18/11/2025
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Have you ever noticed your body feels “on edge” before your mind has even formed a thought?
That’s because the body speaks first.
Your nervous system constantly scans your environment, your inner world, and your relationships through neuroception — the unconscious process of asking:
👉“Am I safe, or am I in danger?”
Before you’re even aware something has changed, your nervous system has already shifted you into a state:
• Ventral vagal (regulated + connected)
Your body feels grounded, your breath steadier, and your mind naturally creates clearer, calmer stories.
• Sympathetic (fight/flight)
Your heart rate rises, breath tightens, and everything feels urgent.
Your thoughts become fast, fear-based, or future-focused.
• Dorsal vagal (shutdown)
You feel flat, distant, or overwhelmed.
Your mind matches the state with thoughts of hopelessness or disconnection.
👉Your state comes first.
👉Your thoughts come second.
So when you suddenly feel “on edge,” it isn’t random — your body has detected something long before your conscious mind registers it.
This is why somatic tools matter.
When you orient to four neutral things around you and rest your gaze for 10 seconds each, you’re signalling:
“We are safe right now.”🫶
Your vagal brake activates, your breath softens, and your mind stops scanning for threat.
Shift the state → the story changes.
This isn’t mindset work — it’s the biology of safety.
If you want to understand why your body reacts the way it does, and how to bring yourself back into safety, the next round of my Nervous System Reset Program begins in January.
Early Bird ends 12 December. Spaces are limited.
With love,
Sarah x