Essential Calm

Essential Calm Essential Calm provides relaxing massage and beauty therapies to a wide range of clients to help with their wellbeing.

14/08/2025

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There's something I feel deeply called to share with you. As a Holistic Therapist and Tropic ambassador doing treatments...
04/08/2025

There's something I feel deeply called to share with you.

As a Holistic Therapist and Tropic ambassador doing treatments, facials, pampers parties or even online consultations, I meet a lot of ladies who are exhausted, inflamed, out of sync, and being told "this is just part of getting older".

But what I experienced this week shook me. It lit an even brighter fire under what I already do.

Tropic hold its annual Glammies event every September, and every year, we support charities at this event. This year, two of the chosen charities are cancer related. During a live announcement about the charities this week, thousands of Tropic Ambassadors were watching, as was I.

Then, the comments started coming up, and one after another, the Ambassadors were sharing their lived experience with cancer...

“I’ve just finished chemo.”
“I lost my sister last year.”
“I’m living with cancer now.”

I too lost my dad and Auntie to cancer, and had a scare myself.

It was overwhelming and disturbing to see how many of our Tropic Ambassadors were affected by this horrible disease. It was both heartbreaking and deeply, deeply sobering.

It made something click for me in a way that felt louder than ever.

I already knew the stats. I already knew what was happening in our bodies. But to see it reflected back by thousands of women who, like me, care about what we put on our skin… it was too loud to ignore.

We are living in a world that’s making us sick. Slowly, silently, and systemically.

One of the ways it’s doing that is through the everyday products we use, in our homes and on our skin.

Your skin is your largest organ. It absorbs what you put on it and those ingredients don’t just sit on the surface. They go in. They affect your hormones, your cells, your immune system. Some are linked to serious long term health risks.

The beauty industry is still one of the least regulated industries in this country.

That’s why I speak so passionately about Tropic. It’s not just skincare. It’s safety. It’s trust. It’s no compromise.

But even if you never buy a single product from me, Please take 5 mins to read this list. Save it and share it. 👇

💥 *10 Ingredients I No Longer Put On My Skin — and Why*

1. Parabens...
Synthetic preservatives. They mimic oestrogen and have been found in breast cancer tissue. Disrupt hormone balance — which impacts mood, cycle, energy, and risk of disease (especially during perimenopause/menopause, when our hormones are already shifting).

2. Phthalates...
Usually hidden under the word “fragrance.” Strongly linked to hormone disruption, fertility problems, early puberty, and low s***m count. Can worsen hormone-related symptoms like hot flushes, irritability, and fatigue.

3. Triclosan...
Used in some antibacterial products. Technically a pesticide (yep, you read that right!). Disrupts thyroid hormones, may contribute to antibiotic resistance, and harms the environment.

4. Petroleum derivatives (mineral oil, paraffin, petrolatum)...
Often contaminated with 1,4-dioxane, classed as a probable carcinogen (meaning it may increase cancer risk). Found in many baby and body products 🤬 and can block skin’s ability to breathe.

5. Synthetic Colours (FD&C or D&C)...
Made from coal tar. Linked to skin sensitivity, behavioural issues (especially in kids), and possible long-term cell damage. Often found in colourful bath products and makeup.

6. Oxybenzone...
A chemical sunscreen filter that disrupts hormones and may reduce birth weight in babies. Can contribute to hormonal chaos in perimenopause, and still found in many UK SPFs. Also damages coral reefs.

7. Methylisothiazolinone (MIT)...
A preservative used in shampoos and body washes. Linked to eczema, contact dermatitis, and even brain cell damage in animal studies. Especially risky for sensitive or inflamed skin.

8. Benzoyl Peroxide...
Used in acne treatments. Can cause dryness, irritation, and has shown tumour-promoting effects in animal studies. With so many gentler alternatives available, this one’s best avoided.

9. Sodium Lauryl Sulfate (SLS)...
Foaming agent found in many shampoos, toothpastes, and cleansers. Can strip the skin and scalp, leading to dryness, irritation, and flare-ups. If you’re dealing with dry, itchy skin or rosacea, especially in midlife, this one’s a no-no.

10. Formaldehyde-releasing preservatives...
These include ingredients like DMDM hydantoin, imidazolidinyl urea, and quaternium-15, which slowly release formaldehyde over time to prevent mould. Formaldehyde is a known carcinogen (cancer-causing substance) and can trigger skin irritation, allergies, and even hormonal disruption. Still found in some shampoos, nail treatments, and liquid soaps.

*So what does this all mean for real life?*

Hormone disruptors don’t just cause vague “imbalances.”
They’re connected to things we see every day:

- Heavy, painful, or missing periods

- PMT so bad it affects relationships

- Unexplained weight gain or stubborn belly fat

- Fatigue, even after 8 hours sleep

- Mood swings, rage, anxiety

- Endometriosis, PCOS, infertility

- Perimenopause and menopause symptoms that spiral out of control

- Acne, eczema, rosacea

- Early menopause

- Thyroid issues

- Breast, ovarian, and testicular cancer

If you recognise any of these, in yourself or the women around you, this matters.

