The Youth Fairy Guildford & Lightwater

The Youth Fairy Guildford & Lightwater We help them SMILE with happiness, SPARKLE with confidence and STRIVE to grow and succeed. We are both LGBTQ+ friendly therapists.

A modern, solution-focused approach to positive change for children, teens and young adults struggling with anxiety, stress, low mood, anger and low confidence. Hello👋 We are Sam and Sarah, therapists at The Youth Fairy, a team of solution-focused therapists who help children, teens and young adults struggling with anxiety, stress, anger, emotional control and low confidence. We use modern, brain-based approaches, including Solution Focused Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy, that actively encourage young people to:

🧚 Re-focus on the positive aspects of life
🧚 Recognise strengths
🧚 Improve quality of sleep
🧚 Engage more in positive activities
🧚 Engage more in positive interactions
🧚 Feel more emotionally in control

We both work with children from 6 years old to young adults and are able to adapt our approach to work with those with additional needs, special educational needs, disabilities and neurodiversity. Areas we work with include:

🧡 Anxiety
🧡 Stress
🧡 Low mood
🧡 Anger management
🧡 Social anxiety
🧡 Low self-esteem
🧡 Low confidence
🧡 Sports/exam performance
🧡 Fears and phobias
🧡 Exam stress and anxiety
🧡 Transition to secondary school/college
🧡 Trauma
🧡 Self-harm
🧡 Sleep problems

We are both extremely passionate about the solution-focused approach to therapy. It encourages children to focus on the positive changes in thoughts, feelings and behaviours they would like to make, without the need to dwell on the past. We look for solutions to problems and focus on how they want thing to be rather than how they don’t want them to be.

🧚About Sarah🧚

In addition to being a therapist, my 25 years experience as a nurse working in critical care, has given me a deep understanding of physical and emotional well-being. I have worked with children and their families at their most vulnerable, navigating both physical and mental challenges, including pain, anxiety, depression and low self-esteem.

🧚About Sam🧚

I began my career as an osteopath and went on to specialise in paediatric osteopathy, helping children to navigate their emotional and physical health. Seeing the rise in children and young adults struggling with anxiety and depression, I realised I wanted to centre my work into helping young people with their mental health. This drove my desire to become a therapist and, of course, a Youth Fairy!

🌟 Next Steps 🌟

🧚Once you have chosen which of us you feel is right for your child, we offer a free, 1 hour initial consultation. This is an opportunity for us to meet, explore best hopes and discuss how we can help your child.

🧚 As well as helping young people make positive changes, educating them on their well-being is something we know to be an important part of the change process.

🧚 So, in the consultation, we'll explain to you and your child how the brain works (in an age-appropriate way) to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms and how we can help.

🌟 This understanding can be really motivational to children as they realise there is hope, see more clearly what we can do about it and supports them in developing more positive, healthy habits for life.

🌟 This knowledge is super helpful for you as a parent too - it allows for greater understanding, creates a common language to talk more easily with your child about their well-being and gives you specific ideas of how you can best support the process (and beyond). You’ll also get our relaxation audio download to help improve any sleep problems they are having and support the process. 😴😴😴

We both hold an up-to-date Enhanced Disclosure and Barring Service (DBS) certificate and are proud members of the following professional bodies:

• National Council for Hypnotherapy (NCH)
• Association for Solution Focused Hypnotherapy (AfSFH)
• Complementary and National Health Council (CNHC)
• National Board of Modern Psychotherapy (NBMP)

⭐️ On the Blog ⭐️ Our blog this week aims to help remove the stigma and raise awareness of what self-injury is and to he...
29/10/2025

⭐️ On the Blog ⭐️

Our blog this week aims to help remove the stigma and raise awareness of what self-injury is and to help encourage individuals, their families, and friends to recognise the signs and seek the right support.

Sadly, self-injury is more commonly performed by teenagers and young adults and is often very misunderstood. It is a serious behaviour that signals an individual is going through intense emotional pain yet, at the same time, has not developed strategies to cope in healthier ways.

Many people may be surprised to know that self-injury is often NOT performed with suicidal intent, but rather, is developed as a coping strategy for dealing with very intense feelings of emotional pain.

💛 Not only is it often difficult to talk about for the individual concerned, but it can also be very distressing to deal with as a loved one or a parent of the young person affected. Opening up a conversation can be challenging, as can knowing where to turn to find the right information or support.

🧚 So, today, we are shining the spotlight on this very emotive topic. With greater understanding, we are in a much stronger position to support our young people through challenging times.

So, with that in mind, head on over to the parent pad and take a read of this week’s blog to find out…

👉 What self-injury is (and what it isn’t).
👉 Why young people might self-injure and what is happening in the brain to create these behaviours.
👉 How to spot the signs and support your child.
👉 Where to go for further help, advice, and support.

Take a read here…

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/self-injury-awareness/

🧚 My SMILE for Parents programme is designed to help you regain a greater sense of emotional control and will support yo...
28/10/2025

🧚 My SMILE for Parents programme is designed to help you regain a greater sense of emotional control and will support you in making those positive changes in thoughts and behaviours you need to feel calmer, happier and much more confident as a person – and as a parent.

