30/03/2026
Acceptance is central to mindfulness practice. Without acceptance of the present moment you are, to some degree, resisting your experience and it is in this resistance that the seeds of frustration, fear, anger and other aversive emotions are sown.
One of the biggest challenges to acceptance in the western world is acceptance of ourselves, acceptance that we are all beautiful just as we are. So much emphasis is placed on beauty and "looking good" in our culture.
Our advertising is saturated with subtle and not-so-subtle messaging around the need to be perceived as "beautiful" by others. This feeds a narrow and superficial appreciation of worth through beauty in other's eyes. What this quote highlights is that each of us is a beautiful, unique collection of atoms passing through this moment in time. To bring acceptance to the messy self is the beginning of contentment and happiness. To accept ourselves is the work of mindfulness.