Tropic will never include these ingredients. Instead it's packed full of fresh natural ingredients that we eat to feed our skin goodness. That’s why I use it, trust it, and recommend it, but this isn’t about pushing a product. It’s about protecting your health.

If you're ever unsure about what you're using - skincare - haircare, anything, just ask. I'll help you check it. No judgement. No pressure. Just knowledge.

Because we deserve better! 💚

☀️ Ready to Glow? ☀️1st – 7th August (while stocks last!)Whether you're chasing that dreamy post-holiday glow or just lo...
01/08/2025

☀️ Ready to Glow? ☀️
1st – 7th August (while stocks last!)

Whether you're chasing that dreamy post-holiday glow or just love looking radiant all year round, we've got something golden for you ✨

Spend £100+ on your Tropic favourites and receive the Total Glow Duo FREE – including the Limited Edition Golden Hour Body Silk and Sun Glaze bronzer! 🌞
Think golden, luminous skin – no passport required 😍

📅 When? From Friday 1st August – Thursday 7th August
📍 Where? Pampers, my webshop or message me 🤗

👉 Shop here: www.tropicskincare.com/deanafrost
Or just drop me a message and I’ll place your order for you 🛒💌

✨ While stocks last, so don’t miss out!

💥 BRAND NEW OFFER FOR THIS WEEKEND ONLY!! 💥✨ A treat for tired eyes ✨The skin around our eyes is up to 10x thinner than ...
25/07/2025

💥 BRAND NEW OFFER FOR THIS WEEKEND ONLY!! 💥

✨ A treat for tired eyes ✨

The skin around our eyes is up to 10x thinner than the rest of the face, so it needs a little extra attention plus a few powerful ingredients to effectively tackle fine lines, puffiness, and dark circles..

To end July on a high, we’re giving you the chance to revive tired eyes with our tried-and-tested targeted formulas for FREE!

HOW?

💚 Spend £80+ ➡️ get a FREE pack of Hydrogel Eye Masks (5 pairs)

💚 Spend £120+ ➡️ get a FREE pack of Hydrogel Eye Masks (5 pairs), plus a FREE full-size Eye Work

Everyone this incredible offer has just landed and is only available this weekend, so message me directly if you want to order or use the link below 👇

www.tropicskincare.com/deanafrost

Different Uniform, Same Passion 👮‍♂️💆‍♂️Whether it’s serving on the front lines or helping someone move better and feel ...
23/06/2025

Different Uniform, Same Passion 👮‍♂️💆‍♂️

Whether it’s serving on the front lines or helping someone move better and feel better, my purpose has always been the same: to help people.

As a qualified Sports Massage Therapist, I understand firsthand the physical and mental strain that daily life (and demanding jobs!) can put on the body. That’s why I’m passionate about helping you recover, reset, and reach your full potential. Whether you're an athlete, a frontline worker, or simply someone needing relief from tension and stress.

💪 Benefits of Sports Massage:
✔️ Reduces muscle tension and soreness
✔️ Improves circulation and mobility
✔️ Speeds up recovery and prevents injury
✔️ Promotes mental clarity and stress relief

At Essential Calm, it’s not just a treatment, it’s tailored care in a calming, professional environment. Your body deserves more than just rest; it deserves to be looked after with skill and intention.

🔹 Appointments available now
🔹 Friendly, experienced, and client-focused
🔹 Based in Bishop Middleham

📍 Message now to book or learn more

https://essential-calm.book.app/

💧 Feeling Tired, Sluggish, Puffy? In Need of a Reset? 💧If you’re feeling bloated, heavy, low in energy or just not quite...
22/06/2025

💧 Feeling Tired, Sluggish, Puffy? In Need of a Reset? 💧

If you’re feeling bloated, heavy, low in energy or just not quite yourself, your body could be telling you it needs some extra help!

✨ This is where Lymphatic Drainage Massage can make a real difference! ✨

Your lymphatic system is like your body’s natural detox pathway, it helps clear waste, reduce swelling, and keep your immune system strong. But when it slows down, you can feel tired, puffy, sluggish and out of balance.

💆‍♀️ Lymphatic Drainage can help:
✔️ Stimulate your lymph flow
✔️ Reduce puffiness, bloating, and water retention
✔️ Boost your immune system
✔️ Support your body’s natural detox process
✔️ Leave you feeling lighter, more energised, and rebalanced

At Essential Calm, we specialise in Manual Lymphatic Drainage Massage 🤗
We offer gentle, personalised lymphatic drainage treatments that can help you reset, recharge, and feel good from within. 💚

If this sounds like it can help you, let’s get you booked in, Alan has availability this week!

You can book directly online here👇
https://essential-calm.book.app/

📩 Or Message us to find out more.

🚨 Parents, Please Read! 🚨The TikTok skincare craze is harming our kids!Young children are copying complex skincare routi...
15/06/2025

🚨 Parents, Please Read! 🚨

The TikTok skincare craze is harming our kids!
Young children are copying complex skincare routines packed with harsh chemicals – and it’s causing serious skin damage.

