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How My Magical Garden Supports Children with Trauma in Schools In every classroom there are children carrying experience...
15/01/2026

How My Magical Garden Supports Children with Trauma in Schools

In every classroom there are children carrying experiences we may never fully see or understand. Trauma doesn’t always announce itself. It can appear quietly as anxiety, emotional overwhelm, withdrawal, perfectionism, or difficulties with focus—or sometimes it remains completely hidden.
This is why My Magical Garden is offered to all children.

Rather than asking children to identify themselves or explain their experiences, every child is guided to create their own inner magical garden and, within it, a safe place they can return to whenever they need. This inclusive approach is especially supportive for children affected by trauma, because it provides safety without pressure, choice without demand, and support without disclosure.

Importantly, My Magical Garden was explored through a 6-month academic trial carried out in a trauma-informed school, allowing the approach to be embedded naturally within an environment already committed to understanding children through a trauma-aware lens.

Why this makes such a difference for children with trauma
1. Safety without having to explain
Children who have experienced trauma often struggle to feel safe. The garden offers an internal sense of safety without requiring children to talk about what they’ve been through.

2. Choice gently restores control
Trauma can take away a child’s sense of autonomy. In their garden, children choose everything—how it looks, who or what is there, and how it feels—helping rebuild trust in themselves.

3. Supports nervous system regulation
Through guided imagery and gentle language, children are supported to calm their nervous system. This is particularly powerful for those living in a constant state of fight, flight, or freeze.

4. A tool they can use anytime
Once created, the garden becomes a lifelong inner resource—accessible during lessons, transitions, exams, or moments of overwhelm—without needing adult intervention.

5. Inclusion without stigma
Because every child has a garden, no one is singled out. This protects vulnerable children and reduces shame, while still offering deep support.

6. Emotional expression in a safe, symbolic way
Children often express emotions symbolically before they can verbalise them. The garden allows this to happen naturally, at the child’s own pace.

🌈 The wider impact in schools
When all children have access to a safe inner place:
🔵 Classrooms feel calmer
🔵 Emotional literacy develops naturally
🔵 Children learn self-regulation skills early
🔵 Schools strengthen trauma-informed practice in a gentle, practical way

Often, the most powerful impact is unseen. A child quietly returning to their garden during a difficult moment. A pause instead of an outburst. A sense of safety that slowly reshapes how a child experiences school.

✨ We may not always know who is carrying trauma—but by giving every child access to My Magical Garden, we ensure no one is left without support. ✨

If you’d like to explore how My Magical Garden can support trauma-informed practice in your school or setting, I’d be very happy to connect.

Yesterday I had the absolute pleasure of spending a second day at Westland Primary School, and from start to finish it w...
14/01/2026

Yesterday I had the absolute pleasure of spending a second day at Westland Primary School, and from start to finish it was truly magical.

I began the day with Reception, running half-hour sessions, and they were simply incredible. Such enthusiasm, openness, and willingness to share their ideas. They embraced their Magical Gardens with such joy and imagination, proudly explaining what they had chosen for their garden.

Next came Year 2, who were just as wonderful. Halfway through the session we were interrupted by a fire alarm – but after a few deep, calming breaths together, they settled straight back in. It was amazing to see how quickly they reconnected with their gardens, sharing their ideas and creations with such focus and creativity. Some of their thoughts were truly inspiring.

After lunch, I worked with two Year 5 classes who did a fantastic job of connecting with their Magical Gardens. They shared their ideas thoughtfully and confidently, showing real depth in their reflections.

The final session of the day was a combined Year 5 and Year 6 class – and it was probably one of the most relaxed sessions I have ever experienced. For a full hour, all 60 children were completely engaged. No one spoke unless they were sharing. The calm in the room was tangible. The ideas were beautiful, and by the end we were all so relaxed it felt almost impossible to move and leave the space.

One moment that really stayed with me came from the flower page. One girl shared that when she touched her chosen flower, it stopped people from arguing and fighting and helped bring them closer together again. Such a powerful insight, shared so simply.

This is the true beauty of the Magical Garden. Children give us a window into their inner world and their perception of life through what they place in their garden and the magic they create within it. Their imagination, wisdom, and emotional awareness never fail to amaze me.

Thank you, Westland Primary School, for such a special day. 💚

If you would like more information about these school wellbeing workshops, please get in touch and I will send you the information.

Back to Westlands Primary School today for my second school visit – and I’m really looking forward to it 🌱Last week I ha...
13/01/2026

Back to Westlands Primary School today for my second school visit – and I’m really looking forward to it 🌱
Last week I had the pleasure of running Magical Garden sessions with Year 1, Year 3, Year 4 and Year 6, and today I’ll be meeting all of the other year groups. It’s always so special returning to a school and seeing the wider community engage with this work.

