
13/10/2025
Have been meaning to put this up all day but but kept getting distracted 🤦♀️
October is ADHD awareness month amongst other things. Apparently around 2.5 million people in the UK have ADHD. Personally I think it's more.
It's a trait that runs in my family, easily spottable in boys and men but women are great maskers. We learn how to hide, make it work, to hyper-focus on getting things correct, not getting spotted, getting away with it.
You can feel quite smug about getting away with know-one knowing, then one day..... Menobrain hits. As oestrogen drops, ADHD signs become more apparent, not just to you but to everyone else too.
It seems that as if we don't already have enough to deal with - Hair changes, skin changes, disappearing lips, creaking joints and weight gain. The tendency towards getting sidetracked now turns into your middle name. Ping-ponging around the house leaving a trail of half started jobs... Is it ADHD, is it Menopause, is it early onset dementia.
Those of us that have been holding it together for years suddenly need someone else to take over a few things making our life a little less chaotic.
Me - I will be be looking forward to my 14 year old confiscating my flight boarding pass in a week or so when we go on holiday (I lost it last time, now not to be trusted 😂).