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MULTI AWARD WINNING Soul Midwife, Funeral Celebrant and CPD accredited death educator, offering love and support before, during & after death ❤️

💫 Supporting the Dying
💫 Honouring the Dead
💫 Educating the Living

A soul I have been supporting died today. I wanted to share to mark and honour this day for this very special soul and i...
18/07/2025

A soul I have been supporting died today. I wanted to share to mark and honour this day for this very special soul and incredible human being.

They loved Battenberg. So we sat around them after they had died and ate Battenberg. I will never forget today for many reasons. It has been a sacred and profound day.

It has hurt my heart and fed my soul in equal measure.

Safe travels my dear, dear friend, it’s been a great honour and a true privilege to do this part of your life with you. How blessed I am to have known you 💜

“The beauty of a moment is not in its duration, but in its existence.”I saw this quote this morning and wow it hit deep....
18/07/2025

“The beauty of a moment is not in its duration, but in its existence.”

I saw this quote this morning and wow it hit deep.

We spend so much time chasing the long-lasting, the lifelong, the permanent, the ‘forever’ kind of things. But truthfully, some of the most powerful moments in life are fleeting. A shared laugh. A look. A view. A touch. A quiet sunrise. A whispered “I love you” when you needed it most.

In death work, I see this clearly. The moments people remember at the end are rarely grand or drawn out. They’re simple and short but full of truth.

Love doesn’t have to last a lifetime to be real. A life doesn’t have to be long to be meaningful. A goodbye doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful.

It’s not always about how long something lasts but that it happened at all. That it mattered. That we felt it. That we were there.

So here’s to the small, sacred moments. The ones that pass quickly but stay with us forever.

Life is full of them, if we’re paying attention ❤️

Any of you lovely celebrant folk fancy coming listen to me waffle on in Birmingham in October? We know I love an opportu...
17/07/2025

Any of you lovely celebrant folk fancy coming listen to me waffle on in Birmingham in October? We know I love an opportunity to speak and share all about my world (and a lot more in this case) but this event is extra special with the most amazing line up of speakers! Have a nosey at the link for tickets for more info 🤩 and many more! 🙌🏼

‘A Celebrants’ Gathering’ will take place at Malmaison Hotel, Birmingham on Saturday 18th October.

This day-long gathering will give Celebrants across the UK an opportunity to gather together, inspire and support each other and grow their practice.

https://www.tickettailor.com/events/agatheringofcelebrants/1608981?fbclid=IwQ0xDSwLmEt9leHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHsGGF6xSmLQZOr9YviEn8Tjrzafe3rmz1nwr2xYPuW32I07FvQBIoO4o-1J6_aem_7QtBiklmc3fW0Q8lTECyoQ

In my consultancy role, I recently spent time at culturally specific care home. It was a beautiful day for so many reaso...
17/07/2025

In my consultancy role, I recently spent time at culturally specific care home. It was a beautiful day for so many reasons but I wanted to share one of the many things I learnt. I always say every day is a school day and it really is! I love my work so much 😊

I knew about the faith based belief of Moksha/Moksh but I didn’t know its connection to the game of snakes and ladders!

Originally created in ancient India, the game of Snakes and Ladders was known as Moksha Patam and held deep moral and spiritual meaning. It was designed to teach players about the journey of life, karma, and the path to moksha - liberation from the cycle of rebirth. The ladders symbolised virtues like generosity, faith, and humility, helping the soul ascend. The snakes represented vices such as anger, lust, and pride, pulling the soul back down. It wasn’t just a game, it was a way to reflect on moral progress and spiritual growth.

In the Western world, the game has evolved into a simple children’s pastime, with little of its original depth and symbolism.

Knowing its roots reminds us that games, like stories, can carry powerful teachings and that underneath the colourful board lies a quiet message about how we live, the choices we make, and the paths we take.

Fascinating and on reflection, it makes so much sense.

Whatever your faith, this way of thinking is fundamentally how most of humans live I think, we are all just trying to make good choices and do right by ourselves and others and sometimes we struggle, but we keep going in the hope of the next ladder ❤️

Anticipatory Grief & Secondary Losses - Episode 16 out now on SPOTIFY 🎙️ In this episode of Dying for a Cuppa The Podcas...
14/07/2025

Anticipatory Grief & Secondary Losses - Episode 16 out now on SPOTIFY 🎙️

In this episode of Dying for a Cuppa The Podcast, we’re talking about the grief that shows up before someone dies or you experience loss — anticipatory grief — and the ripple effects of secondary losses that follow. Whether it’s the loss of future plans, roles, routines, or identity, these hidden layers of grief often go unspoken. Here we name them, explore them, and make space for them over a cuppa.

