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I work as a sole trader, independent private carer in Farnham Surrey & the surrounding areas for many happy people needing some help to live independentlyin their own home.

On Saturday I had the pleasure of chaperoning the lovely Betty to her granddaughter’s breathtakingly sophisticated Chri...
17/12/2025

On Saturday I had the pleasure of chaperoning the lovely Betty to her granddaughter’s breathtakingly sophisticated Christmas wedding at the stunning Cowdray Park in Midhurst. Betty's eyes light up as she witnessed her granddaughter walk down the aisle in that wintry countryside setting… that’s a gift i feel privileged to have shared.

The day was filled with more than just ceremony. It was filled with life. From Betty sharing stories of Christmases past, a beautiful quartet, to an impromptu sing-along of the Hokey Cokey (!), and her wonderfully cheeky moment with the groom (“I recognise you from somewhere!”), which had us all laughing at his perfect reply. I’m the groom 😂

After dinner I ensured Betty returned back to her home, happily tired and brimming with joy, ready to crash out and watch Strictly Come Dancing, her memories of the day still shining from her eyes.

This is more than a service. It’s about preserving dignity, facilitating joy, and ensuring that life’s beautiful milestones are accessible to everyone.

If you have a loved one who dreams of being at a family wedding, celebration, or any special event but needs a compassionate, experienced companion to make it possible—please get in touch. Let's make it happen. Wedding are for everybody. 💍💒❤️

My wonderful superstar 100 year-old Mrs. E and I went out for our Christmas lunch today and reminisced about the old day...
16/12/2025

My wonderful superstar 100 year-old Mrs. E and I went out for our Christmas lunch today and reminisced about the old days when she was growing up and how Christmas has changed.! she was very pleased to be here for her 100th Christmas 🎅 a fabulous new venue I would definitely recommend this to all!

Feeling incredibly grateful to have been part of some truly special family moments recently! As many of you know, my pas...
14/12/2025

Feeling incredibly grateful to have been part of some truly special family moments recently! As many of you know, my passion is supporting older adults to live fully. Lately, I've been honoured to offer a new, joyful service: Wedding Day Chaperone for elderly relatives.

It’s more than just a ride to the venue. It’s about ensuring a beloved parent or grandparent can be part of your big day, stress-free for everyone.

From the morning of, I can help with
Getting ready (dressing, grooming)
Safe es**rt to and from the venue
Constant, discreet companionship throughout the celebration
Assistance with food, personal needs, and medication reminders
Capturing sweet, candid photos of them (and with you!) to cherish
Ensuring they’re comfortable, hydrated, and enjoying themselves
A chaperoned journey home at the end of the evening, tired but happy

This allows your family to be fully present, celebrating without worry, knowing your relative is safe, supported, and included in every moment.

If you have a wedding coming up in 2026 and want to explore how this could work for your family, please send me a private message, or call 0791 9003552, Let’s make sure everyone has a seat at the table, and a helping hand by their side. 💍💒❤️

A lovely couple at one of the over 55’s apartments wanted to get everyone together in the communal lounge for Christmas...
10/12/2025

A lovely couple at one of the over 55’s apartments wanted to get everyone together in the communal lounge for Christmas music, 🎵 mince pies, 🥧 tea & a pre Christmas chat, I was more then happy to help them out & Play DJ 🕺🏽. Enjoyed by all!

Title: The Profound Privilege of Palliative CareWhat does it mean to make a difference? In my work in palliative care, i...
02/12/2025

Title: The Profound Privilege of Palliative Care

What does it mean to make a difference? In my work in palliative care, it doesn’t always look like what you might think.

It’s in the quiet moments: holding a hand that needs to feel connected, giving a gentle massage to ease not just physical tension but the weight of worry, or finding a way to share a laugh in the middle of a deeply tough day.

These acts of simple, human kindness are at the core of what I do. They’re not extras; they’re essential. They’re about honoring the person, not just the illness.

People often ask me how I can do this work. The truth is, it gives me more than I could ever give. To be invited into someone’s life at its most vulnerable stage, to provide comfort and a moment of peace—it fills my heart with a purpose that is impossible to describe.

The greatest reward isn’t found in being paid ; it’s the profound gratitude in a smile, the peace in a settled breath, and the knowledge that in some small way, I helped someone feel seen, soothed, and valued. ❤️

Small steps, giant leaps. 💫 Today was a milestone for one of my lovely ladies. At 95, she hadn't left her house in over ...
27/11/2025

Small steps, giant leaps. 💫 Today was a milestone for one of my lovely ladies. At 95, she hadn't left her house in over a year, anxious about falling.

But today, i did it! We took a gentle drive to see the town's Christmas lights, and I even showed her where I live. The magic wasn't just in the lights—it was in having her beside me in the car, listening to her stories of what all the shops used to be.

