09/11/2025
Sorry to disappoint…
there’s no dramatic reveal. I’ve just been practising the art of dropping a ball and…not beating myself up about it.
As someone who’s spent a lifetime being hard on myself, my default would normally be to feel sh*t about it - beat myself up for not showing up consistently, compare myself and wonder why I can’t do better/juggle more/be more.
But lately, I’ve been learning to get comfortable with realising balance isn’t about juggling better or picking up more balls - it’s about knowing what actually matters in the moment and quietly setting down the rest.
Behind the scenes, I’ve been fully booked in clinic supporting women and couples through fertility, hormones, and postpartum recovery; plus working with brands who want to create products that truly champion consumer’s wellbeing; and even doing a little lecturing for future nutritionists.
Add seven months into a house sale (because, you know, the joys of the UK housing process 🙃) and a few big life shifts…something had to give.
It’s a theme I see in so many of the women I work with, too.
Before they come to see me, they feel like they’re trying it all - but still wonder maybe they need to just add more supplements (thanks, Chat GPT), more workouts, more restriction, more meditation, more “shoulds.”
And when it all becomes too much to sustain, they feel like they’ve failed.
But the truth is, they’re not failing - they’re just overloaded.
What we really need - me included - is to pause, reassess, and focus on the few manageable things that create the biggest shift.
This is what I always do with clients, I really understand what’s happening beneath the surface for them - in their body, their hormones, their energy, and their mindset - then tailor a plan that actually fits real life, is sustainable and targets the small changes that bring the biggest wins.
And we always celebrate the wins. So here I am celebrating not showing up on social media for a while, instead of kicking myself for it.
Ever feel like you just need to try harder when you’re already juggling too much?