The Youth Fairy Heathfield

The Youth Fairy Heathfield A modern, solution-focused approach to positive change for children, teens and young adults. I hold an Enhanced DBS and am fully insured.

I'm Vicki, therapist at The Youth Fairy, a team of Solution Focused therapists dedicated to improving the emotional well-being and mental health of children and teenagers suffering from anxiety, stress, anger, emotional regulation and low confidence. I offer a 1 hour consultation (free) face to face in Heathfield or online, to discuss your child's situation and how I can help them regain more emotional control and see them feeling happier, calmer and much more confident in a relatively short amount of time. As well as helping young people make these changes, I’m passionate that educating them on their mental health is such an important and essential part of the change process. By empowering them with this knowledge, we can help young people to develop more positive, healthy habits for life. In the consultation I’ll explain to you and your child how the brain works to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms. This understanding can be really motivational to children as they realise there is hope, see more clearly what we can do about it and how to promote more mentally healthy behaviours in the future. This knowledge is super helpful for you as a parent too - it allows for greater understanding, creates a common language to talk more easily with your child about their well-being and gives you specific ideas of how you can best support the process (and beyond). And because this modern, well researched approach is solution focused, it means your child won’t have to focus on the past in great detail or revisit traumatic events to make really positive change. Instead, it supports children to recognise their strengths and gives them the tools to move forward. You’ll also get my relaxation audio downloads to help improve any sleep problems they are having and support the process. Before training as a therapist and joining the Youth Fairy team I have a background in bereavement care and have assisted hundreds of families through their grief journey. This includes helping children cope with the loss of a family member, parent or sibling by enabling them to regain control of their feelings. Although grief is a specialist area, I also work with a range of other concerns such as anxiety, stress, trauma, low mood and low confidence/self-esteem.

Teen brains are highly sensitive to reward, relief, and social connection 🧠Va**ng may offer a sense of belonging or curi...
17/01/2026

Teen brains are highly sensitive to reward, relief, and social connection 🧠Va**ng may offer a sense of belonging or curiosity. Teens are surrounded by mixed messages from peers, social media, and advertising. Understanding what they’ve already absorbed can help guide calmer, more effective conversations 👍🏻

What messages do you think your teen has heard about va**ng?

🌟TESTIMONIAL🌟What a glowing   from Sophie. Jenna came to see me really struggling with suicidal thoughts, low confidence...
16/01/2026

🌟TESTIMONIAL🌟

What a glowing from Sophie. Jenna came to see me really struggling with suicidal thoughts, low confidence and anxiety.
She was a pleasure to work with and made such a positive change in such a short amount of time - just amazing work in and out of sessions 🧚🥰 Mum, Sophie, clearly has noticed to benefits too.

Full testimonial below 👇👇👇

“Vicki helped my 12 year old daughter so much. I was worried about the cost but was worth every penny. It gave my daughter a safe space to talk about anything she wanted to. And after a few weeks my daughter was much more chill and open with me.

We are a few weeks on now from having completed a block of sessions and have not had any more and my daughter is still in a much better place. What is also good to know is that we said that should my daughter have a blip and feels she needs a ‘top up’ session then that would also be available.

I actively encourage parents to let their children have this therapy should they be struggling in any way with anxiety, school, relationships etc before it goes on too long. Far better to start this early as required and help them with coping strategies. A thousand thank yous to Vicki and I am eternally grateful."

* Names changed for confidentiality.

TRUE STORY!Love and Attention is the BEST you can give. 🫶Leave a ❤️ If you agree
15/01/2026

TRUE STORY!

Love and Attention is the BEST you can give. 🫶

Leave a ❤️ If you agree

🚭 Children, Teens, and Va**ng: What Parents Need to Know 🚭Have you ever wondered why va**ng has become so popular amongs...
14/01/2026

🚭 Children, Teens, and Va**ng: What Parents Need to Know 🚭

Have you ever wondered why va**ng has become so popular amongst teens or wondering how to approach this topic with your child? 🫣

Va**ng is often advertised as being harmless but va**ng can be very damaging, particularly for young and developing brains 🧠

Take a look at our most recent blog where we explore…

‼️ The impact of va**ng and how it effects our teens brain development
⁉️ WHY teens are drawn to va**ng
🙌🏻 Solution Focused tips to help parents feel confident in discussing this topic with their teens

We want to help parents understand the science behind this habit so you can have open and honest conversations with your child and empower them to make healthier choices! You’ve got this! 💪

👉 Read the full blog here:

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/giving-up-va**ng-how-to-help-your-children-or-teen/

Let’s work together and keep our children happy, healthy, and well informed. ❤️

🧚 My SMILE for Parents programme is designed to help you regain a greater sense of emotional control and will support yo...
13/01/2026

🧚 My SMILE for Parents programme is designed to help you regain a greater sense of emotional control and will support you in making those positive changes in thoughts and behaviours you need to feel calmer, happier and much more confident as a person – and as a parent.

