05/05/2024
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It is very common for babies to be fussy and feed very often, especially in the evenings🌆, particularly in the early months.
Cluster feeding, is when babies space feeding closer together at certain times of the day and go longer between feedings at other times. This is very common, and often occurs in the evenings. It’s often -but not always- followed by a longer sleep period than usual😴: baby may be “tanking up” before a long sleep. For example, your baby may feed every hour (or even constantly) between 6 and 10 PM, then have a longish stretch of sleep at night.
Cluster feeding often coincides with your baby’s fussy time. Baby will feed for a few minutes, pull off, fuss/cry, feed for a few minutes, pull off, fuss/cry… on and on… for hours. This can be VERY frustrating🤯, and you can start wondering if baby is getting enough milk, if something she is eating is bothering baby, if EVERYTHING she is doing is bothering baby😕… It can really ruin your confidence, particularly if there is someone else around asking the same questions (your mother, your husband, your mother-in-law).🤬
This behaviour is NORMAL! It has nothing to do with your breastmilk or your mothering. If baby is happy the rest of the day, and baby doesn’t seem to be in pain (as with colic) during the fussy time – just keep trying to soothe your baby and don’t beat yourself up about the cause. Let baby feed as long and as often as he will.🤱
Does this mean that baby needs more milk than I can provide?
No! Don’t give baby a bottle — supplementation will only tell your body that you need LESS milk at this time, and that will not help matters. Also, keep in mind that formula fed babies🍼 experience fussy periods in the evening, too — fussy evenings are common for all young babies, no matter how they are fed.
Adapted from:
https://kellymom.com/parenting/parenting-faq/fussy-evening/