21/11/2025
“People come into your life for a reason, for a season, or for a lifetime. When you figure out which is it, you’ll know exactly what to do.” - Unknown
When relationships do not turn out as expected, it’s easy to blame others for their shortcomings. It’s easy to be hurt or irritated by their quirks and tendencies. Everyone carries their own baggage, and in the flush or our desire to grow closer, we may tend to see just what WE want to see. We may overlook the underlying traits and motivations, and even energetic misalignments, that are part of the dynamic. Accepting people for who they are, without being enmeshed in judgement, is liberation.
It is said that there are three types of friends:
1. If they are there for a reason, once that is handled, that may be all that needs to happen.
2. If they are there for a season, it may be an intense time of learning and growth, after which you both move on.
3.If they are there for a lifetime, then there will be ebbs and flows, periods of tension and expansion, but underneath it all, you know that the love for you is constant rather than conditional. These are your people.
Does this ring true for you?
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