06/04/2026
A long term client has very kindly articulated his experience of healing and given permission for me to share publicly. My client volunteers his time to the Amy Winehouse Foundation where he shares his experiences with children and teens.
"I have been receiving different treatments from Sarah-Jane over many years and when I heard about the Grief Healer I was very intrigued to what it could offer me.
I know from the other treatments I have received previously from Sarah-Jane that it is not just a case of rocking up to an appointment. I know that I have to come with an open mind and investing in the treatment, as well going away and reflecting and ‘working’ on myself mentally. So, I knew that I was in for the same, if not more.
Prior to my treatment, Sarah-Jane explained about the different types of grief and how it impacts our every day life. Grief, she said, is not just about the mourning of a loved one, but it can also represent many different things in our lives, such as the loss of a relationship, friend or job. It can also represent trauma from the past, especially from the pains of growing up and experiencing things such as bullying.
I sat with Sarah-Jane and spoke about my own personal grief at length, which is formed in two parts:
1. The loss of a girlfriend who passed away suddenly aged 24 when I was only 19.
2. The experience of having to live with ADHD throughout my childhood and adult life, which remained undiagnosed up to 2 years ago.
Sarah-Jane explained that I have been suffering with disenfranchised grief, a loss that isn't openly acknowledged, socially sanctioned, or publicly mourned, often causing mourners to feel isolated, invalidated, or misunderstood.
She then began the treatment, relaxing me into a meditative trance, and then began weaving her magic. Without any physical contact, I felt her hands manifest the energy from within my body, creating a magnetic field. She gently pressed my heart with the clasp of her hand, where I saw a shimmering light present itself which connected me spiritually with the greater universe. I then slipped into a deeper conscious meditative state. Sarah-Jane was using calming acupressure massage to manifest this experience.
Whilst in this state, I would on occasions hear the tingling of bells and then my body would jolt in a sudden burst where I felt a positive and spiritual energy being energized through my heart and throughout my whole body. Sarah-Jane was applying vibroacoustic therapy using tuning forks to manifest this experience.
The treatment lasted an hour, after which I felt tears run down my cheeks. My grief, which is usually locked away in a box, had risen to the surface. But I didn’t feel sadness, pain or anguish, I felt relief and a new connection with my past.
The next day, with my newly formed connection, I felt compelled to walk it off and found myself visiting the grave of a close friend I had lost 3 years ago. I sat there with my grief, reflecting not just on her passing, but of all the people I have lost including my girlfriend.
I must have sat there for 20 minutes, enjoying the calmness around me and listening to the birds singing and chattering. For the first time ever, I was able to sit comfortably with my grief, not feeling guilt or shame, nor feeling the need to distract myself or walk away. Just sitting calmly at ease with my thoughts.
Over the next couple of days, I felt a calmness and tranquility, that I was no longer consumed by a deep-rooted sadness that I have been experiencing over many, many years. I felt free and liberated from it, and yet, able to rest with it in those moments where I am reminded of it.
Sarah-Jane is an exceptional therapist and she has a very special gift. Over the years, her different therapy treatments have helped my overcome many different personal challenges which have had a positive impact on my day-to-day life.
I must say that this treatment has been the most life-changing for me. I cannot begin to explain how different I am feeling, how that lingering sadness has been lifted and replaced by a calming and positive energy which is so uplifting.
I know I have not been able to do the treatment justice from my comments about my experience of the Grief Healer. I would urge anyway who feels an inner sadness to experience the therapy themselves rather than take my own word for it.
All you need to do is believe and invest, where you will come away feeling blessed and feeling love and compassion toward yourself.
Because we all deserve to be able to feel like that, to live in harmony within ourselves instead of in secluded pain and anguish."
