The Youth Fairy Heathfield

The Youth Fairy Heathfield A modern, solution-focused approach to positive change for children, teens and young adults. I hold an Enhanced DBS and am fully insured.

I'm Vicki, therapist at The Youth Fairy, a team of Solution Focused therapists dedicated to improving the emotional well-being and mental health of children and teenagers suffering from anxiety, stress, anger, emotional regulation and low confidence. I offer a 1 hour consultation (free) face to face in Heathfield or online, to discuss your child's situation and how I can help them regain more emotional control and see them feeling happier, calmer and much more confident in a relatively short amount of time. As well as helping young people make these changes, I’m passionate that educating them on their mental health is such an important and essential part of the change process. By empowering them with this knowledge, we can help young people to develop more positive, healthy habits for life. In the consultation I’ll explain to you and your child how the brain works to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms. This understanding can be really motivational to children as they realise there is hope, see more clearly what we can do about it and how to promote more mentally healthy behaviours in the future. This knowledge is super helpful for you as a parent too - it allows for greater understanding, creates a common language to talk more easily with your child about their well-being and gives you specific ideas of how you can best support the process (and beyond). And because this modern, well researched approach is solution focused, it means your child won’t have to focus on the past in great detail or revisit traumatic events to make really positive change. Instead, it supports children to recognise their strengths and gives them the tools to move forward. You’ll also get my relaxation audio downloads to help improve any sleep problems they are having and support the process. Before training as a therapist and joining the Youth Fairy team I have a background in bereavement care and have assisted hundreds of families through their grief journey. This includes helping children cope with the loss of a family member, parent or sibling by enabling them to regain control of their feelings. Although grief is a specialist area, I also work with a range of other concerns such as anxiety, stress, trauma, low mood and low confidence/self-esteem.

  I love getting feedback from parents, but it just feels even better coming from kids who have worked so hard in and ou...
29/08/2025

I love getting feedback from parents, but it just feels even better coming from kids who have worked so hard in and out of our sessions. This one is from 7 year old Arthur. 🧚👏🤩😀

*Names changed for confidentiality.

🧚‍♂️ Its the best advice we can give…Be Kind to each other 🫶
28/08/2025

🧚‍♂️ Its the best advice we can give…

Be Kind to each other 🫶

❤️ Watching your child go through a crisis is one of the hardest things a parent can face. You might feel helpless, conf...
27/08/2025

❤️ Watching your child go through a crisis is one of the hardest things a parent can face. You might feel helpless, confused, or unsure of what to do next.

But you don’t have to have all the answers to make a difference.

This blog offers practical tips to help you support your child when they’re overwhelmed - whether they’re shutting down, lashing out, or just not themselves. You’ll learn:

✔️ What a crisis can look like (it’s not always obvious)
✔️ How their brain reacts under stress
✔️ Simple, calming strategies that really help
✔️ Where to turn if you need extra support

🌱 If your child is struggling, start here. Your calm presence matters more than you know.

📖 Read the blog now https://www.theyouthfairy.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-is-in-crisis/

⭐️ Did you know?I offer a free 1-hour consultation to discuss your child’s situation and how I can help them regain more...
26/08/2025

⭐️ Did you know?

I offer a free 1-hour consultation to discuss your child’s situation and how I can help them regain more emotional control and feel happier, calmer and much more confident in a relatively short amount of time.✨

🧡 I passionately believe that educating children about their mental health is an essential part of the change process, so I will explain to you and your child how the brain works to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms.

🧚‍♀️ The Youth Fairy has a series of programmes that can help and inspire.

🧚‍♀️ I work with & help a range of ages of children from primary school age right up to teens & young adults.

