12/05/2026
Three years ago, you would never have seen me like this. 🫣
No makeup. No filter. No carefully controlled version of myself.
Honestly… three years ago, I probably wouldn’t even have pressed record.
I was too aware of every flaw. Every angle. Every insecurity. Too worried about what people might think, say, or judge. I thought confidence came after you finally became “good enough” to be seen.
But the truth is, hiding slowly disconnects you from yourself.
And I know I’m not the only woman who’s felt that. Right?
So much time spent trying to look perfect, hold it together, say the right thing, be liked by everyone… when really all we want is to feel comfortable enough to just be ourselves.
Somewhere along the way, I realised I’d rather be real than constantly exhausted from trying to appear perfect. (It took me a minute to realise - there’s no such thing anyway)
So this is me. Raw. Human. Showing up anyway.
And if people want to judge me for being on camera with no makeup, or just for showing up online? Well… That’s on them…
But at this point in life?
I’m just grateful I can still find my phone, never mind my best angle 😂