22/10/2025
The day after you give birth, I give myself space too 🌀
I take it slow — no rushing, no moving straight on. Just space to breathe, to feel into how things unfolded, and to sit with the emotions that might have came up for me
Sometimes that looks like journaling about what I witnessed, and how that made me feel. It’s important for me to process those feelings first, because they’re mine and not yours and, as your doula, I need to be able to hold you postnatally too ❤️
I like to reflect on the things I want to remember, and the things I want to learn from.
It’s how I tend to myself and my practice — gently weaving what happened into reflection and growth, so I can keep meeting you with presence and care.
There are also little rituals that help me come back to centre: a warm cup of tea, yoga, baking something nourishing (usually for a door-drop for you 🥰)
And there are ways I’m held too — by meeting with other birthworkers, sharing stories, receiving mentorship and listening support, remembering that this work is never done alone. (Sending love to & for yesterday ❤️🙏🏻)
Because birth doesn’t end when the baby arrives — it ripples through all of us.
And part of my role as your doula is to honour that — the integration, the slowing down, the deep exhale after all that energy and love and witnessing. 🌿
With love,
Zoe xx
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P.S. Ways I can support you —
✨ Doula support through pregnancy, birth and postpartum - my availability is from March 2026
🌸 Closing ceremonies, pregnancy massage and other ceremonial bodywork
🫶 Free creative journaling at Women’s Health Hartlepool every other Sunday.
You can book a free cuppa & chat through the 🔗 in my bio if you’d like to connect more ❤️