10/01/2026
I will never forget the impact this book had on me many years ago and it was the spark that lit the flame that inspired me to seek out the path to become a Play Therapist and what a journey that followed❤️....
Sandra Boyle
Founder
Mind Mosaic Child and Family Therapies
Her seminal book, Dibs in Search of Self, offers a powerful and compassionate illustration of what happens when a child is met with unconditional acceptance, safety and trust. Through Dibs’ journey, Axline showed the world that children do not need fixing, directing, or correcting – they need to be understood.
Child-Centred Play Therapy rests on key principles demonstrated so clearly in Dibs’ story:
🧸 The child leads; the therapist follows
🧸 Play is the child’s natural language
🧸 Behaviour is communication
🧸 Given the right relational conditions, children move towards healing and growth
Within British Association of Play Therapists (BAPT) practice, these principles remain central. Play Therapy provides a protected relational space where children can explore their inner world, make sense of experiences, and develop a stronger sense of self – at their own pace, in their own way.
Dibs in Search of Self reminds us that profound change does not come from control or instruction, but from relationship, attunement and trust in the child’s innate capacity to heal.
💚 Play is not “just play.”
💚 Play is therapeutic work.
💚 Play is how children tell their story.