22/07/2025
‘They did the best they could with what they had’
This is a conversation I have quite often with my clients, and there’s often a similar part that comes forward that FEELS like it’s keeping us safe by reminding us of this - however…
That doesn’t mean our experience at the time wasn’t real or valid. Our experience being real doesn’t mean our care givers were bad people intentionally hurting us! We can meet all these parts with space and compassion that everyone’s just a human trying to survive ❤️🫶🏻