03/01/2026
Happy new year to you! ❤️
How does the new year feel for you?
It always brings mixed feelings for me. The stretch of the new page in front of me to start creating a new, the fresh start, the wondering of what lies in the year ahead, the excitement this all brings me. Contrasted with - it’s freezing! I’m feeling slow, energy is low, I’m already anxious about the gear shift needed to go back to reality Monday and a little sad to say goodbye to the cozy family time I’ve enjoyed over the last two weeks.
Maybe you’ve noticed like me, the media is full of either new year/new me ads or actually quite a lot of doom and gloom - focus predominantly around the possibility of snow and how this will cause problems or the miserableness of the country, or wider the world - or maybe not, hopefully you have a more positive news feed than me.
So for me, quite an overwhelming contrast.
To tackle this and make sense of the mixed bag, I have to remember - I can’t do anything about the things that are out of my control. Sure, I don’t need to ignore them all together, but allowing them to dominate my thoughts, won’t help with my anxiety and feelings of flatness. Instead I can bring my focus to what I can control - I can eat good food, partake in a nurturing activity that’s just for me most days, be as present as possible so that I don’t feel regret that times passing by so quickly, and show myself compassion - I’ve not got all the answers and I won’t always get it right, that’s ok, I’m human!
I take inspiration from nature, so winter for me is a time for nurturing, some hibernating and keeping warm - so that when spring breaks, I can spring with it (Hopefully 😂)
I’m going to immerse myself under that beautiful big and bright full moon tonight and ask it to charge me up. It might work, it might not. But the break from any “mind niggles” whilst I’m focusing on this activity will be a breather and therefore a recharge in itself.
Wishing love, peace and happiness to all in 2026