❌ Layering too many products
❌ Using strong chemical exfoliants
❌ Ignoring sun protection
❌ Risk of long-term skin allergies

🛑 76% of trending skincare videos include known allergens!

Our kids don’t need these products. Their skin is already perfect. Let’s protect it with natural, gentle, chemical-free skincare.

If they want a skincare routine that's good for them please try
Tropic, freshly made, plant-based, and safe for even the youngest skin.

Let’s keep skincare simple, safe, and natural 💚

Pop me a message if you want me to help your tweens xx
www.tropicskincare.com/deanafrost

Happy Friday everyone!!These 2 fabulous offers end Tomorrow, so if you want to grab either of them now's your chance.Or ...
30/05/2025

Happy Friday everyone!!
These 2 fabulous offers end Tomorrow, so if you want to grab either of them now's your chance.

Or with any order of £85 you get the Hydrogel Face masks Free (worth £20).

Don't forget to do the torch test to check your levels and pop me a message, I will post them directly to you 🤗###

⏳ Only 2 Days Left to Start in Style! ⏳Love Tropic? Already raving about the products? Then why not get paid to share wh...
29/05/2025

⏳ Only 2 Days Left to Start in Style! ⏳

Love Tropic? Already raving about the products? Then why not get paid to share what you love!

This month, become a Tropic Ambassador and unlock:
✨ A gorgeous 2-in-1 Beauty Apron
✨ The chance to earn a FREE Youth Potion
✨ PLUS your very own personal shopping account with 25% cashback every month!

Yes, you read that right 25% back every single month on your own orders!

There’s absolutely no pressure to sell, no targets to hit, and no experience needed, just a love for natural, effective skincare and a chance to build something your way.
You can even spread the cost of your starter kit over 3 monthly payments of £66!

Ready to glow up your skincare and earn along the way?

Pop me a message, let’s chat!
Offer ends in just 2 days, so don't miss out!

🎉 Time for an offer!! 🎉Just in time for the bank holiday weekend. When you place an order of £85+ you will get 3 FREE hy...
24/05/2025

🎉 Time for an offer!! 🎉
Just in time for the bank holiday weekend. When you place an order of £85+ you will get 3 FREE hydrogel face masks worth £20‼️

Here are some bundles that you can get your hands on! 😍

Pop me a message or order directly 👇
www.tropicskincare.com/deanafrost

Prevention is KEY to anti ageing! If you’re not using an SPF daily and buying anti ageing products, you’re wasting your ...
18/05/2025

Prevention is KEY to anti ageing!

If you’re not using an SPF daily and buying anti ageing products, you’re wasting your money!!

Do you want to look like this?
If not use SPF daily but Do not forget your neck!!

Our sun creams are so light for factor 50.

☀️ Skin shade tinted sun cream is the most popular, as it’s like a BB cream, giving you a lovely little tan and glow.

☀️ Sun Day is my all time favourite moisturiser, I use it every morning it's a great primer for your makeup 👌

☀️ Great Barrier is great for the body, coconut scent, smells like holidays, this is perfect for all the family 👫👬

☀️ Sun Stick is great for faces particularly little ones

☀️ Skin shade is for the body, great for people who get reactions to sun cream.
Not going to lie, I’m not a fan of this one on me, it sits on top of your skin and leaves a bit of a white cast. But great for babies where you want to viability see and make sure they are covered.

www.tropicskincare.com/deanafrost

Exciting news! 🎉Dee is now officially Masced Accredited in the early detection of melanoma and skin cancer. This means t...
15/05/2025

Exciting news! 🎉
Dee is now officially Masced Accredited in the early detection of melanoma and skin cancer.

This means that during your facials and treatments with me, you're not just receiving glowing results.. I'm also qualified to spot the early signs of suspicious moles or lesions and guide you with the right advice.

Your skin is in safe, knowledgeable hands, and your health and wellbeing is always my top priority.

Lets glow and stay safe together!
If you ever have a concern I'm here to help! 🤗 Xx

Address

87 Stoneybeck Bishop Middleham County Durham
Ferryhill
DL17 9BN

Opening Hours

Monday 9:30am - 6:30pm
Tuesday 9:30am - 6:30pm
Wednesday 9:30am - 6:30pm
Thursday 9:30am - 6:30pm
Friday 9:30am - 6:30pm
Saturday 10am - 4pm

Telephone

+447921078809

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My short story......so far

I created Essential Calm due to my own mental health and wellbeing. The stress of a busy modern life can take it's toll on your body, physically and mentally without you realising it, this happened to me.

My neighbour used to call me the '100 mile an hour woman' (unfortunately not because of what I could achieve at the gym!) but because this was the constant pace of my life, juggling a stressful job, house, children and family needs, leaving no time for me. As a result I started to have health problems, significant stress and depression. Because of this I have realised that a calm mind is essential for self healing. This got me to a much happier and healthier place, and I want to help others make a difference to their own health and wellbeing through Holistic Therapies.

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