
17/03/2023
Currently reading 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson, and I'm gaining SO MUCH wisdom from this book. I particularly liked rule 2: treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping. This chapter brings to light something that immediately resonated with me: why can we help and prioritise others (and our pets) but not ourselves?
Gosh, good question! For a long time, I used to put others before myself. And as I went into a difficult time during Covid with my mental health, I released how essential it was to care for myself, and it took me a while to come to terms with the fact that it's not selfish to help yourself first.
It's a work in progress, but I now feel less and less guilty for doing things that make me feel good and happy 💕✨