And the great thing is our Solution Focused approach means you don’t need to excessively talk about past problems, your perceived ‘parenting mistakes’ (even Youth Fairies have felt that completely unhelpful parent guilt) or trauma in order to get you back on top of things and feeling like yourself again.

Can help to...

✔️ Boost feelings of overall happiness
✔️ Cope calmly with everyday situations
✔️ Feel in control of reactions, thoughts & emotions
✔️ Rediscover your confidence & self-recognition
✔️ Develop a more positive outlook
✔️ Interact more positively with others
✔️ Cope better with life challenges
✔️ Improve connection with your child(ren)
✔️ Improve sleep problems

✨ Discover more here

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/programmes/smile-for-parents/

⭐️ Positive thinking Rocks!Try focusing on how you want things to be rather than how you don’t.What you can do rather th...
12/01/2026

⭐️ Positive thinking Rocks!

Try focusing on how you want things to be rather than how you don’t.

What you can do rather than can’t.

Give it a try this week. 🧚

When your child insists on climbing into your bed night after night, it can quickly become a recipe for restless sleep –...
10/01/2026

When your child insists on climbing into your bed night after night, it can quickly become a recipe for restless sleep – for everyone 😫😴

If this sounds familiar, don’t worry; you’re not alone! I shared some ways to gently encourage your child to sleep in their own bed in my recent blog.

This I want to hear from you and your top tips! Share your parenting hacks in the comments 👇🏼👇🏼

⭐Testimonial⭐Rupert was a ball of energy in our sessions, but engaged so well in the process and has clearly noticed a d...
09/01/2026

⭐Testimonial⭐

Rupert was a ball of energy in our sessions, but engaged so well in the process and has clearly noticed a difference.

Read the full testimonial below 👇👇👇

"Vicki was brilliant from start to finish. When you need to call a therapist for your child it's very daunting and a worrying time. Vicki rang me that day and asked me through the process and how she could help.
We had an initial meeting with Vicki and my son took to her straight away. We had a 6 week programme and he is a much happier child.
He also knows Vicki's door is always open to him. Thank you so much 🙂"

* Names changed for confidentiality.

🧚 Anyone else feeling the ‘Back to School after Christmas’ chaos?Leave a 🧡 if you wouldn’t have it any other way!
08/01/2026

🧚 Anyone else feeling the ‘Back to School after Christmas’ chaos?

Leave a 🧡 if you wouldn’t have it any other way!

🌙 Why Won’t My Child Sleep in Their Own Bed? 🛏️Does bedtime feel like a constant battle in your house? You're not alone!...
07/01/2026

🌙 Why Won’t My Child Sleep in Their Own Bed? 🛏️

Does bedtime feel like a constant battle in your house? You're not alone!

Many parents face the challenge of getting their little ones to settle (and stay) in their own bed throughout the night. Whether it’s separation anxiety, fear of the dark, or just wanting extra cuddles, understanding the why behind this behaviour can make all the difference. 💡💤

In our latest blog, we explore:

👉 The common reasons kids resist sleeping alone
👉 Practical tips to encourage independent sleeping
👉 How to create a bedtime routine that works for your family

Let’s flip that bedtime switch and turn bedtime battles into peaceful nights! 🌟💤

💻 Read the full blog here: https://www.theyouthfairy.com/how-to-encourage-children-to-sleep-by-themselves/

Tag a parent who might find this helpful or share your own tips in the comments below! 👇💬

⭐️ Did you know?The Youth Fairy offer a free 1-hour consultation to discuss your child’s situation and how we can help t...
06/01/2026

⭐️ Did you know?

The Youth Fairy offer a free 1-hour consultation to discuss your child’s situation and how we can help them regain more emotional control and feel happier, calmer and much more confident in a relatively short amount of time.✨

🧡 We passionately believe that educating children about their mental health is an essential part of the change process, so we will explain to you and your child how the brain works to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms.

🧚♀️ The Youth Fairy has a series of programmes that can help and inspire.

🧚♀️ We work with & help a range of ages of children from primary school age right up to teens & young adults.

Head on over to our website to find out more

www.theyouthfairy.com

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Heathfield

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