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Dr Jo Gee Psychotherapy Psychiatry and psychotherapy ๐ŸŒฑSurrey clinic ๐ŸŒฑ Worldwide DBT programme ๐ŸŒฑ Personality disorders

Just because you grow up doesnโ€™t mean your inner child disappears.In fact, the fear, shame or anxiety you might feel tod...
23/07/2025

Just because you grow up doesnโ€™t mean your inner child disappears.

In fact, the fear, shame or anxiety you might feel today can sometimes be rooted in old wounds that never quite healed.

Do any of these sound familiar?
โ€ข You feel hurt easily, even by small things
โ€ข You shut down when someoneโ€™s upset with you
โ€ข You constantly try to earn love or approval
โ€ข Youโ€™re scared to express your needs

If any of these sound familiar, then your inner child might need some comfort.

๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐š๐ฉ๐ฒ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ - it can guide you to discover where these patterns come from, learn to self-soothe and build emotional safety in the present.

You donโ€™t need to carry those unmet needs alone!

โ€œWhen should I consider medication?โ€Itโ€™s a question lots of people ask, usually with a bit of of worry or shameโ€ฆ But psy...
21/07/2025

โ€œWhen should I consider medication?โ€

Itโ€™s a question lots of people ask, usually with a bit of of worry or shameโ€ฆ But psychiatric medication isnโ€™t about โ€œgiving upโ€ at all. Itโ€™s about giving yourself the best chance to heal.

Therapy can be powerful, but itโ€™s not always enough on its own - especially when your symptoms affect daily life or your brain chemistry might need some extra support.

You might benefit from medication if:
โ€ข Youโ€™ve been in therapy consistently but still feel stuck
โ€ข Youโ€™re experiencing intense anxiety, panic or depression
โ€ข Your concentration, sleep or energy is constantly disrupted
โ€ข You feel overwhelmed by emotional swings or numbness

A psychiatrist can assess whether medication might complement your therapy and walk you through your options. Thereโ€™s no pressure, no judgement, and they can give you a plan tailored to your needs and goals.

๐Œ๐ž๐๐ข๐œ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ฌ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ž - ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ข๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐š ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ.

Youโ€™re not weak for exploring it - youโ€™re braver for wanting to take steps to feel better.

Is this helpful thinking or just another mental spiralโ€ฆ?We all need time to process our experiences, but when it turns i...
20/07/2025

Is this helpful thinking or just another mental spiralโ€ฆ?

We all need time to process our experiences, but when it turns into overthinking, it stops being helpful and instead starts weighing us down.

๐๐ซ๐จ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐’Ž๐’๐’—๐’† ๐’‡๐’๐’“๐’˜๐’‚๐’“๐’…, ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐’Œ๐’†๐’†๐’‘๐’” ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’”๐’•๐’–๐’„๐’Œ.

So next time you find yourself replaying the same situation in your head over and over again, ask yourself:
โ€œAm I trying to understand or trying to control the uncontrollable?โ€
โ€œHave I been stuck in this thought for hours? Or days?โ€

Shift gears by grounding your thoughts. Try writing things down, talking it out or simply naming the emotion youโ€™re feeling.

You donโ€™t have to stay stuck in your head. Thereโ€™s always a way through - and sometimes therapy can help with that!

Do you have a safe space to feel? Not just a place to talk, but a place to be completely open, honest and even vulnerabl...
19/07/2025

Do you have a safe space to feel? Not just a place to talk, but a place to be completely open, honest and even vulnerable.

Some of us just bottle things up. We say โ€œIโ€™m fineโ€ to protect others from our painโ€ฆ

๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ ๐จ ๐š๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ ๐ข๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒโ€™๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ซ๐ž๐.

A safe space might be a friend who listens without trying to โ€œfixโ€ things, a therapist who helps you unpack the hard stuff, or even a quiet moment where you just let yourself feel.

Sometimes, the safest places start within us once weโ€™ve learned to stop thinking our feelings are โ€œtoo much.โ€

You deserve a safe space to feel, be yourself and heal.

Ever felt completely wiped out after a tough conversation, a deep therapy session or maybe even a cry?Youโ€™re not just be...
18/07/2025

Ever felt completely wiped out after a tough conversation, a deep therapy session or maybe even a cry?

Youโ€™re not just being dramatic - thatโ€™s called an ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐ก๐š๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ.

Your nervous system ramps up when dealing with intense emotions, so it takes time and energy for it to come back down.

You might feelโ€ฆ
๐Ÿ˜ด Physically exhausted
๐Ÿง  Brain fog and difficulty focusing
๐Ÿ˜” Low or extra sensitive
๐Ÿ“‰ A sudden dip in motivation

Healing isnโ€™t always easy - sometimes itโ€™s draining. But remember that itโ€™s normal!

So let your body recover, take it easy and remember that itโ€™s all part of the process.

We all love emojis. Sometimes all it takes is a simple smiley face to say it allโ€ฆBut other times, they can become a mask...
17/07/2025

We all love emojis. Sometimes all it takes is a simple smiley face to say it allโ€ฆ

But other times, they can become a mask.

Have you ever sent ๐Ÿ˜‚ when you were actually close to tears? Perhaps you sent ๐Ÿ‘ when everything felt far from fine?

On , remember that emojis can only hint at how you feel - but they canโ€™t do the deep emotional work for you.

Thatโ€™s because real connection needs more than just a smiley face - it needs language and honest communication.

๐’๐จ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ž๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐จ๐ซ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐ข๐Ÿ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ฌ - ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐๐จ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ก๐ข๐๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐›๐ž๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐š๐ง ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ฃ๐ข.

