12/01/2026
Habits & the Automatic Mind
Habits run more of your life than you might realise.
Some are obvious — smoking, scrolling late at night, snacking when stressed. Others are less obvious: overthinking, people-pleasing, procrastinating, or that automatic inner critic that shows up at the worst moments.
The important thing to know is this: habits aren’t who you are.
They’re learned behaviour patterns — and they can be unlearnt and updated.
Both helpful and unhelpful habits are built in the same way:
Trigger → automatic response → short-term payoff.
Stress, boredom, certain places or people trigger an automatic response that brings temporary relief or comfort — even if it creates problems later.
This is why habits feel so hard to change. You’re not just stopping a behaviour — you’re interrupting a pattern your mind learned for a reason.
Hypnotherapy helps because it works with the automatic (subconscious) part of the mind — the part that runs these patterns on autopilot. In a calm, focused state, it becomes possible to reduce the emotional charge behind triggers and build new, more helpful responses without constant effort or willpower.
If you feel stuck repeating patterns you want to change, hypnotherapy can help.
Free telephone consultation available.
Face to face sessions available in Gillingham, Medway and across Kent and online for further destinations in the UK.
https://paulmillerhypnotherapy.co.uk/