Sending a little love and encouragement out with love today 🙏🏼❤️
12/07/2025

Sending a little love and encouragement out with love today 🙏🏼❤️

Please don’t call 999 when your person is dying. Please don’t send them to A&E to die in a corridor.This has happened re...
11/07/2025

Please don’t call 999 when your person is dying. Please don’t send them to A&E to die in a corridor.

This has happened recently, it actually happens a lot, and it’s heartbreaking. It adds so many layers to grief and our experience of losing our person.

If someone is dying at home, their death is expected, and they’re being supported by healthcare professionals, you do not need to call an ambulance when things change.
This is what dying looks like. This is what bodies do. And this is where death education comes in. This is why the conversations matter.

We panic because we don’t know what to expect. We call 999 because we’re scared. But if we can have the right conversations in advance, if we can prepare, we give our people the best chance of a peaceful, comfortable death in a place they love, surrounded by familiarity and safety.

Paramedics can’t stop death. It’s not an emergency when someone is, expectedly, at the natural end of their life. They may offer kind words or reassurance, and could give medication, but they can’t fix what’s happening.

What can help is:

💫 Knowing what to expect
💫 Having medication and support plans in place
💫 Keeping them safe, being present and being as calm as possible

We don’t need bright lights and cold hospital corridors.

We need comfort and dignity.

We need to hold a hand and stay close.

This is why death education matters. So we don’t panic, so we know it is not an emergency when things are expected.

So we don’t send our people away to die somewhere that doesn’t feel like home ❤️

I received this wonderful message after this beautiful souls Mums service. A service full of so much love, deep spiritua...
09/07/2025

I received this wonderful message after this beautiful souls Mums service. A service full of so much love, deep spiritual faith and a sacred family bond. Elements of different languages and cultures all coming together to create a bespoke, and fitting, personalised farewell. It was absolutely beautiful for so many reasons.

As it should be.

I will always help in any way I can, I will do whatever it takes to make sure you have the experience you need and want. Even learning a new language, and practising until I know I get it right and to truly make sure the families felt connected, I printed copies of the script in different language for people to take away to deepen their experience. It is so important a persons understanding is supported.

All these things can be done, there is always a way to make things work for you and for your people, and this is the beauty of using an independent celebrant. No rules, all personal and as you want and need it to be, in every way possible.

Unique, every minute and every word personalised, connected, and full of warmth 🇵🇹 🇪🇸 🪶 ✨

I’m so grateful to receive these messages and even more so when the family allow me to share 🙏🏼

EPISODE 15 - The Woo Woo 🎙️🕉️ Available now on Spotify I thought I’d cover something lighter this week and just chat wit...
07/07/2025

EPISODE 15 - The Woo Woo 🎙️🕉️ Available now on Spotify

I thought I’d cover something lighter this week and just chat with you all about, what I lovingly refer to as, the ‘Woo Woo’. Come chat with me and hear all about the spiritual side of me and some of my thoughts and feelings about the said woo woo. This is very much a ‘me waffling on’ kind of episode, easy on the ears, and heart, with a little insight into my home (literally)

My faith helps me do what I do, it’s not what I project on others, I support all faiths and none.

What are your thoughts on the Woo?

I am 43 today. I have been blessed to have 43 years around the sun and what a wild ride it has been. Birthdays always ma...
06/07/2025

I am 43 today. I have been blessed to have 43 years around the sun and what a wild ride it has been.

Birthdays always make me feel really reflective. I look back over the years and see all that has happened and changed in my life. I see all that has grown and evolved in and around me. And I also think of all those I have had the honour to support and walk alongside in my work. Life is precious.

I could write a whole essay about what I feel today but actually, the most prevalent thing I think and feel is that I am just so bloody lucky to be here.

Thank you for being here in this space with me for the ride 🙏🏼❤️

It was an added bonus I got to hang out with Tom Hardy today too! (well, I say hang out, we followed him around at a local event 😂)

This is how and why we meet people exactly where they are at, not where we think they should be. Sitting with people ami...
04/07/2025

This is how and why we meet people exactly where they are at, not where we think they should be. Sitting with people amidst their discomfort or emotions is about them, not us 🙏🏼❤️

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