
14/11/2024
The equestrian world is changing, with sensitivity we can be part of that change ❤️🩹
“You’re too sensitive”
This has become increasingly common response to people who stand by their morals and set boundaries that make people feel uncomfortable.
I have been told this before by acquaintances, friends, romantic partners, people on the Internet, family, you name it.
All the times I can recall occur after I have said that I don’t find something funny, that I don’t like being treated a certain way or when I advocate for my animals and how I want them to be treated as well as the greater picture of what I think ethical animal treatment looks like.
It is most often voiced with contempt, the implication being that sensitivity is a bad thing.
But, having a little more sensitivity to the feelings of others and how our behaviour impacts them would make the world a better place.
I feel that a lot of the problems we see in the world are a direct result of a LACK of sensitivity, a lack of empathy, and an unwillingness to put ourselves in other peoples’ shoes.
When it comes to things like making jokes, choosing the right audience is part of being a good comedian.
The fact that people are so often blamed for reacting poorly to a joke that was told to them instead of the person telling it recognizing the that they have the wrong audience, or, perhaps the jokes just isn’t funny.
It pushes a people pleasing rhetoric that implies it is our job to laugh simply because someone was trying to be funny.
It isn’t shameful, embarrassing, or weak to move forward with sensitivity. To stand up against sentiments that you think are damaging to the greater whole of the world.
Standing up for yourself or the animals you love is not weak or over sensitive just because doing so makes someone else feel uncomfortable.
Rather than encouraging people to become more callous, why don’t we encourage a mindset that honours sensitivity and recognize the fact that the emotionality is not inherently bad.
By doing so, we can make the world a safer place for so many.
Embrace sensitivity, the world needs it.