Dr Jo Gee Psychotherapy

Dr Jo Gee Psychotherapy Psychiatry and psychotherapy ๐ŸŒฑSurrey clinic ๐ŸŒฑ Worldwide DBT programme ๐ŸŒฑ Personality disorders

Today is  , so hereโ€™s a reminder that kindness doesnโ€™t have to be big and bold to be impactful.In fact, research shows t...
05/09/2025

Today is , so hereโ€™s a reminder that kindness doesnโ€™t have to be big and bold to be impactful.

In fact, research shows that charity doesnโ€™t just benefit whoever youโ€™re helping either. Acts of generosity boost mood, reduce stress and strengthen your sense of connection.

Charity can be as simple or grand as you like; you can check in on a neighbour or friend, volunteer for an organisation, donate clothes to a charity shop or even just listen to someone as they talk through their worries.

Charity doesnโ€™t just help those who need it. Whether youโ€™re giving or receiving, it eases isolation, builds community and supports wellbeing.

Youโ€™ve probably heard of โ€œfight or flightโ€... but have you heard of ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ž๐ž๐ณ๐ž?Instead of fighting or running away, some peo...
03/09/2025

Youโ€™ve probably heard of โ€œfight or flightโ€... but have you heard of ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ž๐ž๐ณ๐ž?

Instead of fighting or running away, some people respond by freezing - they might zone out or go blank, feel paralysed or unable to move, or just go emotionally numb.

Like fight and flight, freeze is another way your nervous system protects you when it senses danger without a clear escape.

So donโ€™t worry if you freeze up sometimes - youโ€™re not lazy or broken. Your bodyโ€™s just overwhelmed and doing its best to keep you safe.

Therapy helps you recognise these patterns, calm your nervous system and build tools to get you moving whenever you feel stuck.

In a world where we type faster than we think, writing a letter feels more special than ever before.World Letter Writing...
01/09/2025

In a world where we type faster than we think, writing a letter feels more special than ever before.

World Letter Writing Day is a reminder of the power behind pen & paperโ€ฆ

๐’๐š๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐”๐ง๐ฌ๐š๐ข๐: Letters often give you the courage to share feelings you would usually keep locked away.
๐…๐ข๐ง๐ ๐‚๐ฅ๐š๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ: Putting your thoughts down on paper can help you untangle your thoughts and emotions.
๐‹๐ž๐ญ ๐ˆ๐ญ ๐†๐จ: Writing letters you donโ€™t even mean to send can lighten the load of past hurt or worries.
๐๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ฌ: A handwritten note means more than a hundred texts.
๐๐ž ๐Š๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ: Try writing yourself a letter you would love to get from a friend, full of compassion and encouragement.

Why not take five minutes today to write a short letter? It can be to a loved one, your future self or even someone youโ€™ll never even send it to.

It might just be a small act of reflection, but it might just open your heart as well.

Healing isnโ€™t usually loud.It might be as quiet and simple as finally sleeping through the night, speaking up without yo...
31/08/2025

Healing isnโ€™t usually loud.

It might be as quiet and simple as finally sleeping through the night, speaking up without your voice shaking, or facing a trigger without panicking.

These changes might seem quiet and go unnoticedโ€ฆ but theyโ€™re major signs of healing you should be proud of.

Healing isnโ€™t loud and it isnโ€™t instant - but small steps like this count, and theyโ€™re worth celebrating.

Itโ€™s hard to imagine a peaceful, easy-going life when youโ€™ve been struggling for so long.In fact, struggling can become ...
30/08/2025

Itโ€™s hard to imagine a peaceful, easy-going life when youโ€™ve been struggling for so long.

In fact, struggling can become a way of life for some people, sometimes to the point where they canโ€™t imagine who they would be without anxiety.

Therapy isnโ€™t just about managing symptoms though. Itโ€™s about rediscovering who you are behind the pain.

Youโ€™re not defined by your struggle. The bits of you that enjoy hobbies, create art and connect with friends are who you truly are.

Do you ever feel overwhelmed without even knowing whyโ€ฆ?That could be an ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐š๐ฌ๐ก๐›๐š๐œ๐ค.Emotional flashbacks donโ€™t r...
29/08/2025

Do you ever feel overwhelmed without even knowing whyโ€ฆ?

That could be an ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐š๐ฌ๐ก๐›๐š๐œ๐ค.

Emotional flashbacks donโ€™t replay images and events in your mind like normal memory flashbacks. Instead, they bring back all the ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด - even if youโ€™d rather forget them.

Fear, shame, panic, sadness... They can all bubble up to the surface at a momentโ€™s notice. It doesnโ€™t mean youโ€™re extra sensitive or overreacting though. It just means your nervous system is still carrying all that pain you never properly processed.

Therapy can help you understand this, teaching you how to stay calm and separate the past from the present.

