15/07/2024
This is sadly so common. I was celebrated within my world of sport when the truth was that I was dying. We must change the narrative, messages,images that we have become obsessed with celebrating with little regard to the health of the body 😢
During the final treatment session with a delightful young teen who had successfully recovered from Anorexia Nervosa, I made reference to the "increased insight" I had witnessed him develop through his treatment journey. His response has stayed with me and influenced my view on the topic ever since.
"I get what you're saying", he said. "However, it was a really confusing time for me", he continued. He then went on to recount an incident I hadn't been aware of. "One Sunday afternoon, at a family BBQ, my uncle and 2 of his mates came up to me excitedly and said 'Duuuuude! You're so ripped! What's your secret?'. I was stoked! The very next day, however, I was admitted to the medical ward, stuck on a feeding tube, diagnosed with Anorexia Nervosa, and told me that I could have died."
I wish I could say that these stories are rare, but unfortunately, they are all too common. Over the past decade, society has placed increasingly unrealistic expectations on what it means to "look good" or to "be fit". The 'ideal' male body has become excessively lean and muscular, making it unattainable for most and leading to a rise in unhealthy behaviors in pursuit of this unattainable standard. If we want to reduce body-image issues, eating disorders, and their many related problems, we must fundamentally change the ideals that we uphold and the expectations that we place on ourselves and on others.