
27/09/2025
The importance of taking time to find pleasure…
I’ve never known a life without horses. We’ve had horses, I’ve had horses, for as long as I can remember and I’ve had the privilege of owning and working with some truly beautiful and amazing souls over 4 decades.
For the last 7-8 years though, I’ve not really been around them much, just the odd day here and there grooming for friends or helping out at shows or playing around but not actually riding.
One of the things I’ve been actively challenges myself with in my therapy sessions is identifying what patterns I subconsciously move away from and what behaviours I choose move towards and riding was something that came up as something I wanted to move towards.
So it felt AMAZING to just take the action and make it happen.
No stress. No agenda. No judgement. No feeling like I had to turn up and show what I knew or could do.
Just arrive and enjoy in the most uncomplicated way.
And I am SO glad I did. I LOVED every second of it. I love how it took me back to a version of me that I have so much faith and confidence in.
I loved the pure and uncomplicated joy it brought.
And I’ve realised that in amongst all that’s happened over the years, outside of bikes, there’s little else that just makes my heart sing in the way horses do.
And I’m so grateful to be reminded of it 💞
Thank you to Missy, the hairy cob, who put up with my flapping, and the lovely instructor who was so encouraging!
Feeling very happy today and enjoying some Prosecco with my Mum to celebrate 🍾