26/09/2024
Life is too short.
6 years ago this weekend I had just hit a new all-time high, just completed my first ever 10k in the Great Scottish Run and it felt absolutely amazing. At the time I ran it not knowing my life was about to come to a crashing halt as my brother had died 3 days earlier in Poland.
In a week and a half I will again be doing the Great Scottish Run in memory of my brother Chris. Itâs a special time for me between when he died on the 26/9 and when we found out on the 04/10 and no matter the time I get I do it for Chris and surrounded with some of my clients.
What followed was 6 of the most difficult weeks of my life, supporting my parents and getting him back from Poland.The whole process of losing my younger brother suddenly gave me a whole new perspective on what is truly important in life (itâs not money, a fancy car, or the latest iPhone).
Surround yourself with what is truly important to you, your family, your friends and the memories you have with them. If you are not happy with your current predicament put plans in place to change it. Donât stay in a job you hate, and donât surround yourself with negative people. Life is too short, donât sit about hating it, find who/what makes you happy and surround yourself with them. Live your life like there is no tomorrow as there may not be.
The last time I saw Chris, we hadnât seen each other since my wedding a year earlier, it was just before he left for Poland he said he was proud of me and what I had achieved in my weight loss journey and in turning my life around. Well Chris Iâm proud to call you my brother and you will always be a part of my life and what drives me forward.
Itâs difficult never getting to properly say goodbye to someone. Me and Chris were never close as adults but no matter what he was still my brother and you never realise how much they mean to you and how much you will miss them until they are gone. I have one ask of you, get in contact with that brother, sister, family member or friend that youâve not spoken to in a while but that matters to you and see how they are doing. Arrange to meet up if possible, and always cherish the memories you have together.. â€ïž