13/01/2026
You don’t have to feel stressed for your nervous system to be under strain.
For years, I genuinely didn’t think I was stressed. I was functioning, coping, getting on with life. Looking back, the signs were there — I just thought they were normal.
I ground my teeth at night and assumed that was just how my body was. In a yoga class, I became aware of how tightly I was holding my jaw when I finally let it soften. Later, when I started training as a Pilates teacher, I was told I was breathing very shallowly — something I’d never noticed, but my body had clearly been doing for a long time.
None of these felt dramatic. But together, they told a story: my nervous system was constantly on alert, even though I felt “fine”.
When baseline stress is high, the body adapts. You stop registering it as stress. You might sleep, but not deeply. You can push through, but recovery takes longer. Tension shows up in the jaw, the breath, the gut — small signs that are easy to dismiss, but significant over time.
Now, I pay much closer attention. I track stress levels and heart rate variability using my Oura, not to obsess over numbers, but to notice patterns and catch things earlier. It’s one of the ways I stay connected to what my nervous system is actually doing, not just what I think I feel.
This isn’t about doing more or trying harder. It’s about awareness — and having simple tools to help the body switch out of constant fight-or-flight.
👉 Comment “stress reset” and I’ll send you my go-to tools for managing stress and supporting nervous system regulation.
I’ve also outlined the early foundational steps inside my free guide, The Autoimmunity Recovery Plan, including how to support your nervous system alongside immune, gut, and hormonal health. You will find this to download in my bio.
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