19/05/2026
Started the new Dutton Ranch series on Prime with Leanne on Sunday.
It's the latest Yellow Stone spin off.
My fav character is Rip.
He's got a serious Jack Reacher like aura about him.
When he walks in a room, everyone goes quiet, waiting for something to be said.
A proper hard bastard.
But a loyal servant to the guy who raised him, John Dutton, and his family’s ranch.
And a strong leader for his tribe of cowboys.
He’s also a fountain of stoic wisdom.
Yet one person's presence can change his energy from serious cowboy, to having puppy dog tame.
John's daughter, Beth Dutton.
Beth says something about chasing a peaceful life.
And Rip tells her -
"Honey, you can't chase peace. You gotta live it".
He's bang on.
And the same goes if you want to look and feel your best on your summer holiday.
Or even just confidently go a jog in a vest or look great in a t-shirt in summer.
The guys who never have that tend to chase it.
But only when they feel the pressure of that summer holiday they booked, just 4- 6 weeks around the corner.
Or when a rare period of ‘calm life’ shows up, they go all in (until life gets in the way again).
Those guys never get there.
Because having those results are just a by-product of living the lifestyle.
Results come after living the way.
Not chasing something with sporadic intensity.
All the guys I know who:
Look great in a t-shirt every week of the year.
Go runs in a vest or their summer garden work shirtless, with confidence.
Can say yes to life - a day on the mountains with the guys, running around all day with the kids, a group run or day on the bikes, without gassing out…
They're in that position because they LIVE IT.
Every week, they think ahead about making time for training.
It’s never “if I find time”
They fill their kitchen up with healthy foods.
When they eat out or travel for work, they make the best choices available.
If they have a pizza night with the kids, or beers with the lads, they don't quit or 'start again Monday'...
.. They’re straight back to it.
If they don't have an hour to train, they'll train for 20 minutes instead.
They don’t wait till life feels easier.
Life is easier because of their way of life.
Every guy on a mission needs a code to live by.
When you live by a certain code, you’re less likely to be swayed off the path.
You become someone with traits that other guys admire, and want to see in themselves.
Just like Rip.
Although, Rip can do with losing a few kg's for his own good.
(Not that I'd say that to his face, mind you).
But Rip’s a man of certain principles around loyalty, service to the Ranch, looking after his tribe, and he lives by them to the T.
In a society where it's normal (and expected of you) to be soft, weak, fragile, under muscled and have a wee belly...
You need to live by some strong principles around food, training, and setting an example.
Complete ownership.
Otherwise, you succumb to the same standard as everyone else.
So to that end...
I ask you, do you have a code?
Are you living by principles?
If not, now's as good a time as any to start writing one down.
Dean.