I absolutely love sharing the Magical Garden and inviting children into their imagination. For some children, it’s a lovely, one-off experience. For others, it becomes a tool they can carry with them, something they can return to again and again to help them feel safe, calm and in control.

The Magical Garden can be especially supportive for children experiencing anxiety, grief, or big emotions, giving them a gentle inner space where they can explore feelings at their own pace. I’m excited to see how the school continues to use it moving forward.

Westlands now also have the Magical Garden manual, packed with practical ideas for:
🔵 classroom use
🔵 nurture groups
🔵 1:1 support

This means the work doesn’t stop when the workshop ends – it becomes part of the school’s wider wellbeing toolkit 💚

If your school would like more information about Magical Garden workshops or how this approach can support emotional wellbeing, please feel free to get in touch. I’d love to chat about how it could work for your setting

Neuroception – understanding why we react before we thinkLast week, during my teenage workshop, we talked about neurocep...
12/01/2026

Neuroception – understanding why we react before we think

Last week, during my teenage workshop, we talked about neuroception – and it was a real eye-opener for the teens.

Neuroception is the nervous system’s ability to constantly scan our environment (and our inner world) for safety or danger. And here’s the key part:
👉 it happens without conscious thought.

Before the thinking brain gets involved, the nervous system has already decided:
“Am I safe right now… or not?”
This explains so much for teenagers.
Why their heart suddenly races in certain classrooms.
Why they snap at someone they care about.
Why they shut down, go quiet, or want to leave a situation fast.
Why a tone of voice, a look, or a memory can feel overwhelming.
Their body isn’t being dramatic.
It’s being protective.

In the workshop, many of the teens said things like:
“That makes sense now.”
“So I’m not broken?”
“That explains why I react before I can stop myself.”

And that’s the power of understanding neuroception.

When teens realise that their reactions are coming from a nervous system that’s trying to keep them safe, shame starts to soften. Self-blame eases. Curiosity replaces confusion.

From there, real change becomes possible.

Because once you understand what’s happening in your body, you can start to:

Notice triggers with more awareness
Pause instead of instantly reacting
Use tools to bring the body back to safety

Respond with choice, not autopilot
Knowledge doesn’t stop triggers from happening – but it changes the relationship we have with them.

And for teenagers especially, that understanding can be life-changing.
If we can teach young people why their bodies react the way they do, we give them compassion, language, and tools they can carry into adulthood.

Understanding neuroception really can make all the difference 💛

✨ Only 3 spaces left We’re so excited to invite Home Educating families or families whose child refuses school to our ma...
11/01/2026

✨ Only 3 spaces left

We’re so excited to invite Home Educating families or families whose child refuses school to our magical, creative three-hour workshop for children aged 5–10 💛

Led by Jacqui Cameron, wellbeing therapist & mindfulness teacher, and Victoria McCrea, music therapist — with a very special helper… Syd the therapy dog 🐾

🌟 Our last session before Christmas was a huge success — full of fun, creativity, and some really lovely friendships formed, which made it extra special. We can’t wait to do it all again.

During the session, children will:
🐾 Spend time with Syd, learning about therapy dogs and enjoying his calm, comforting presence
🌿 Take part in a magical mindfulness activity using My Magical Tree
🎨 Get creative through art and music
🎵 Make their own musical instrument and collaborate to create a group song
🎧 Receive a recording of their song to take home
🧚‍♀️ And may even enjoy a surprise fairy visit (and gift!) at the end ✨
This is a relaxed, nurturing workshop, ideal for creative, animal-loving children — and especially supportive for those who may feel a little shy. There’s no pressure, just gentle encouragement, connection, and fun.
☕ Parents are welcome to stay and enjoy tea or coffee
👥 Limited to 10 children (only 5 spaces remaining)
🚗 Parking available
💛 A beautiful opportunity for children to express themselves, make new friends, and enjoy a heart-warming experience with Syd by their side.
👉 Message to book or for more details WhatsApp jacqui 07452835784

Booking link in the comments ⬇️

A gentle reminder for teens and adults 💛This image shows our daily DOSE of feel-good chemicals — the ones that help us f...
08/01/2026

A gentle reminder for teens and adults 💛
This image shows our daily DOSE of feel-good chemicals — the ones that help us feel calmer, happier and more balanced:
✨ Dopamine – that sense of achievement when you complete something
✨ Oxytocin – connection, hugs, kindness and feeling close
✨ Serotonin – mood balance through sunlight, mindfulness and nature
✨ Endorphins – movement, laughter, music and joy
None of these require anything complicated. Small, everyday actions really do support our nervous system and emotional wellbeing. When life feels overwhelming, coming back to these simple basics can make a big difference 🌱
Sometimes the smallest steps are the most powerful.

