keynote at PCE Europe in Glasgow this November! I’m also very much looking forward t...
11/07/2025

I’m very excited to be delivering a keynote at PCE Europe in Glasgow this November! I’m also very much looking forward to attending the rest of the programme.

I will be talking about training, diversity, the training experiences and needs of minoritised trainees, and the impact this can have on clients, on the Person Centred Approach, and on our profession as a whole.

(Also as I understand it, day ticket holders should also be able to access the pre-symposium online, when my keynote is scheduled, so it should be possible to catch my talk online on the Thursday whichever ticket you register for.)

We are delighted to introduce our four keynote speakers for the 2025 PCE Europe symposium in Glasgow (and online).

Follow our posts over the next few weeks to meet the keynote speakers one by one.

For more information now, visit our Keynote Speakers page.
https://www.strath.ac.uk/humanities/psychologicalscienceshealth/counsellingunit/cpd/pceeuropesymposiumglasgow2025/keynotespeakers/

29/06/2025

Hello. I’m Matt, a qualified therapist, celebrant, and trainee psychosexual therapist. My pronouns are he/him. I believe in accepting and respecting people as they are, which is reflected in my way…

My website seems to be down at the moment unfortunately. I do currently have some space for supervisees and I’m always a...
26/06/2025

My website seems to be down at the moment unfortunately. I do currently have some space for supervisees and I’m always available for one off or short term consults.

Do get in touch with me here or via sonnyihallett@gmail.com for more info or if you need to reach me

Also the autistic people’s experiences of counselling report can be accessed on AMASE - Autistic Mutual Aid Society Edinburgh’s site here along with other great resources:

In 2020, AMASE supported the publication of a report investigating autistic adults’ experiences of counselling and related talk therapies. You can access the full report and summarised versions below. Jump to recommendations section. This report follows on from the AMASE 2018 report ‘Too complic...

Delighted to share the transcript from this great conversation I had with fellow autistic therapist Aimee Cliff, as part...
23/06/2025

Delighted to share the transcript from this great conversation I had with fellow autistic therapist Aimee Cliff, as part of their very exciting book project on autism and empathy. It was great talking with them about empathy, being autistic, being autistic therapists, and more. I’m very much looking forward to both the book, and more instalments in this series which you can follow via their substack below.

Small excerpt:
“Aimee: What did you learn about empathy from your counselling training?

Sonny: What I learnt in that experience was that we're all getting it wrong all the time. Empathy isn't magic. It's not like a magic that I'm missing, or a magic that I'm missing with certain segments of the population. [My first counselling course] was kind of a revelatory moment. It was like, "Oh okay, we're all struggling with this, it's just that I've been told that I'm specifically struggling with it all my life". “

Sonny Hallett: Conversations on Empathy #1

Erin would be an exceptional and I think much-needed addition to the BACP board.Voting opens middle of July to middle of...
21/06/2025

Erin would be an exceptional and I think much-needed addition to the BACP board.
Voting opens middle of July to middle of August.

Delighted to announce that I have had my nomination accepted to stand for the BACP board this year. Voting will open on 15th July for BACP members and run until 15th August via Mi-Voice.
I am a Yorkshire-based counsellor/psychotherapist, supervisor, consultant and trainer, working primarily with people who have experienced harm in previous therapy.

My main motivation for standing for the board is that, as the largest membership body in the UK, I feel that the BACP's relationship with members and the general public is key to working towards a trustworthy and effective profession for therapists and clients. I have been disappointed at times with the inconsistent and sometimes problematic messaging from my professional body, as well as some inattention to power and anti-oppressive practice. I want to see the relationship between BACP and its members change for the better, and for that to be a catalyst for real change to the organisational culture and commitment to equity in the therapy professions.

We find ourselves at a pivotal point in the profession, and the possibility of being part of the process of recentring therapy values at a structural level at this point in time, is really exciting.

I have created an email address so that people can ask me questions about my opinions and aims for standing for the BACP board erinstevens4bacpboard@gmail.com This email will be active from now until the BACP AGM in November and I will aim to set some time aside each week to answer questions.

Thanks for your support!

Erin (she/they)

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