Calm Rivers Counselling CRC

Calm Rivers Counselling CRC I am a Person-Centred Counsellor accredited by the National Counselling Society. Please read my page for more information.

02/05/2025

🌇 𝐄𝐦𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 🌇

Carl Rogers, in A Way of Being (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 1980, p.22), shares a beautiful metaphor: "People are just as wonderful as sunsets if I can let them be. When I look at a sunset, I don't find myself saying, 'Soften the orange a little on the right-hand corner, and put a bit more purple along the base, and use a little more pink in the cloud colour.' I don't do that. I don’t try to control a sunset. I watch it with awe as it unfolds."

This quote reminds us of the beauty in accepting people as they are, without trying to change or control them. Just as we appreciate the natural beauty of a sunset without wishing to alter it, we can learn to appreciate the unique beauty in each person.

💡 Key Significance to Counselling: Rogers’ words underscore the importance of unconditional positive regard in relationships—accepting and valuing someone for who they are, not for who we want them to be. This acceptance is the foundation of genuine connection and understanding.

🌺 Takeaway: Let's practice seeing the people in our lives with the same wonder and acceptance as we do a beautiful sunset. By embracing each individual's unique beauty without judgment, we cultivate deeper connections and a greater appreciation for the diversity of the human experience.

Share this post to inspire others to appreciate the beauty in everyone around them, just as they are. Let’s create a world where everyone feels seen and valued for their true selves. 🌈

28/02/2025

Happy Monday Everyone 🌸

28/02/2025

“Please make other children feel better like you did to me.” Jacob, aged 6, who was supported by Child Bereavement UK after his grandfather died, wrote this lovely letter to his bereavement support practitioner.

For more on how we can support bereaved children and young people, visit our website.

09/01/2025
10/10/2024

Today is World Mental Health Day 2024.

The focus this year is on prioritizing mental in the workplace.

Last year, a fifth of workers in the UK had to take time off due to stress, highlighting the urgent need to address mental health issues in work environments.

You can find out more about the day and how you can get involved here:
https://buff.ly/3QBKXK7

28/08/2024

It’s all about perspective .....

28/08/2024

👣 'Focus on the step in front of you, not the whole staircase.'

04/08/2024

Don't we all? Charles ❤️

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Calm Rivers Counselling (CRC)

My name is Abby van Gerven BSc (Hons) Ad.Dip. PsyC MNCS (Accred)

About me:

I am a Person-Centred Psychotherapeutic Counsellor with a Diploma in Counselling accredited by the National Counselling Society (NCS). I have experience with a wide range of issues including low self-esteem, low confidence, anxiety, relationship issues, abuse, bereavement and grief, work pressures, bullying, depression and military service family life pressures.