These are the moments that remind me why i do what we do. It’s not just about care; it’s about connection, dignity, and bringing joy back into life. Merry Christmas 🎅 Pam ❤️ you did it!!

20/11/2025

❤️Stop the Care Conveyor Belt.❤️

Why choose an independent Private Carer?

You get a dedicated professional who knows YOU. No corporate shuffle, no rotating strangers. 17 years experience.first aid trained. Fully insured. Care certificate. 🕺🏽

And here’s the secret sauce: I know a tight-knit team of four amazing core carers, who also work as independent self employed carers

That means your dedicated care comes with a built-in support network. We share knowledge, cover for each other seamlessly, and bring a wealth of collective experience to your door.

You get the one-to-one focus of an independent carer, with the strength of a team behind them.

❤️ Consistent, personal care that’s never alone in the mission.

Ready for a better way? Call 0791 9003552 ! Web address yourlifematters.com

Today wasn't about the logistics, it was about the love. ❤️When my wonderful client couldn't physically attend a family ...
17/11/2025

Today wasn't about the logistics, it was about the love. ❤️

When my wonderful client couldn't physically attend a family civil ceremony, i knew we couldn't let her miss out. So, i got her dressed up in her finest, set up a Zoom call, and brought the celebration right to her.

Seeing her face light up as she watched the ceremony, and her absolute joy in raising a glass of champagne with her family... this is what it's all about. It was a beautiful reminder that being part of life's special moments has no age limit and no physical boundaries.

I am so honoured to have helped her be there, not just in spirit, but smiling on the screen and in the hearts of her loved ones.🥰

I had a moment of reflection this week that gave me (and my family) a good laugh. 🙃Several of my amazing clients generou...
14/11/2025

I had a moment of reflection this week that gave me (and my family) a good laugh. 🙃

Several of my amazing clients generously praised me for my patience and compassion while in their homes. Hearing that is the highest compliment I can receive in my work.

The irony? If you ask my family, they'll tell you I have the patience of a gnat when it comes to everyday things! Shouting at Alexa when she fails to turn the light off, when I have a decorating idea, I want to do it now ! The self-checkout machine talking too slowly, when I want to buy something, I want to buy it now when I want to do something I want to do it now! . 🤣

It's a funny reminder that the patience we extend to those we care for professionally comes from a different, deeper place. It’s an honor to be able to offer that to my clients.

Thank you for your kind words and for teaching me so much about what really matters.

We are embracing Christmas 🎅 at work this morning 🌅 Rod Stewart does a great Christmas album!
12/11/2025

We are embracing Christmas 🎅 at work this morning 🌅

Rod Stewart does a great Christmas album!

05/11/2025

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IF I GET DEMENTIA…..
I’d like my family to hang this wish list up on the wall where I live. I want them to remember these things.

1a. Every time you enter the room announce yourself. “Hi Dad - it’s Amanda.”
NEVER ask- Do you know who I am??? That causes anxiety.

• If I get dementia, I want my friends and family to embrace my reality.

• If I think my spouse is still alive, or if I think we’re visiting my parents for dinner, let me believe those things. I’ll be much happier for it.

• If I get dementia, don’t argue with me about what is true for me versus what is true for you.

• If I get dementia, and I am not sure who you are, do not take it personally. My timeline is confusing to me.

• If I get dementia, and I am sad or anxious, hold my hand and listen. Do not tell me that my feelings are unfounded.

• If I get dementia, I don’t want to be treated like a child. Talk to me like the adult that I am.

• If I get dementia, I still want to enjoy the things that I’ve always enjoyed. Help me find a way to exercise, read, and visit with friends.

• If I get dementia, ask me to tell you a story from my past.

• If I get dementia, and I become agitated, take the time to figure out what is bothering me.

• If I get dementia, make sure that there are plenty of snacks for me in the house. Even now if I don’t eat I get angry, and if I have dementia, I may have trouble explaining what I need.

• If I get dementia, don’t talk about me as if I’m not in the room

• If I get dementia, don’t feel guilty if you cannot care for me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It’s not your fault, and you’ve done your best. Find someone who can help you, or choose a great new place for me to live.

• If I get dementia, don’t act frustrated if I mix up names, events, or places.
Take a deep breath. It’s not my fault.

• If I get dementia, make sure I always have my favorite music playing within earshot.

• If I get dementia, don’t exclude me from parties and family gatherings.

• If I get dementia, know that I still like receiving hugs or handshakes.

• If I get dementia, remember that I am still the person you know and love.”

Kindness is key 🥰

Getting in the Christmas spirit with my lovely client over at the beautiful Long acres the best Christmas shop we have b...
05/11/2025

Getting in the Christmas spirit with my lovely client over at the beautiful Long acres the best Christmas shop we have been to! Having lots of fun and laughing 😜

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Farnham
GU97DR

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