And the great thing is our Solution Focused approach means you don’t need to excessively talk about past problems, your perceived ‘parenting mistakes’ (even Youth Fairies have felt that completely unhelpful parent guilt) or trauma in order to get you back on top of things and feeling like yourself again.

Can help to...

✔️ Boost feelings of overall happiness
✔️ Cope calmly with everyday situations
✔️ Feel in control of reactions, thoughts & emotions
✔️ Rediscover your confidence & self-recognition
✔️ Develop a more positive outlook
✔️ Interact more positively with others
✔️ Cope better with life challenges
✔️ Improve connection with your child(ren)
✔️ Improve sleep problems

✨ Discover more here

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/programmes/smile-for-parents/

For more information on OCD head to the parent pad at the Youth Fairy
27/10/2025

For more information on OCD head to the parent pad at the Youth Fairy

✨ Keep dreaming, little dreamers - even when others can’t see your magic yet.
27/10/2025

✨ Keep dreaming, little dreamers - even when others can’t see your magic yet.

It's that time of year again - family fun at fright night!
26/10/2025

It's that time of year again - family fun at fright night!

25/10/2025

Not all of us have super powers but we do all have STRENGTHS!

Knowing your strengths :-

💪Boosts confidence as you understand what you’re good at
Improves decision-making as you can make smarter choices when you align them with your strengths.
💪Enhances performance because focusing on what you do well helps you work more efficiently, enjoy your tasks, and achieve better results.
💪Supports personal growth by allowing you to build on your strengths while also identifying areas where you might want to improve.
💪Builds stronger relationships because you can better appreciate and complement the strengths of others — leading to more effective teamwork and communication.
💪Increases motivation and satisfaction as doing what you’re naturally good at feels rewarding, which keeps you motivated and engaged.
So what are your strengths? 😁

✨ Tiny steps count too - every small moment of growth is a little bit of magic in motion. 🧚‍♀️ What small thing can you ...
23/10/2025

✨ Tiny steps count too - every small moment of growth is a little bit of magic in motion.

🧚‍♀️ What small thing can you change today?

🌟 On the Blog 🌟 OCD stands for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, which is a type of anxiety disorder, causing the person to...
22/10/2025

🌟 On the Blog 🌟

OCD stands for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, which is a type of anxiety disorder, causing the person to obsess over small things and compulsively perform certain rituals. The person struggling with OCD can feel compelled to carry out specific behaviours or rituals, having constant thoughts about them, even when they try really hard not to.

OCD can be caused by a variety of factors such as:

👉 Genetics
👉 Specific brain chemistry
👉 Environmental factors

The symptoms can be exasperated by:

😔 An increase in stress
😔 Anxiety
😔 or challenging, traumatic circumstances

The obsessive nature of this disorder is very much driven by the primitive part of our brain – whose primary concern is to keep us safe. OCD creates both fear and doubt and means that the person may at times seem to manage their compulsion in the moment (especially if they are working to cope in a social setting) but will then need to continually recall the events and doubt that they took the required action to keep themselves, or others, safe.

😬 The person feels, often subconsciously, that by doing these they are keeping the polar bear away. It’s not uncommon for the person to start to believe that not doing the ritual will result in something bad happening to them or a loved one.

😔 One of the challenges that people with OCD face is the need to fight both the stigma of mental health disorders and the widely held belief that OCD is a mild or even “quirky” problem that is nothing more than hand washing. Many people now use the term “a bit OCD” to describe an individual who is particularly ordered or organised, without understanding the debilitating nature of this disorder.

It is a serious disorder, however, that can severely impact a person’s quality of life. So, if you are concerned about a young person you love and care for, take a read of our blog in full to find:

👉 Where to go for help and support
👉 More about how OCD is created in the brain
👉 How to help break the negative cycle of behaviour

Take a read here: 👇👇👇

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/spotlighting-ocd/

🧚 My Schools programme offers a number of options that support the mental health education and wellbeing of children and...
21/10/2025

🧚 My Schools programme offers a number of options that support the mental health education and wellbeing of children and teachers.

Areas I can have a positive impact on include attendance, behaviour, performance (exam, sports, stage), engagement, retention, general wellbeing and I can tailor the programme to focus on your school’s needs at any given time.

At a glance...

✔️ Primary, Secondary and Post-16
✔️ Group wellbeing programmes for students
✔️ Group wellbeing programmes for teachers
✔️ One to One Therapy for students
✔️ CPD for teachers & pastoral staff
✔️ Workshops for parents on children’s mental health
✔️ Understand the neuroscience of mental health
✔️ Outcome measuring software to evidence impact
✔️ Happy, confident, motivated, resilient pupils & staff

Find out more here

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/programmes/strive/

With the right support, children can unlearn fear and build emotional strength that lasts a lifetime. 💛
20/10/2025

With the right support, children can unlearn fear and build emotional strength that lasts a lifetime. 💛

I love a cosy Sunday afternoon!🐶😁
19/10/2025

I love a cosy Sunday afternoon!🐶😁

18/10/2025

Positive interactions helps us to encourage our brain to release those 'feel good chemical' and that in turn promotes mental wellbeing.
How have you connected with others today? Why not be the reason someone else smiles?
Whether its a kind word, gesture or thoughtful act, it can not only have a huge impact on the person on the receiving end but also you! 😁🤩

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