03/01/2026
My dear Ali,
Your absence isn’t just sadness it’s a shock that never really fades. You were so genuinely kind that whenever your name comes up, people pause and say, He was a really good man.I never imagined some lives could end so suddenly, without warning.
Social media, attention, likes and comments don’t matter to me. I’ve written and deleted these words many times, not out of fear, but because I don’t want pain to turn into a performance especially now, as we approach a new year. But the truth is, some things in this world, once they break, don’t get fixed. You don’t heal them. You simply learn how to live with a permanent crack.
I always believed there’s a power greater than us God, fate, or whatever name we reach for when we’re exhausted. But we’re not all the same. Our limits are different. The way we break is different. Some lessons arrive very late so late that when you finally understand, your mind is full, your heart is heavy, and it feels like your head might burst.
I’m not looking for labels, advice, or to be told to think positive.Sometimes letting someone speak without fixing them or judging them is stronger than a hundred prescriptions. Life is stranger than we admit. For some it’s beautiful, for others ordinary, and for some it’s a quiet, constant battle. Everything passes, the good and the bad. What comes after? I honestly don’t know.But one thing I know for sure: don’t trust later. Don’t assume tomorrow. Don’t think there’s time.Life very often doesn’t believe in later. I’m not here to teach lessons I hate giving advice. This is just my truth, a painful lesson I wish I had learned sooner.If today there’s something sitting in your chest a resentment, a love, a thank you, or even a simple I’m sorry maybe today really is the last chance to say it. And as we move toward a new year, I wish you less pain, more honesty, and if we have to lose anything, let it not be ourselves.
A like,A share,A kind word,It may be small to you,but to us, it’s hope.
All we want
is for my father’s memory
to stay alive.
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