Do you feel stuck when things get difficult? Try this DBT skill - IMPROVE the Moment.Itโ€™s a set of coping tools to help ...
15/07/2025

Do you feel stuck when things get difficult? Try this DBT skill - IMPROVE the Moment.

Itโ€™s a set of coping tools to help you shift your inner emotional state, even when nothing changes in the outer world around you.

๐ŸŒ… ๐ˆ๐ฆ๐š๐ ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ: Picture a peaceful place or memory
๐Ÿง  ๐Œ๐ž๐š๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ : Think about what matters or what gives this moment purpose
๐Ÿ™ ๐๐ซ๐š๐ฒ๐ž๐ซ (๐จ๐ซ ๐๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž): Connect with your inner self and search for strength
๐Ÿง˜ ๐‘๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ฑ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง: Breath slowly, listen to music or do some stretches to calm your body
๐ŸŽฏ ๐Ž๐ง๐ž ๐“๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ญ ๐š ๐“๐ข๐ฆ๐ž: Stay present and focus on just one task
โœˆ๏ธ ๐•๐š๐œ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง: Step away mentally with a short, safe escape
๐Ÿ’ฌ ๐„๐ง๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐š๐ ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ: Talk kindly and encouragingly to yourself

These wonโ€™t โ€œfixโ€ everything at once, but theyโ€™ll help you tolerate feeling distressed a little more.

You donโ€™t need to take a hike through a rainforest to connect to nature. Even a few minutes outside is enough to support...
13/07/2025

You donโ€™t need to take a hike through a rainforest to connect to nature. Even a few minutes outside is enough to support your mental health in several ways, whether itโ€™s sitting under a tree, walking through a park or just opening a window.

If you start getting out and about, youโ€™ll soon discover that:
โ€ข Spending time in nature lowers cortisol (the stress hormone)
โ€ข It boosts dopamine and serotonin - your brainโ€™s feel-good chemicals
โ€ข Natural light regulates your sleep cycle
โ€ข Green spaces improve concentration
โ€ข Getting active outside helps your mood and fitness at the same time

You donโ€™t have to be a full-time tree hugger or live in the woods. Short walks, cloud watching and even tending to a plant on your windowsill all count.

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐›๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐ž ๐ข๐ง๐๐จ๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ - ๐ ๐ž๐ญ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ก ๐š๐ข๐ซ!

If youโ€™ve ever thought: โ€œI know this reaction doesnโ€™t make senseโ€ฆ but I canโ€™t stop feeling this way!โ€ - youโ€™re not alone...
11/07/2025

If youโ€™ve ever thought: โ€œI know this reaction doesnโ€™t make senseโ€ฆ but I canโ€™t stop feeling this way!โ€ - youโ€™re not alone. But Schema Therapy might help.

Schema Therapy is a powerful, integrative approach that targets the deep emotional patterns we form in childhood and reinforce over time.

Itโ€™s especially useful for people who struggle with:
โ€ข Long-standing low self-esteem
โ€ข Relationship difficulties
โ€ข Emotional sensitivity or overreactions
โ€ข A harsh inner critic
โ€ข Thought patterns you canโ€™t change with other therapies

Schema Therapy helps you identify those inner patterns (or โ€œschemasโ€), understand their roots and develop a stronger, more nurturing inner voice.

With Schema Therapy, you can break free from your old self and build new, more fulfilling ways of thinking.

Most of us wait until weโ€™re overwhelmed, burnt out or in full-on crisis mode before we reach out for help.๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐ก๐ž๐š...
09/07/2025

Most of us wait until weโ€™re overwhelmed, burnt out or in full-on crisis mode before we reach out for help.

๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก ๐ข๐ฌ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐š๐ข๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’„๐’–๐’† - ๐ข๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐’•๐’†๐’๐’… ๐’•๐’ ๐๐š๐ข๐ฅ๐ฒ.

Think of it like this: you brush your teeth every day - not just when they hurt.

Itโ€™s the same with mental health, and we donโ€™t need to wait until thereโ€™s a crisis to take action.

There are lots of tools that work best when used regularly - therapy, DBT skills, journalling, mindfulnessโ€ฆ The more you build them into your daily routine, the more resilient you become when life gets tough.

You donโ€™t have to do much to look after your mental health, but doing a small something each day makes a big difference.

You donโ€™t need to feel guilty when you treat yourself to your favourite chocolate.๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐š ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฒ - ๐ข๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐š ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐. ...
07/07/2025

You donโ€™t need to feel guilty when you treat yourself to your favourite chocolate.

๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐š ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฒ - ๐ข๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐š ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐. ๐€๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐œ๐ก๐จ๐œ๐จ๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ž!

In fact, eating chocolate (especially dark chocolate!) stimulates dopamine, a chemical in the brain that makes you feel happy and motivated.

๐–๐ก๐ข๐œ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ž๐š๐ง๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐œ๐ก๐จ๐œ๐จ๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐œ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ข๐œ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ ๐จ๐จ๐ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก!

(For any old Harry Potter fans out there, this is precisely why Lupin tells Harry to eat chocolate after encountering the Dementors. After all, Dementors were inspired by Rowlingโ€™s own experiences with depression!)

On , this is your chance to:
๐Ÿ˜‹ Savour each sweet bite
๐Ÿซ Notice the โ€˜feel-goodโ€™ feeling it has in your brain
๐Ÿ“… Make it part of your wellbeing routine, not just a reward

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