The Youth Fairy Guildford & Lightwater

The Youth Fairy Guildford & Lightwater We help them SMILE with happiness, SPARKLE with confidence and STRIVE to grow and succeed. We are both LGBTQ+ friendly therapists.

A modern, solution-focused approach to positive change for children, teens and young adults struggling with anxiety, stress, low mood, anger and low confidence. Hello👋 We are Sam and Sarah, therapists at The Youth Fairy, a team of solution-focused therapists who help children, teens and young adults struggling with anxiety, stress, anger, emotional control and low confidence. We use modern, brain-based approaches, including Solution Focused Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy, that actively encourage young people to:

🧚 Re-focus on the positive aspects of life
🧚 Recognise strengths
🧚 Improve quality of sleep
🧚 Engage more in positive activities
🧚 Engage more in positive interactions
🧚 Feel more emotionally in control

We both work with children from 6 years old to young adults and are able to adapt our approach to work with those with additional needs, special educational needs, disabilities and neurodiversity. Areas we work with include:

🧡 Anxiety
🧡 Stress
🧡 Low mood
🧡 Anger management
🧡 Social anxiety
🧡 Low self-esteem
🧡 Low confidence
🧡 Sports/exam performance
🧡 Fears and phobias
🧡 Exam stress and anxiety
🧡 Transition to secondary school/college
🧡 Trauma
🧡 Self-harm
🧡 Sleep problems

We are both extremely passionate about the solution-focused approach to therapy. It encourages children to focus on the positive changes in thoughts, feelings and behaviours they would like to make, without the need to dwell on the past. We look for solutions to problems and focus on how they want thing to be rather than how they don’t want them to be.

🧚About Sarah🧚

In addition to being a therapist, my 25 years experience as a nurse working in critical care, has given me a deep understanding of physical and emotional well-being. I have worked with children and their families at their most vulnerable, navigating both physical and mental challenges, including pain, anxiety, depression and low self-esteem.

🧚About Sam🧚

I began my career as an osteopath and went on to specialise in paediatric osteopathy, helping children to navigate their emotional and physical health. Seeing the rise in children and young adults struggling with anxiety and depression, I realised I wanted to centre my work into helping young people with their mental health. This drove my desire to become a therapist and, of course, a Youth Fairy!

🌟 Next Steps 🌟

🧚Once you have chosen which of us you feel is right for your child, we offer a free, 1 hour initial consultation. This is an opportunity for us to meet, explore best hopes and discuss how we can help your child.

🧚 As well as helping young people make positive changes, educating them on their well-being is something we know to be an important part of the change process.

🧚 So, in the consultation, we'll explain to you and your child how the brain works (in an age-appropriate way) to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms and how we can help.

🌟 This understanding can be really motivational to children as they realise there is hope, see more clearly what we can do about it and supports them in developing more positive, healthy habits for life.

🌟 This knowledge is super helpful for you as a parent too - it allows for greater understanding, creates a common language to talk more easily with your child about their well-being and gives you specific ideas of how you can best support the process (and beyond). You’ll also get our relaxation audio download to help improve any sleep problems they are having and support the process. 😴😴😴

We both hold an up-to-date Enhanced Disclosure and Barring Service (DBS) certificate and are proud members of the following professional bodies:

• National Council for Hypnotherapy (NCH)
• Association for Solution Focused Hypnotherapy (AfSFH)
• Complementary and National Health Council (CNHC)
• National Board of Modern Psychotherapy (NBMP)

At The Youth Fairy, we believe it's not about having all the answers - it's about being there, learning, and growing wit...
04/09/2025

At The Youth Fairy, we believe it's not about having all the answers - it's about being there, learning, and growing with your child every step of the way 🥰
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✨ On the Blog ✨ This week, we’re shining the spotlight on Separation Anxiety.Whilst Separation Anxiety is something that...
03/09/2025

✨ On the Blog ✨ This week, we’re shining the spotlight on Separation Anxiety.
Whilst Separation Anxiety is something that is an expected part of development in babies (often experienced around 8 to 12 months) it is usually addressed by the age of 2 years.

Sometimes, however, this anxiety can persist long into childhood and can hugely limit a child’s life and their ability to develop independence and confidence without the presence of a parent or caregiver.

Separation anxiety disorder is a strong and persistent fear of being away from parents or loved ones.
Signs of Separation Anxiety may include:

😔 Clinging to a parent when being left (this can be leaving the room, leaving at school or at bedtime)
😔 Extreme, continued, and severe crying on being left
😔 Nightmares around separation
😔 Not wanting to sleep alone
😔 Refusal to do clubs, activities, parties etc which require separation
😔 Difficulties interacting with other children
😔 Headaches or vomiting
😔 Refusing to attend school
😔 Tantrums and emotional or violent outbursts associated with separation.

Separation Anxiety may be affected by a parent experiencing anxiety or by stressful events such as:

👉 Moving home
👉 Moving schools
👉 Divorce
👉 Death of a family member

Remember, this fear is very real for your child. They are fearful that you will not return or that something will happen to you or to them if you are not together.
Our blog this week covers tips on supporting your child through this and helping them find ways to cope better including:

✨ Creating opportunities for them to practice
✨ Sticking to a routine as much as possible
✨ Being positive
✨ Providing connection
✨ Validating their feelings

To read more about Separation Anxiety, and how you may be able to help your child and recognise the signs, grab a cuppa and head on over to The Parent Pad to read our blog in full!

