06/02/2026
Good Morning,
Welcome to the weekend and today I thought I might offer you a way to make this weekend actually feel restful.
What should feel like relief often doesn’t. When Friday night arrives, instead of unwinding, your body tenses up. An internal checklist looms: washing up, laundry, that one email you couldn't quite finish. Even when there’s time to relax, the nervous system doesn’t always know how to embrace it.
So, the question shifts from how to rest to what prevents rest from feeling genuine.
Here are a few areas this question can explore:
1) Notice how you cross the threshold into the weekend.
Do you finish your week by abruptly shutting your laptop, or do you take a moment to allow the ending to register in your body? Perhaps it’s washing your hands after completing your last task, lighting a candle, or simply sitting down with both feet on the floor and acknowledging that the day has changed.
2) Ask: Are you defaulting into recovery or choosing it?
Spending time on the couch and scrolling through your phone can often feel like the only activities you have the energy for, and sometimes, that’s completely justified. However, it's important to consider whether your nervous system is truly recovering or simply being numbed. One option can leave you feeling more replenished and resourced, while the other might leave you feeling more disoriented or scrambled.
3) Let your pace mirror how you want to feel.
Move slowly while tidying the kitchen. Pour your tea with both hands. Get in the car without checking your phone first. When the body moves at a slower pace, sometimes the breath follows.
4) Protect one pocket of time that isn’t productive.
Not the entire weekend or even a full day -- just one hour that isn’t tied to any specific outcome. Keep it simple: sit on the porch, flip through a magazine, or take the long route home from the shop. Allow it to be intentionally unproductive.
5) Don’t assume rest means stillness.
Sometimes, your body craves movement to feel better, but the way you move is important. For instance, hoovering to music can be more rejuvenating than attempting meditation when you're not in the mood. Similarly, sorting through a drawer might help you feel more settled than taking a nap when you're not actually tired.
Rest doesn’t begin the moment your schedule clears. It starts when your system feels safe enough to stop bracing. Sometimes, this invitation to safety starts with something as simple as how you step into Saturday.