10/12/2025
My eldest just turned 19 and headed off to Canada three weeks ago. I always knew I’d miss him, but I honestly didn’t expect it to hit me this strongly.🥲
It’s a funny thing … I lead such a busy, hectic life, supporting families as a sleep consultant, doing some nannying, and raising my own children. Yet, every quiet moment, my thoughts drift straight to him ….wondering how he’s doing, what he’s up to. It’s such a strange feeling, I really do feel lost and sad, knowing I won’t see him for quite a while.
I now understand how hard it is for parents experiencing this. I never truly appreciated how my parents felt when I left home. Watching your child step into a new chapter, leaving home for university, work, or adventures around the world — is a mix of pride, love, and heartache all at once.
To all the parents navigating this new chapter in their lives: someone recently said to me, “When you’ve stopped feeling sad, make sure you take time to feel proud that you’ve raised a child who’s brave enough to go on an adventure around the world!” And when I do feel sad, I remember these kind words, and so should you .❤️