13/01/2026
If you are visiting family and one of your loved ones lives with dementia, younger children may feel confused, awkward or worried about saying the wrong thing.
It can help to talk things through before the visit and give them simple ways to understand what is happening.
1. Explain that dementia can make people forget things or say unexpected things, but it is not anyone’s fault.
2. Reassure them that it is okay if the conversation feels a bit different or slower than usual.
3. Let them know that repeating a story or question is part of the illness, not something they have caused.
4. Suggest they talk about familiar things like school, pets or favourite foods rather than asking tricky questions.
5. Remind them that being kind, smiling and listening is more important than knowing what to say.
A little reassurance can help children feel more confident and make visits calmer and more enjoyable for everyone.
To learn more about how to support someone with dementia visit our website homeinstead.co.uk/hemel-hempstead-chilterns.
