20/04/2026
Frodo said what so many people feel in the hardest seasons of life:
“I wish none of this had happened.”
After injury.
After grief.
After heartbreak.
After diagnosis.
After pain that changes everything.
And Gandalf answered:
“So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.”
That doesn’t mean pretending it’s okay.
It doesn’t mean forced positivity.
It means accepting what is true now, and deciding what comes next.
You may not control what happened.
But you still have influence over how you respond.
Rebuild.
Rehab.
Rest.
Ask for help.
Set boundaries.
Begin again.
Sometimes healing starts when we stop asking, “Why did this happen?” and start asking, “What now?”