26/01/2026
CONTINUATION OF EXCEPTIONAL CASE
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Good evening ma
Hope you're doing good.
I've gone through The comments.
Some are advising me not to marry her.
I'm actually a lady.
A very concerned one.
I'm sharing this so we can learn.
And know we all have an unfolded future. So let's make sure what we do today, will not affect our tomorrow.
I have chatted with my friend, and told her what I have done.
I told I must finish it.
Because I saw what she passed through and how it changed her life.
So this is it.
She finally gave birth successfully as I said.
Then decided to meet her dad to tell him the kind of university she wanted to study in.
Only for her dad to tell her,
He knew as she decided to get pregnant, she'll be getting married. And that he doesn't have money to send her to school.
My friend told me she cried with the baby on her hand.
Because she had visions, ambitions and dreams but I wasn't possible anymore.
I was there all I could do was to console her, because I wasn't financially stable.
I could only assist her with the baby with the little I could.
So she managed till her daughter clocked 1 year old.
So she decided to start looking for what to do as work.
But it wasn't easy because she could not work having the baby around her
She then decided to go leave her daughter with her mom. The child's grandmother.
According to her, while she(the baby) was there, she could work and be assisting her mom once in a while while she also saves to sponsor her studies.
But it seemed to be worse because her mom never let her rest because of money. At the end, her she couldn't get to study.
She worked her life out to send to her mom. Just so the baby will be ok. And won't lack.
It became worse that her manager noticed and advised her to go and take her child and bring her, that she can be bringing her at work.
My friend was so happy. So her boss gave her an advance salary and she called her mom and told her she'll be coming to take the child. So her mom said ok.
Upon arriving, she prepared the child's bags, her mom didn't say anything till morning, when she was preparing her child, her mom told her she's not taking that child. That the baby is her own child and that she'll not let her go.
My friend didn't want to drag. So decided to let the baby be. Even though she really wanted to take her, but she still had hopes of working and going back to school. Since her mom has said it's her child, so she thought her mom would take full responsibility hence.
Shockingly, she went back to work, but her mom still couldn't let her rest and again her hopes died again.
That is how the child continued being with her grandma
So my friend finally had a suitor. And they got married, the child was still with her mom. Her husband advised her to go and take her child, but she told him her mom has refused anytime she mentions it.
So they relocated to another country.
She and her husband decided that let them go and settle down and come and take the baby with them.
Before this, when that guy abroad heard she was married, he decided to send his elder sister and brother to come and get the child.
But her dad told them the child wasn't with him. That's she's with her grandma.
Her dad told them what they were supposed to do before taking the child. They left. She was 3 already by then.
All these happened without them communicating with my friend. It's her dad who told her.
One thing my friend kept telling me is that she had never had intentions of depriving him from his child. But she didn't want the child to go to them at a tender age.
So while abroad they loss communication with people back home for a while. So she didn't know how the baby girl was fairing.
But finally they reconnected with those back home.
The first person she asked for was her child.
She asked her elder sister.
That was on Facebook. But her sister told her to give a WhatsApp number so they could talk better.
My friend told me the way her sister sounded, it was like something was wrong. She could feel it.
So they finally connected on WhatsApp.
To her greatest surprise, her sister left a long voice note. And when my friend heard the part "the father of your child sent his elder brother to go and take the child from the grandmother. Saying he was taking her to do medical checkup and that they'll bring her at a certain time"...
My friend told me she fainted when she heard that. At that time she was few months pregnant with her second child with her husband.
She told me that it was like a nightmare.
This guy traveled without ever seeing his child. She was one year old when he traveled. None of his family members looked for her. And they were aware of the existence of the baby. But no one showed up.
Even as I'm trying, my heart bleeds as though I'm hearing it for the first time.
My friend told me she asked her sister what happened, her sister told her she doesn't know. That it's her mother that called and complained to her.
My friend wasn't aware of anything.
Her mother called them, they were not picking. Neither were they calling her. No one knew where they were.
My friend asked if they reported the case to the police, her sister her told no.
So my friend decided to come back to the country to take it to the police.
So she contacted her mom,so she can explain what happened,what her mom told her wasn't reasonable. It didn't make sense.
I mean,the same mom who refused to give the child to her mother,but decided to give her to a stranger.
She was already planning to take it to the police.
But the guy's elder sister who's presently in the US contacted my friend, telling her she has been trying to get to her to no avail.
My friend told her, because of what they have done, they'll face her in court.
That guy sister begged her not to do it.
She apologized. And begged...
And promised they'll bring the child
And do the write thing before taking her.
My friend calmed down and said she won't do it. If they do what they had said.
That guy still wasn't saying anything.
My friend gave birth
She was at her in-laws place at that time. So she and her husband finally relocated to Cameroon.
Mother I'll end here for now. There are still more shocking things untold.
Please like I told my friend, the reason I'm doing this is so people will learn from her story. And that we as a family can bring her justice
