Reflexology Solace

Reflexology Solace I am a fully qualified reflexologist living and working in Haywards Heath.

If you are suffering with the effects of stress, insomnia or simply want to relax and unwind then please get in touch as I would love to be able to help.

26/06/2025
18/06/2025

Let’s Talk Lymph!

Because when lymph flows, you glow! ✨

Ever wondered why some days you feel puffy, sluggish, or just kind of blah? The answer might be in your lymphatic system—your body’s invisible superhero squad keeping things flowing, clean, and fabulous! 💚

🧬 So… What Is the Lymphatic System?

Think of your body as a bustling city 🏙️. The lymphatic system is the garbage collection, water drainage, border patrol, and healing response team all rolled into one!

It’s made up of:
🔹 Lymph fluid – like a river, carrying waste, toxins, and immune cells
🔹 Lymph nodes – little “checkpoints” that filter out the bad stuff
🔹 Lymph vessels – your body’s hidden highways for lymph fluid
🔹 Organs like your spleen, tonsils, and thymus (yes, they’re in the club too!)

And guess what? Unlike your blood system, it doesn’t have a heart to pump it. It relies on YOU—your movement, breath, hydration, and care!

🎉 Why Is It So Important?

Your lymphatic system is your internal spa & security system:

💧 Drains excess fluid – Say goodbye to swelling and puffiness!
🧼 Flushes out toxins – Detox queen 👑
🛡️ Fights infections – It’s your immune system’s bestie
🔄 Absorbs fats – Helping digestion flow smoothly
😌 Calms inflammation – A key player in your body’s balance

When lymph gets stuck? That’s when the trouble starts: bloating, fatigue, sinus congestion, foggy brain, and even breakouts. Yikes! 😲

💡 10 Fun Ways to Love Your Lymph 💕

1️⃣ Bounce like nobody’s watching – Rebounding or skipping = instant lymph love!
2️⃣ Dry brush before your shower – It’s like a gentle wake-up for your lymph vessels 🖌️
3️⃣ Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate – Your lymph is 90% water. Sip like a boss 🥤
4️⃣ Deep belly breaths – Yes, even breathing massages your lymph!
5️⃣ Cold showers or contrast therapy – Hot-cold magic gets your system going 🚿❄️
6️⃣ Stretch and twist – Yoga = lymphatic gymnastics 🧘
7️⃣ Get a lymphatic reflexology treatment – your lymph LOVES it
8️⃣ Eat rainbow foods – Especially greens! Your lymph thrives on nutrients 🌈
9️⃣ Laugh – No joke, laughter moves your diaphragm and stimulates lymph flow 😂
🔟 Put your legs up the wall – Gravity + chill = a lymphatic dream

🚨 Signs Your Lymph Needs a Little TLC
• Puffy eyes or face? 👀
• Swollen ankles or fingers?
• Brain fog or fatigue? 😴
• Cellulite? (Yes, it’s often a lymph issue!)
• Sinus congestion or allergies?

It’s not just “getting older” or “just tired”—your lymph is calling for help 📞💚

🧚‍♀️ Fun Fact Time!

🌀 You have 2–3 liters of lymph fluid flowing through you every day
🌀 Lymph only moves if YOU move
🌀 Your spleen filters millions of red blood cells every hour
🌀 Lymph fluid is clear—unless it’s collecting fats from your gut (then it’s milky!)

🩵 Final Thoughts: Be Kind to Your Flow

Your lymphatic system is a quiet worker—no drama, no fuss, just keeping you alive, energized, and glowing from the inside out. The more love you give it, the more it loves you back. 🌱✨

So the next time you sip water, bounce around, or take a deep breath—know that you’re giving your body the best gift of all: flowing, vibrant, feel-good health.

🌿 Tag a friend who needs to show their lymph some love! 😊

On Thursday 19th June I will be providing Reflexology sessions as part of the Carers Event at Haywards Heath Town Hall. ...
17/06/2025

On Thursday 19th June I will be providing Reflexology sessions as part of the Carers Event at Haywards Heath Town Hall.
This special event, held during Carers Week, is designed to honour and support the incredible individuals who selflessly care for others.

A shout out to all woman on World Menopause DayMenopause is not an illness but a natural part of life’s progression.Wome...
18/10/2024

A shout out to all woman on World Menopause Day
Menopause is not an illness but a natural part of life’s progression.
Women in many other cultures do not experience the menopause as a crisis demanding medical intervention. Many of them simply do not suffer the physical and emotional symptoms that women in the West are programmed to accept as inevitable. In our society the focus of the menopause is one of loss. Women are programmed to dwell on loss – the loss of periods, the loss of the ability to create life, the loss of hormones.
In other societies, this time in a woman’s life is seen as one of gain, a time of great wisdom. A time when the emphasis shifts away from doing the chores, working in the fields, to the role of lawmaker and counsellor to younger couples, where maturity and experience make a significant and valuable contribution to the family and society.

