17/11/2021
This week is World Celebrants Week and as you scroll through social media you will find 100’s of photos of happy smiling celebrants, many taken with joyful couples following their wedding - but what they won’t show you is this:
❤️The celebrant who conducted a baby funeral today, who held it together throughout the ceremony only to get back in their car, break down in tears and sob all the way home.
❤️ The celebrant who sat in the home of a bereaved elderly lady today, holding her frail hand as she tries to contemplate a future without her childhood sweetheart and husband of 60 years.
❤️The celebrant who is currently sat at their computer pouring their heart and soul into writing a ceremony, trying to find the right words, ‘any words’ which may bring comfort to parents who had the police knocking on their door last weekend telling them that their son wouldn’t be coming home after he was killed whilst out on his motorbike.
❤️ The celebrant who has to find the right words to try and help a 9 & 7 yr old make sense of the fact their Mummy has just taken her own life after suffering from post natal depression from the moment she gave birth to each of them.
❤️The hours and hours of love, passion and ‘self’ that each funeral celebrant tirelessly pours into every single ceremony they conduct.
❤️The celebrants who alongside funeral directors were also the unsung and unrecognised heroes of the covid pandemic, who got up every day and put themselves at risk whilst so many others were locked down. They faced the most heartbreaking & challenging time of their careers and were, and still are both physically and mentally exhausted.
❤️ The celebrants who themselves lost loved ones to & with covid, and during the pandemic, who themselves were unable to say goodbye, yet gave their all to help others to do so.
THIS is the daily work & commitment of the funeral celebrant which can’t be glorified on social media. Today I stand up and commend all my celebrant colleagues who do this work with humility & modesty each and every day with nothing else but love, devotion and passion for this vocation’.