Dr Jo Gee Psychotherapy

Dr Jo Gee Psychotherapy Psychiatry and psychotherapy ๐ŸŒฑSurrey clinic ๐ŸŒฑ Worldwide DBT programme ๐ŸŒฑ Personality disorders

Starting therapy can feel like a big step. You might not know what to expect, if it will help, or how to even beginโ€ฆThat...
04/05/2026

Starting therapy can feel like a big step. You might not know what to expect, if it will help, or how to even beginโ€ฆ

Thatโ€™s why having the right therapist can make all the difference.

๐Œ๐ž๐ž๐ญ ๐Œ๐š๐ข, our CBT therapist. She works with a wide range of difficulties, including anxiety, OCD, PTSD, depression and low self-esteem. She also has a particular interest in working with people managing long-term health conditions, co-morbidities and neurodevelopmental differences like ADHD and autism.

Maiโ€™s approach is collaborative and goal-focused, working closely with her clients to understand how their thoughts and emotions are connected to their behaviours. With over seven years of experience across different settings, Mai offers clinical expertise and a compassionate, non-judgemental approach.

Mai is passionate about reducing the stigma around mental health and helping people develop practical coping skills. If youโ€™re at all hesitant about starting therapy, Mai will ease you in to help you make the changes you want in your life.

Starting therapy can feel like a ๐›๐ข๐  step.There are a lot of people who are hesitant at the start. Theyโ€™re not sure what...
02/05/2026

Starting therapy can feel like a ๐›๐ข๐  step.

There are a lot of people who are hesitant at the start. Theyโ€™re not sure what it will be like, whether it will help, or if itโ€™s even the right thing to do.

Just remember - that hesitation is completely normal, and getting started is usually the hardest part.

Once people start therapy, they quickly realise itโ€™s not as daunting as they imagined. No oneโ€™s judging you or telling you what to do!

Therapy is all about being understood, building awareness, and finding the best way for you to move forward.

Itโ€™s okay to be unsure at first. Just reach out to us - weโ€™ll guide you each step of the way.

Itโ€™s easy for thoughts to start spiralling, and it doesnโ€™t take long for them to take over completely!It starts with one...
30/04/2026

Itโ€™s easy for thoughts to start spiralling, and it doesnโ€™t take long for them to take over completely!

It starts with one thought, which leads to another, then anotherโ€ฆ Before you know it, youโ€™re worrying about everything under the sun, and it all seems impossible to deal with.

Itโ€™s easy to believe every thought that pops up in a spiral - but ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ž. Theyโ€™re warped by stress, past experiences, and your mind trying to protect itself (even if it doesnโ€™t feel that way at the time!).

Thatโ€™s why itโ€™s important to ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง.

You donโ€™t have to get rid of those thoughts altogether, but try to ๐›๐ž ๐š๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐ž of whatโ€™s happening and give yourself a bit of time before reacting.

Once the spiral starts, notice your thoughts, relax, and then address what youโ€™re thinking. Try grounding yourself and challenging the thoughts to help you choose how to respond.

These steps might sound simple, but after a bit of practice, youโ€™ll soon find yourself in control of your thoughts again!

From the outside, everything can look fine. Youโ€™re keeping up with work, replying to messages, getting through your dayโ€ฆ...
28/04/2026

From the outside, everything can look fine. Youโ€™re keeping up with work, replying to messages, getting through your dayโ€ฆ but only ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต.

Underneath all that, things can feel much harder than they seem on the surface.

Simple tasks take more effort. Focus comes and goes. You constantly feel behind, even when youโ€™re trying your best!

Lots of people experience this, especially when theyโ€™re dealing with ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ, ๐š๐ง๐ฑ๐ข๐ž๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐›๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ or just being overwhelmed for such a long time. For others, it can be linked to ๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ or ๐š๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฆ, especially if theyโ€™ve learned to mask or push through without support.

Whatever the cause, it doesnโ€™t matter how invisible your struggle is to others - it doesnโ€™t make it any less real.

Therapy can help you understand how your mind works, helping you go from coping to actually feeling in control.

Most people come to therapy hoping to feel better, but what often makes the biggest difference is ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ ๐ฐ๐ก...
26/04/2026

Most people come to therapy hoping to feel better, but what often makes the biggest difference is ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐ ๐จ ๐ฐ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ .

Therapy wonโ€™t make difficult moments disappear completely. After all, stress, setbacks, accidents, overwhelming emotions are all part of life!

But being able to cope with these difficult moments is what really helps.

Thatโ€™s why therapy isnโ€™t just about feeling better in the short term. Itโ€™s also about helping you build the skills and confidence you need to navigate whatever challenges come next - and thatโ€™s something weโ€™re proud to have helped people with!

Reaching out for help is never easy.You might not know what to say, where to start or even whether youโ€™re making the rig...
24/04/2026

Reaching out for help is never easy.

You might not know what to say, where to start or even whether youโ€™re making the right decisionโ€ฆ

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ.

๐Œ๐ž๐ž๐ญ ๐‰๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐ญ, the first person youโ€™ll speak to when you contact the clinic. She supports our practitioners with triage, bookings and session planning, helping you find the right next step.