There are many natural approaches that can help reduce the symptoms of the menopause.

Dietary changes
A well-balanced diet is essential during the menopause as it enables the body to adjust automatically to the hormone changes. Eating a good amount of fresh fruit and vegetables and also including phytoestrogens in the form of chickpeas, lentils, soya, kidney beans etc. is important. Caffeine in tea and coffee etc. can bring on a hot flush for many women. The same can apply to spicy foods and alcohol.

Phytoestrogens
Why is the menopause is experienced so differently around the world? Up to 85% of Western women will experience hot flushes compared to only 14% in some Asian countries. As a result, scientists have been studying the benefits of phytoestrogens which occur naturally in certain foods such as soya, chickpeas, lentils. etc.
Almost all fruit, vegetables and grains contain phytoestrogens in varying strengths but it is the isoflavones (one of the classes of phytoestrogens) that are the most beneficial kind. They are found in legumes such as soya, lentils, chickpeas etc.
Also pay attention to these points in your diet:
Stabilise blood sugar levels by reducing the amount of sugar and refined foods in the diet and eating little which helps to stop the mood swings etc
Reduce or eliminate caffeinated drinks such as tea and coffee which contribute to the blood sugar problem
Ensure a good intake of essential fatty acids from oily fish, nuts and seeds which help lubricate the joints and skin.
Avoid soft fizzy drinks which contain high levels of phosphorus and increase the risk of osteoporosis by increasing calcium loss
Include a good intake of phytoestrogens in the diet from many sources and not just soya
As well as eating a healthy diet, supplementation is beneficial during the menopause not only to ensure adequate nutrients for maintaining healthy bones but many can also help with the menopausal symptoms.
A good quality multivitamin and mineral, designed for the menopause, should form the foundation of the supplement programme. This multi should contain good levels of antioxidants and also calcium, magnesium, vitamin D and boron. Particular emphasis should be put on the following nutrients:

Vitamin E
This is an important vitamin to consider at the menopause. Research has shown its effect on reducing hot flushes and night sweats. Vitamin E is also helpful for vaginal dryness.

Vitamin C
Not only is Vitamin C important for preventing illness but it also has specific benefits at the menopause. It can help with hot flushes and also helps to build up collagen which gives skin its elasticity and it is therefore helpful in the prevention and treatment of vaginal dryness. It can also help retain the elasticity in the urinary tract and so prevent leakage or stress incontinence, which is common at the menopause. Collagen is also important for your bones.

B Vitamins
These are called the ‘stress’ vitamins because they are enormously beneficial when you are under a great deal of pressure. Symptoms of B-vitamin deficiency include anxiety, tension, irritability, lack of energy and poor concentration which are often symptoms associated with the menopause.

Omega 3 fatty acids
Signs of an Omega 3 deficiency are dry skin, lifeless hair, cracked nails, fatigue, depression, dry eyes, lack of motivation, aching joint, difficulty in losing weight, forgetfulness, breast pain – all symptoms that could be ‘blamed’ on the menopause. They need to be supplemented around the menopause because they can help with many of the symptoms. Furthermore, because they help to ‘lubricate’ the body in general, they can help with vaginal dryness.

Herbs
There are a number of herbs that have traditionally been used at the menopause:
Black cohosh
From all the published research, the herb that has the most dramatic effect on hot flushes and night sweats is black cohosh. It was originally used by Native North Americans and is very effective in helping with hormonal imbalances. It has a generally calming effect on the nervous system and as well as the hot flushes and night sweats and can be helpful with other symptoms include anxiety, tension and depression.
Other useful herbs at the menopause include agnus castus, d**g quai, sage and milk thistle. It is better to get organic herbs where possible.

Conclusion
Women can now live 30 to 50 years past the menopause and you want to live those years in good health and free from symptoms. By eating well, taking appropriate supplements and exercising, your health will improve, which enhances the quality of your life. Good nutrition together with the right supplements, enables the body to adjust to the changes at the menopause automatically and keeps the skin and hair soft, minimises aching joints and stiffness, slows the ageing process, controls weight naturally without dieting, maintains libido and helps to prevent osteoporosis, heart disease and cancer.

