
16/06/2023
I love a good thunderstorm, ⛈ and wow, was I in the eye of one the other night! 👁🗨
As soon as I see the first flash of lightning⚡ or hear the first clap of thunder 🌩 I smile, remembering those times as a child when my brother was so scared that he’d climb into my bed for safety!
I love the power of nature, the force with which a thunderstorm arrives, and how it clears the build-up of ‘heavy’ air.
Shortly after a thunderstorm I usually feel sapped of all my energy 😴. Apparently, there are several reasons for this:
⛈Lower levels of light trigger a spike in melatonin, our sleep hormone.
⛈The increased amount of water in the air reduces the amount of oxygen for us to breathe.
⛈The sound of falling rain is a form of white noise that helps our brain relax.
All this got me thinking 💭 about how a storm in a relationship can also both sap us of our energy and clear the air.
‘Storming’ is a natural part of any relationship. Conflicts brew and boundaries are tested, leading to clashes and arguments 💥. While it’s a stressful time, it can help us address key issues with family, friends, lovers or colleagues so that we can move forwards with greater understanding 💡.
The build up to a thunderstorm can feel stifling, just as the build up to conflicts, disagreements, and power struggles stifle any relationship 😤.
While daylight dims during a thunderstorm 🌫️, darkness also creeps into our relationships as we become increasingly aware of our frustrations, fears, and insecurities😕.
Just as water saturates the air during a thunderstorm, so do our feelings of anxiety, anger, frustration and hurt as our stress levels peak 🗻 and our energy drains.
Then the flash of lightning or crack of thunder breaks the silence as harsh words and criticisms surface in our relationships. This is when the rain pours down as our feelings, judgements and opinions spill out💦🌊.
In the aftermath of the storm, the atmosphere refreshes and we are left with the opportunity to process what has been said. And, just as the land has been drenched with water, so we are flooded with new realisations and the potential to re-evaluate our outlook 👁️.
Do you embrace the storms that arise within your relationships as opportunities for growth, understanding, and transformation 🌱or do you fear them as destructive forces 🌪️?