Head on over to my website to find out more...

www.theyouthfairy.com

🧚‍♂️ Sending you all Love & Positivity Happy Bank Holidaying 🧡www.theyouthfairy.com
25/08/2025

🧚‍♂️ Sending you all Love & Positivity

Happy Bank Holidaying 🧡

www.theyouthfairy.com

It’s our 1st anniversary today 🤍 so we spent the weekend together after a day of clients yesterday 🧚😋 Lovely meal out at...
24/08/2025

It’s our 1st anniversary today 🤍 so we spent the weekend together after a day of clients yesterday 🧚

😋 Lovely meal out at The Middle House
⛪️ Went to the Church we got married in
🥂 Watched our amazing wedding video again to relive our incredible wedding day and opened the last bottle of bubbles left over from the day

What have you been up to this weekend? 🥰

  I wanted to reshare from young Liam’s Mum. Liam was such a joy to work with. So glad he has a more positive outlook an...
22/08/2025

I wanted to reshare from young Liam’s Mum. Liam was such a joy to work with. So glad he has a more positive outlook and is coping much better now 🤩

Read the full testimonial below 👇🤩👇
“Vicki has been so welcoming and understanding. My son instantly felt comfortable with her which was so positive to see. Vicki has helped my son work through his problems and allowing him to have a much more positive outlook on life. Thank you so much for everything you have done.”

*Names changed for confidentiality.

✨ To all of the Brilliant Funny Amazing Beautiful students collecting their GCSE's this morning...This is just the begin...
21/08/2025

✨ To all of the Brilliant Funny Amazing Beautiful students collecting their GCSE's this morning...

This is just the beginning 💪

✨ New Blog ✨ It’s that time of the year again – Exam Results! Last week, 14th August, was A’ level results day. Thursday...
20/08/2025

✨ New Blog ✨ It’s that time of the year again – Exam Results!

Last week, 14th August, was A’ level results day. Thursday, 21st August, is GCSE results day.

And with both of these days comes a whole range of emotions: nervousness, apprehension, disappointment or excitement.

✨ Whilst this day is full of nerves for both parents and their teenagers, one thing is certain: nothing that happens on those days can change what has led up to this point, so it’s all about moving forward – whether good or not quite the outcome that was hoped for.

And whilst, if disappointments arise it might feel like the end of the road, the second truth is that it’s really only the beginning. The beginning of many opportunities to come. 🙌

As the saying goes, “Ones best successes come after their greatest disappointment” (Henry Ward Beecher).

⚡️ If disappointment is something your teenager faces this week, although they may not see it at first, their results leave them with OPPORTUNITY – the opportunity to give up, or the opportunity to try again, and the opportunity to perhaps try a different path that can lead to even more opportunity!

⚡️ Because when we frame disappointment in a positive light, we know it’s not the end of the road – and it gives us the hope and courage to try again.

🤯 Disappointments often lead to a spiral of negative thinking in the immediate aftermath. It’s important, once your teenager has had time to process this, that we support them in finding new ways to reframe this in a way that proves helpful and motivating to them.

So, head on over to The Parent Pad to read this week’s blog in full for more on:

🧚 How to reframe setbacks as opportunities
🧚 How to help motivate your teen after a setback
🧚 What to say and what to do next

Take a read here: 👇👇👇

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/exam-results-2022/

⭐️ Looking for a place to find helpful tips, advice, insights and resources, to help you support your child’s well-being...
19/08/2025

⭐️ Looking for a place to find helpful tips, advice, insights and resources, to help you support your child’s well-being....

Here it is! The Parent Pad

Some of the recent topics include...

📍Creating Positive Habits: A Parent’s Guide to Supporting Your Child
📍Spotlighting Misophonia in Children and Young People
📍Sibling Relationships

⭐️ And brand NEW BLOG every Wednesday!
⭐️ Coming up tomorrow...

📍Internet Safety Staying Safe Online

☕️ So get comfy and take a read NOW

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/the-parent-pad/

Did you know? Play isn’t just fun - it’s brain work. 🧠Through therapeutic play and gentle conversations, kids can untang...
18/08/2025

Did you know? Play isn’t just fun - it’s brain work. 🧠

Through therapeutic play and gentle conversations, kids can untangle big feelings and problem-solve…It’s what a Youth Fairy does best!

www.theyouthfairy.com

Look at this amazing “brain as a garden” 🧠 drawing a client left on my board this week. We were exploring the 3ps:🌸 Posi...
17/08/2025

Look at this amazing “brain as a garden” 🧠 drawing a client left on my board this week.

We were exploring the 3ps:
🌸 Positive Interactions
🌼 Positive Activity
🌺 Positive Thinking

Then setting a great achievable goal for the week to feel happier and calmer moving forward 🧚

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