04/12/2025
Fertility comes with a lot of illusions.
That IVF will solve everything.
That AMH is your golden ticket.
That male factor isn’t worth testing.
That miscarriage is just bad luck.
That if it hasn’t happened yet… it’s just not your time yet
But here’s what I see every month:
“Surprise”pregnancies that come after months of prep.
IVF cycles that run smoother because the groundwork was done.
Bodies that respond when we finally look at the whole picture.
And yes, it takes extra time - than simply jumping into IVF.
But when you address what’s been overlooked,
When you give your body what it needs.
The results stop feeling like luck.
They start to make sense.
I just wish the “surprise” positives didn’t feel so surprising.
Because this isn’t the exception, it’s what happens when we look deeper.
This is what we get to be grateful for today:
🧪 Private lab testing
🧫 Microbiome testing
🧠 Practitioners who don’t stop at diagnosis, even less so if it’s unexplained.
👥 Support for the whole couple, not just the lady/egg.
There’s more you can do than you think.
It starts with asking better questions.
And not settling for what looks “normal.”
📌 Save this for when the doubts creep in and reach out if 2026 is “the year we have a baby” as one of my couples set the intention for today.