But more than that, Julietโ€™s someone people can talk to - someone who can listen to you, reassure you and help make things feel clearer in those early stages.

No question is too big or too small.

If youโ€™re thinking about reaching out, Juliet will be there to guide you through each step.

Do you ever feel like you ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ be able to cope on your own? Like needing help means youโ€™re not strong enough or someho...
22/04/2026

Do you ever feel like you ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ be able to cope on your own? Like needing help means youโ€™re not strong enough or somehow failing?

Youโ€™re not alone. Lots of people believe this without even realising it. They just suppress things and try to push through, figuring everything out themselvesโ€ฆ

Coping isnโ€™t something youโ€™re just born knowing how to do - but it ๐˜ช๐˜ด something you can ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ง.

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ž๐ฌ ๐ƒ๐๐“ ๐๐ข๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ.

DBT isnโ€™t just another therapy where you talk things through. Itโ€™s all about building ๐ฉ๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐š๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ค๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฌ you can rely on when things get overwhelming - skills for when emotions hit hard, when your thoughts spiral, when life doesnโ€™t go to planโ€ฆ

Learning those skills is what you need to finally start feeling like you can cope by yourself.

Get in touch with us to find out how DBT can help you!

Do you ever feel like youโ€™re too much? Too sensitive, too intense, too talkativeโ€ฆOr the opposite - like youโ€™re not enoug...
20/04/2026

Do you ever feel like youโ€™re too much? Too sensitive, too intense, too talkativeโ€ฆ

Or the opposite - like youโ€™re not enough? Not focused enough, not organised enough, not consistent enoughโ€ฆ

A lot of people with ADHD or autism grow up feeling like this, constantly trying to change themselves to fit whateverโ€™s expected of them.

This can work for a while, but over time, you start to question your personality, your abilities and even your own worth.

If you ever feel like youโ€™re โ€œtoo muchโ€ or โ€œnot enoughโ€, itโ€™s because youโ€™ve been measuring yourself against all these expectations that were never designed with ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ in mind.

Understanding how your ADHD or autistic mind works can help you start to make sense of things - and for many people, that all starts with an assessment.

We have appointments available for prompt ADHD and autism assessments, so get in touch with us to book now!

Do your emotions linger around for longer than they do for others?Youโ€™re not alone. For some people, emotions donโ€™t just...
18/04/2026

Do your emotions linger around for longer than they do for others?

Youโ€™re not alone. For some people, emotions donโ€™t just come and go; instead, they can become so overwhelming and fast-moving that they feel almost impossible to manage.

This is just how your emotional system responds naturally, but there are ways to make things easier.

DBT was developed to support people overwhelmed by emotions like this, helping them to understand whatโ€™s going on in their mind and how to respond more effectively.

With DBT skills under your belt, it becomes easier to pause, regulate your emotions and get through difficult moments without making things worse.

Discover more about our DBT programme here: https://www.onlinedbt.co.uk/

Growing up with ADHD, you might have heard people complain that you were ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ป๐˜บ, ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ or ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜บ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ...
16/04/2026

Growing up with ADHD, you might have heard people complain that you were ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ป๐˜บ, ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ or ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜บ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜จ๐˜ฉโ€ฆ But that isnโ€™t really whatโ€™s going on.

For many people with ADHD, the hardest part of a task can be ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ. Even when you want to do something, many feel stuck at the starting line.

That disconnect between ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ to do something and actually ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ to begin can be incredibly frustrating, especially when you know exactly what needs to be done.

Itโ€™s important to understand ADHD so you can reframe this. Donโ€™t assume itโ€™s a lack of effort - itโ€™s just how your brain initiates and sustains tasks differently.

Emma leads our DBT programme, helping people navigate intense emotions with practical, real-life skills.She supports cli...
14/04/2026

Emma leads our DBT programme, helping people navigate intense emotions with practical, real-life skills.

She supports clients with a wide range of difficulties, particularly trauma and personality disorders, as well as anxiety, depression and perinatal issues.

Emmaโ€™s approach is all about building a genuine, trusting relationship, creating a space where people feel safe enough to explore whatโ€™s going on in their lives and start to make sense of it.

Alongside her integrative psychotherapy, Emma specialises in DBT, helping people develop practical skills to manage their emotions and build resilience so they feel more in control when things get difficult.

Executive function refers to the mental skills we all have that help us to plan, organise and complete tasks.But for peo...
12/04/2026

Executive function refers to the mental skills we all have that help us to plan, organise and complete tasks.

But for people with ADHD, these processes feel much less consistent than they do for others, even when they know exactly what needs to be done.

ADHD isn't just about attention. It affects executive function to the point where many feel stuck trying to start a task, struggle to stay organised and find it difficult to follow something through to the end.

This is why ADHD is misunderstood. From the outside, many people assume it's a lack of effort - but if you step inside the mind of someone with ADHD, you'll discover they're constantly trying to get going, stay on track and keep upโ€ฆ but it's just much, much harder.

Understanding executive function helps shift that perspective to give people with ADHD the support and strategies that might actually help.

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