Reflexology for menopause is a relaxing treatment combining facial, hand and foot reflexology specifically designed to support you on your journey through peri menopause, menopause, post menopause and medical menopause. To find out more how this treatment can help take a look at my website www.reflexologysolace.co.uk

As winter fades and Spring emerges, we anticipate the warmth and promise of brighter days. Join us for an evening of min...
06/05/2024

As winter fades and Spring emerges, we anticipate the warmth and promise of brighter days.

Join us for an evening of mindful yoga at Borde Hill, drawing inspiration from the ancient celebration of Beltane on May 1st 🌸🌞

🌙 Friday 10th May🌙
with Acupuncturist and Yoga Teacher Claire Behrens 🩷

✨ 5:30pm - 6pm: Welcome cacao in Borde Hill House
🍫☕

✨ 6pm - 7:15pm: Intention setting followed by restorative slow flow yoga in the stunning private hall of Borde Hill House, closing with a relaxing sound bath led by Dervla Goldie as part of our yoga practice 🧘‍♀️🎶

✨ 7:15pm – 8pm: Sunset walking meditation around the gardens, finishing with a short seated meditation in nature
🌅🚶‍♀️🌿

To book, please message Claire on Instagram or book via the booking link https://bordehill.co.uk/events/beltane-at-borde-hill/

Just had the most amazing few days working with the inspirational Claire Behrens, acupuncturist, yoga instructor and cre...
03/05/2024

Just had the most amazing few days working with the inspirational Claire Behrens, acupuncturist, yoga instructor and creative spirit who has opened her beautiful home to provide magical yoga retreats, feeling very grateful to have been part of this transformative experience 🙏❤️

14/04/2024
13/04/2024

Dwight Byers and I were teaching in Singapore in 1984. One of the students was George Tay, a well-known reflexologist in the country. George invited us to his practice to watch him treat a paraplegic who was unable to stand and walk unaided.
George’s approach was unique. It involved placing a quill from a swan’s feather between the toes. This technique, performed with a back-and-forth movement culminating in a quick withdrawal of the quill, elicited an intense stimulus, making the patient jump.

This procedure was performed on the toes of both feet. Amazingly, after being helped to stand, the patient could walk a few steps unaided before the effect wore off. It was not a cure but an interesting phenomenon to observe.
I DO NOT ADVISE USING THIS TECHNIQUE AS IT NEEDS YEARS OF EXPERIENCE AND PRODUCES A VERY INTENSE STIMULUS.

This was experienced by a friend with a really painful frozen shoulder, whom George treated next. The procedure left him feeling very lightheaded and nauseous for a while, but it cured his shoulder problem. 
As mentioned in previous blogs, the toes hold amazing therapeutic potential—THE MAGIC OF THE TOES.

21/03/2024

"The comeback of ‘hands-only’ facials – and why professional face massage can exceed machines. The most exciting tool in facials right now are hands” - Harpers Bazaar

Zone Face Lift has featured more than once in Harpers Bazaar, highlighting its almost spiritual deep fascia released and techniques that sculpt the facial contours, increase blood flow, reduce stress and tension, helping with bruxism, temporomandibular joint pain, headaches, neck pain, teeth clenching and grinding….. as well as lifting the face and spirit.

I have always shared in my teaching, that some of my clients who have tried all the latest laser and machine based non-surgical facelifts have always returned to Zone Face Lift , telling me that its hands on massage is better than painful, expensive and sometimes ineffective machine based treatments. So I know first hand this recent article reflects a new and welcome trend.

www.zonefacelift.com

17/03/2024

Effect of Foot Reflexology on Patients With Multiple
Sclerosis: A Systematic Review of Current Evidence

“Conclusion : Foot reflexology may be a safe and cost-effective intervention for individuals with MS as it has shown potential effectiveness in managing a range of physical and psychological symptoms experienced by individuals with
MS. This systematic review aimed to provide a comprehensive summary of the effects of foot reflexology on the population. Drawing from the existing scientific literature, foot reflexology can effectively alleviate symptoms such as fatigue, stress, muscle spasms, depression, and anxi-ety. As a result, it contributes to improved sleep quality and overall quality of life. Thus, improvement was seen in both subjective and objective parameters; however, large-scale randomized studies with long-term follow-up are necessary to validate these effects.”

Link to Review Below;

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10930811/pdf/i1537-2073-26-2-43.pdf


24/01/2024
I am returning to provide reflexology at this wonderful retreat. It’s such a magical place, there are a few spaces left ...
10/01/2024

I am returning to provide reflexology at this wonderful retreat. It’s such a magical place, there are a few spaces left so if you’re free on 18th or 19th January and would like to relax and recharge in a beautiful location please get in touch 🙏❤️

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