โ€œThatโ€™s not trueโ€ฆ Theyโ€™re just being niceโ€ฆโ€Sound familiar? If youโ€™ve ever said something like this, youโ€™re not alone. Lo...
28/08/2025

โ€œThatโ€™s not trueโ€ฆ Theyโ€™re just being niceโ€ฆโ€

Sound familiar? If youโ€™ve ever said something like this, youโ€™re not alone. Lots of people actually find compliments uncomfortable - sometimes even painful!

Thatโ€™s often because your self-worth has been so wounded in the past that praise can feelโ€ฆ strange. Those old criticisms drown out any kind words and make you reluctant to accept compliments.

๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ.

Most of the time, they are genuine ways people see you in real life, and thereโ€™s no shame in accepting them.

Many people work on rebuilding their self-worth in therapy, letting you appreciate the compliments you receive - and even believe them too!

Beyond their wagging tails and muddy pawprints, dogs carry some quiet wisdom we should all listen toโ€ฆโค๏ธ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ...
26/08/2025

Beyond their wagging tails and muddy pawprints, dogs carry some quiet wisdom we should all listen toโ€ฆ

โค๏ธ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ, showing more compassion than we can possibly imagine.
โณ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ, focusing on the joys in front of them instead of worrying about the past or future.
โฐ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐จ๐ง ๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ž, reminding us that stability isnโ€™t boring - it helps us stay calm!
โšฝ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐š๐ฒ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐š๐ฒ, showing us that joy is important no matter your age.
๐Ÿค ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒโ€™๐ซ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐š๐ฆ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฒ๐š๐ฅ, showing the power of safe and long-lasting connections.

Lots of dog owners admit that they learn more from their dogs than they ever thought was possible. Thatโ€™s because these are more than just doggy quirks - theyโ€™re valuable lessons in resilience, balance and joy.

On , take a little dog wisdom with you - love fully, rest often, play more and always live in the moment.

You donโ€™t need a wagging tail to live like a dog!

Notting Hill Carnival is more than just a party.Itโ€™s a celebration of community, culture, music and self-expression.When...
24/08/2025

Notting Hill Carnival is more than just a party.

Itโ€™s a celebration of community, culture, music and self-expression.

Whenever we come together to dance, laugh and spread a bit of joy, itโ€™s not just about having fun. Itโ€™s an important way to build connections, reduce stress and give our minds a break from the daily grind.

In fact, celebration is a powerful part of healing. It reminds us how important joy is, and that making space for happiness is central to our mental wellbeing.

So whether or not youโ€™re headed to this year, hereโ€™s to colour, culture and connections!

Ever wished you could pause for a moment before reacting? Thatโ€™s where mentalisation can come in handy.Mentalising is al...
23/08/2025

Ever wished you could pause for a moment before reacting? Thatโ€™s where mentalisation can come in handy.

Mentalising is all about understanding your own thoughts, feelings and intentions, as well as other peopleโ€™s.

It can reduce conflict in conversations, help you respond instead of react, reduce emotional overwhelm and strengthen relationships.

Mentalisation is a skill you need to practice, and therapy can help you perfect it. Itโ€™s something youโ€™ll come across alongside DBT and other integrative models when therapists want to help you have more space between what you ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ and what you ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ.

If you want to get better at responding and not reacting, with more calm, clarity and better communication, then mentalisation could be a great place to start!

You probably think guilt and shame are similar, but they actually work very differently.๐†๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ is focused on your actions...
22/08/2025

You probably think guilt and shame are similar, but they actually work very differently.

๐†๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ is focused on your actions more than your identity, and it can actually help you to grow and repair.

๐’๐ก๐š๐ฆ๐ž focuses on you as a problem, potentially shutting you down and damaging your self-esteem.

One is about making amends, while the other is about feeling unworthy - and itโ€™s hard to tell the two apart by yourself.

In therapy, we work to separate the two, turning guilt into a tool for change and making sure shame doesnโ€™t hold as much power over you.

GCSE results can be strange. They can make you cheer, make you cry or sometimes make you scratch your head in confusionโ€ฆ...
21/08/2025

GCSE results can be strange. They can make you cheer, make you cry or sometimes make you scratch your head in confusionโ€ฆ But no matter your results, theyโ€™re just one chapter in your story.

GCSEs can feel huge at the time, but theyโ€™re not the be all and end all. Results are just the first step. You need toโ€ฆ
โ€ข Celebrate everything youโ€™ve achieved
โ€ข Reflect on what you enjoyed and what challenged you
โ€ข Explore all the routes available, including ones you hadnโ€™t thought of before
โ€ข Make a short-term plan to keep yourself moving forward
โ€ข Reach out for support if you need it

GCSEs are just the start of your path, and there are still plenty of ways forward. The choice is yours!

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