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26/10/2025

BREEDING THE STUBBORN CHILD Cont….

Tips To Good ENGAGEMENT with the minors

1. Define the target

2. Explain how they will benefit…. You can set a “trophy”. These may not be medals. It could be something you know is of interest to them. You are teaching them goal setting, rewards & recognition at that tender age and diverting wasteful energy called STUBBORN to meaningful ventures that train them.

3. Make the whole exercise fun…. Be part of it. Laugh, exclaim, be lively - make them feel you are catching fun it them in the whole stuff. Remember we are talking about the minors here, fun is there “daily bread”

4. Collaborate with them & encourage them to collaborate with their siblings in carrying out the tasks of their engagement. It makes them feel important nd the importance of the task. That way they are so engrossed with it and have no time to look elsewhere. And that’s the idea of ENGAGEMENT

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09/10/2025

Like I said in the previous lessons, what we call STUBBORN is resilience, drive, passion, courage inherent in our children trying to find expression



BREEDING THE STUBBORN CHILD

Once we understand that these are good virtues in disguise which haven’t been harnessed properly, we have a good start towards breeding our so called stubborn children.

Let’s begin with minors age 0 to 12. Your first strategy would be ENGAGEMENT. Children have excess energy they want to execute on something. Those ones with resilience and drive feel agitated when they are idle. So give them something to do.

Most parents engage their children quite alright but without the proper strategy the task of the engagement becomes boring to the child. So here are some tips to engaging your child properly.

First define the goal of the task - don’t ever assume that these are children and so are not keen to the details. Communicating the reason for the task in the very language they understand is key to winning their attention to the task . Explain how they will benefit from the results when achieved.

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08/10/2025

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08/10/2025

Observe that “STUBBORN” children are resilient, they don’t give up easily, they can endure hardness and hard times ….



BREEDING THE STUBBORN CHILD

These qualities I mentioned are virtues of greatness. A child inborn with them is an entrepreneur in the making. They are qualities more important than intelligence and brilliance.

An intelligent child without resilience and courage to challenge convention ends up as a teacher, an instructor or a headmaster. However, the resilient child who does not give up easily is a pathfinder who ends up employing the intelligent ones to trade the paths he had found.

The assignment we have as parents is not to get wary with the excesses of these children but strategically breed them to harness these inherent qualities and turn them into virtues for results

Stay with me regularly on this page as I tell you HOW.

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07/10/2025

If you’ve got “stubborn” child/children come closer I’ve got word for you



STUBBORN CHILDREN ARE A BLESSING

If you are a parent today think through this as I have: most of those classmates of yours in primary and secondary school days who were not acclaimed “STUBBORN” are millionaires today. The boys who jump the fence to go after girls - the hippies, the ones who got lashes on their buttocks at the assembly ground for not doing their homework - the 1-week 1-trouble guys then, they are actually the ones who made it to the top today before others.

How many Senior Prefects of those days go on G-wagon today? How many of your study prefects then own their own businesses and are entrepreneurs today? The truth is that what you call “stubborn at that age are drive, passion, courage, self moltivation etc trying to find expression but without direction.

What most parents fail to understand is that there are some ways to channel these virtues aright to get the best out of our lads than languishing in complain that our children are stubborn.

Come with me in the next few weeks of our FAMILY LOVE LESSONS as I walk you through the HOWS. You will thank me later. That your “stubborn child” - so to say is another billionaire waiting to happen.

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