Take a read here…
https://www.theyouthfairy.com/spotlighting-separation-anxiety/

A BIG Hello 👋👋👋 to all of our new followers. 🧚‍♂️ We are Sarah and Sam, therapists at The Youth Fairy Guildford & Lightw...
02/09/2025

A BIG Hello 👋👋👋 to all of our new followers.

🧚‍♂️ We are Sarah and Sam, therapists at The Youth Fairy Guildford & Lightwater and we specialise in working with children, teenagers and young adults struggling with the effects of anxiety, stress, anger, low mood and low confidence

We use solution-focused Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy to help children and young people:

🧚 Re-focus on the positive aspects of their lives
🧚 Recognise strengths and capabilities
🧚 Improve quality of sleep
🧚 Engage more in positive activities/interactions
🧚 Feel more in control of their emotions and lives

We support children as young as 6 years old to young adults, both neurotypical and neurodiverse, tailoring our approach to their needs.

Areas we work with include:

🧡 Anxiety
🧡 Stress
🧡 Low mood
🧡 Anger management
🧡 Social anxiety
🧡 EBSA
🧡 Low self-esteem
🧡 Low confidence
🧡 Sports/exam performance
🧡 Fears and phobias
🧡 Exam stress and anxiety
🧡 Transition to secondary school/college
🧡 Trauma
🧡 Self-harm
🧡 Sleep problems

🧚 About Us 🧚

⭐️ Sarah ⭐️

In addition to being a therapist, my 25 years experience as a nurse working in critical care, has given me a deep understanding of physical and emotional well-being.

I have worked with children and their families at their most vulnerable, navigating both physical and mental challenges, including pain, anxiety, depression and low self-esteem.

⭐️ Sam ⭐️

I began my career as an osteopath and went on to specialise in paediatric osteopathy, helping children to navigate their emotional and physical health.

Seeing the rise in children and young adults struggling with anxiety and depression, I realised I wanted to centre my work into helping young people with their mental health. This drove my desire to become a therapist and, of course, a Youth Fairy!

🧚‍♂️ Next Steps 🧚‍♂️

🧚 We both offer a free, 1 hour, Initial Consultation to meet your child, find out more and discuss best hopes.

🧚 During this, we will also help you and your child understand how their brain works to create their particular struggles (in an age-appropriate way).

🧚 This understanding can be really helpful to children as they can see more clearly what we can do about it and how to develop more positive, healthy habits for life.

You can discover more about us here on the website and get in touch if you'd like to have a call or book an Initial Consultation. 👇👇👇

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/fairies/

We’ve all been there…Leave a 💚if you agree!
01/09/2025

We’ve all been there…

Leave a 💚if you agree!

31/08/2025

Thrill seeking! Enjoying the last few days of the summer holidays riding rollercoasters 🎢😀
What's your favourite ride?

🧚‍♂️ Its the best advice we can give…Be Kind to each other 🫶
28/08/2025

🧚‍♂️ Its the best advice we can give…

Be Kind to each other 🫶

❤️ Watching your child go through a crisis is one of the hardest things a parent can face. You might feel helpless, conf...
27/08/2025

❤️ Watching your child go through a crisis is one of the hardest things a parent can face. You might feel helpless, confused, or unsure of what to do next.

But you don’t have to have all the answers to make a difference.

This blog offers practical tips to help you support your child when they’re overwhelmed - whether they’re shutting down, lashing out, or just not themselves. You’ll learn:

✔️ What a crisis can look like (it’s not always obvious)
✔️ How their brain reacts under stress
✔️ Simple, calming strategies that really help
✔️ Where to turn if you need extra support

🌱 If your child is struggling, start here. Your calm presence matters more than you know.

📖 Read the blog now https://www.theyouthfairy.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-is-in-crisis/

⭐️ Did you know?We offer a free 1-hour consultation to discuss your child’s situation and how we can help them regain mo...
26/08/2025

⭐️ Did you know?

We offer a free 1-hour consultation to discuss your child’s situation and how we can help them regain more emotional control and feel happier, calmer and much more confident in a relatively short amount of time.✨

🧡 We passionately believe that educating children about their mental health is an essential part of the change process, so we will explain to you and your child how the brain works to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms.

🧚‍♀️ The Youth Fairy has a series of programmes that can help and inspire.

🧚‍♀️ We work with & help a range of ages of children from primary school age right up to teens & young adults.

Head on over to my website to find out more...

www.theyouthfairy.com

🧚‍♂️ Sending you all Love & Positivity Happy Bank Holidaying 🧡www.theyouthfairy.com
25/08/2025

🧚‍♂️ Sending you all Love & Positivity

Happy Bank Holidaying 🧡

www.theyouthfairy.com

24/08/2025

What a week it's been, full of outdoor and indoor activities and fun, family times together making memories. 😎😍👍⛱

23/08/2025

With the last few weeks seeing the release of A level and GCSE results it's so important to celebrate all the effort put into the achievements and not just the end results.
This will help to maintain motivation in a healthy way! celebrating progress builds momentum and reduces risk of burnout.
By aligning our goals to personal values and interests motivation becomes more meaningful and enjoyable.
Mental and physical wellbeing (nutrition, sleep, rest, creativity) help us to maintain the right energy levels and assist in keeping us motivated.

We are social beings so encouragement, support and accountability can really help maintain motivation. 👍🧠
Find out what works best for you! 😁💪

✨ To all of the Brilliant Funny Amazing Beautiful students collecting their GCSE's this morning...This is just the begin...
21/08/2025

✨ To all of the Brilliant Funny Amazing Beautiful students collecting their GCSE's this morning...

This is just the beginning 💪

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