Teen & Parent Wellbeing Workshop – Tomorrow at 11am (1 hour)Tomorrow morning I’m running a gentle, supportive workshop f...
08/01/2026

Teen & Parent Wellbeing Workshop – Tomorrow at 11am (1 hour)

Tomorrow morning I’m running a gentle, supportive workshop for teenagers, with parents very welcome to join too. It’s a chance to slow things down, learn a little about what’s happening in the nervous system, and experience some simple tools that really help during stressful moments.

During the session we will:
🔵Experience mindfulness practices that calm the body and mind
🔵 Explore neuroception (in a very relatable way!)
🔵 Learn how to look after yourself when you feel triggered or overwhelmed
🔵 Finish with a guided visualisation to create a sense of safety and calm

💡 What is neuroception? (In simple terms)
Neuroception is your body’s automatic safety scanner. It’s the part of the nervous system that constantly asks, “Am I safe right now?” — without us even thinking about it.

For teenagers (and adults!), this scanner can sometimes be on high alert, especially during stress, exams, social situations, or conflict. When that happens, big emotions, shutdown, or reactivity can show up fast. In the workshop, we’ll gently explore how to notice this and what helps the body feel safe again.
This hour is also about connection — teens coming together, feeling less alone, and parents gaining insight into what their young people are experiencing.

A calm, supportive space to learn, experience, and reset 🌱

If you’re coming along, I look forward to welcoming you.

Message me or WhatsApp to book a place or know more - jacqui 07452835784

Calm. Creativity. Emotional wellbeing. 🌱Stay Calm Wellbeing Workshops help children pause, breathe, and reconnect throug...
07/01/2026

Calm. Creativity. Emotional wellbeing. 🌱

Stay Calm Wellbeing Workshops help children pause, breathe, and reconnect through imagination-led mindfulness — creating calmer classrooms and more confident children.

If you’re a parent or work in a primary school, I’d love to offer a free meeting to explore how this could support your school.

📩 Message me to find out more or email jax@stay-calm.co.Uk

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✨ Get Closer to Calm – Home Ed Teens ✨Friday 9th JanuaryWould your Home Ed teenager like to feel calmer, happier, and mo...
06/01/2026

✨ Get Closer to Calm – Home Ed Teens ✨

Friday 9th January

Would your Home Ed teenager like to feel calmer, happier, and more in control?

Every other week, teens explore simple, practical tools to support emotional wellbeing – including mindfulness, breathing, grounding, visualisation, journaling, and creative relaxation.

We also gently explore the stress response and the science behind anxiety and big emotions, helping teens understand what’s happening in their bodies and how to support themselves.

💚 Drop in or come regularly to build a personalised Wellbeing Toolbox
💚 Small, supportive group
💚 £10 per session
💚 Parents welcome to stay and learn alongside their teen

Message me to book or find out more 🌱

✨ What’s coming up this month… ✨I’m so excited to be starting the year with three school wellbeing days using my Magical...
05/01/2026

✨ What’s coming up this month… ✨
I’m so excited to be starting the year with three school wellbeing days using my Magical Garden 🌿

The first one is tomorrow, and I honestly can’t wait!

During these days, children are guided to connect with their imagination and create their very own safe place – a place they can return to anytime, anywhere to help them calm, regulate, and feel supported. Using imagination in this way gives children a powerful, gentle tool to support their mental health 💛

📅 Friday 9th January
Our teenage wellbeing sessions start again and run every fortnight.
Teenagers learn about the stress response, explore tools to support anxiety and overwhelm, and connect with others in a safe, supportive space. A lovely way to build confidence and friendships 🌈

📅 Friday 16th January
We’re running our second Home Ed community workshop – a 3-hour creative session with Syd the therapy dog 🐾 and Victoria, music therapist 🎶.
Together we’ll host a warm, creative workshop where children can come together, express themselves, and make new friends. A really special opportunity ✨

If you’d like to know more about any of these sessions, please get in touch.

📲 Jacqui – WhatsApp: 07452 835784

Wishing you all a magical and joyful 2026✨
01/01/2026

Wishing you all a magical and joyful 2026✨

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas 🎄 xx
25/12/2025

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas 🎄 xx

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Emotional Wellbeing

Stay Calm supports parents, teachers and carers to help children and teenagers with mental health issues, in particular anxiety. It’s also also about supporting parents themselves as they navigate through the parenting process. It can be challenging and not always easy so I like to help parents find their way and feel empowered. We all can only do our best and sometimes it helps to reach out and get some support. It’s so important that we look after our own emotional wellbeing so that we can then support our children.

I am interested in all areas that impact our mental health and I’m always looking for ways to help make life a little calmer. Mindfulness is the main focus of what I do as it has such an amazing affect at combatting anxiety and sleep issues, as well as helping with behavioural issues.

I’m also fascinated with the link between food and mood so I like to share information on this as the impact of the wrongs foods can have a massive impact on behaviour and exacerbate anxiety and depression.

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