25/05/2023
After treating countless people with depression, it became clear to me that depression is a symptom. It’s a response.
When we’re in an abusive relationship, struggle make ends meet, when we have unresolved childhood trauma, when our work environment is dysfunctional— of course depression will exist. When we lose someone, have a crisis, or are in a grief state or course depression will exist.
Our body will go into a freeze state. We will be in survival mode. We’re not meant to be ok when we’re in environments that unhealthy. This is how our body speaks to us.
A few added things for clarity:
1. I support the use of anti-depressants. In my experience they help *a lot* for some people and not at all for others. Each person is different.
2. There is nothing wrong with you as a person if you have depression symptoms.
3. Nutrition and movement are very important, but (again) if the environment you’re in on a regular basis feels like a threat, the body can still go into freeze/depression states.
4. We are spiritual beings. We have spiritual needs to: connect, belong, provide value, and find meaning in life. We will not thrive if we’re expect to be emotionless productivity machines.
5. Sadness, times of grief, or just feeling down are a *natural* part of the human experience. Periods of wanting to sleep a lot, to go inwards, and to spend time alone are a *natural* part of the cyclical nature of life.
The Holistic Psychologist