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17/08/2025

Been a while since I delivered a funeral, multiple reasons, but this week I returned to it for a lifelong and dear friend. It was such a privilidge to speak for him and all our friends. Aberdeen Funeral Directors did a great job, and the Deeside Swimming Club was a terrific intimate venue for afterwards - and I can say afterwards was a long one! A day like no other and really helps with the onward journey for all. RIP Nomi Duncan

04/11/2023

Just a note on a special day for me and my family. We all have these and we all acknowledge them in different ways.

Last week I was honoured and privileged to write and deliver the eulogy for a very dear friend, and in support of his pa...
23/10/2023

Last week I was honoured and privileged to write and deliver the eulogy for a very dear friend, and in support of his partner and my closest friend. This was not easy. It demanded a whole new approach in many ways. I had way more information than is usually available to me, I had my own personal thoughts and perspectives, but all this had to be managed within the scope of a deeply personal tribute that meant something to every one who knew him. Thankfully the feed back was that is was 'perfect', 'beautiful', and 'a fine portrait of a life'. It was considered a very fitting and personal funeral by all who attended and it was supported by the unique touches provided. A collection of blank postcards from travels abroad were used as the order of service; flowers were from domestic gardens that meant a great deal to him, and wild seeds were packaged for those attending. We can make a funeral a true celebration, and something to be remembered with a smile.

Today I decided what I will call my Celebrancy for weddings and vow renewals - ‘Fil Rouge’. This means ‘red thread’. It ...
14/08/2023

Today I decided what I will call my Celebrancy for weddings and vow renewals - ‘Fil Rouge’. This means ‘red thread’. It is consistent with the same stories that run through all our lives, but represents when these stories combine.

The red string of fate, also referred to as the red thread of destiny, red thread of fate, and other variants, is an East Asian belief originating from Chinese legend and is also used in Japanese legend. According to this myth, the gods tie an invisible red string around the ankles of men and women who are destined to be soul mates and will one day marry each other. Often, in Japanese culture, it is thought to be tied around the little finger.

The two people connected by the red thread are destined lovers, regardless of time, place or circumstances. This magical cord may stretch or tangle, but never break. This myth is similar to the Western concept of soulmates or a twin flame.

I have recently been inspired to consider adding wedding celebrancy to my services. I will update this page as this deve...
08/08/2023

I have recently been inspired to consider adding wedding celebrancy to my services. I will update this page as this develops. My aim is to focus on ‘mature’ weddings and vow renewal.

2 years today since I launched Unique Stories. I have delivered over 50 funerals and been inspired and privileged by the...
16/03/2023

2 years today since I launched Unique Stories. I have delivered over 50 funerals and been inspired and privileged by the families and people who have trusted me with such a special time. I have met such a range of circumstances and learned a great deal from each of these, while keeping it wholly unique. Thanks to everyone.

I am very happy to adopt the principles of the Celebrant Charter.This ensures the highest levels of professionalism in a...
01/03/2023

I am very happy to adopt the principles of the Celebrant Charter.
This ensures the highest levels of professionalism in a very privileged and personal role.

01/03/2023

"No book is one chapter. No chapter tells the whole story. No mistake defines who we are. Keep turning the pages that need to be turned." Jay Blades
Some of you will know him from The Repair Shop, and it is fitting that the restoration of items soaked in memory is the source for this quote. It is not unlike the role that the Celebrant has. But the Celebrant has to keep turning their pages too. See my 'vlog' on my journey

An absolutely beautiful day for a very rural graveside service. It was crispy cold and pretty slippy underfoot but Brian...
20/01/2023

An absolutely beautiful day for a very rural graveside service. It was crispy cold and pretty slippy underfoot but Brian Smith Funeral Services orchestrated a lovely procession from the ruined church to the graveside. It was incredibly fitting for a man who had been born and lived around the area all his life and enjoyed the land and its offerings.

09/01/2023

If this Prince Harry episode teaches us anything it is how varying agendas and perceptions can totally alter the intention of what is said or written. As a Celebrant speaking on behalf of others within complex and sensitive situations we have to be acutely aware of this. Listening closely to families is critical.

I spend a lot of time celebrating the lives of people in their 80’ and 90’s. The challenges they met, the changes they s...
23/12/2022

I spend a lot of time celebrating the lives of people in their 80’ and 90’s. The challenges they met, the changes they saw. So this week 29/30 years on since my mum and dad went forth, I thought it would be good to remember them.

17/12/2022

I was, as always, honoured yesterday to talk to the life story of an amazing 91 year old woman. Her life and story were bound up in social history, and the landscape that was and is Aberdeen. She chose John Anderson my Jo, a Burn’s interpretation of a traditional ballad that I did not sing but read, and there was also a part of a poem written in Yorkshire accents, so it was highly inclusive! I have to say Yorkshire accents can translate well into Aberdonian! It was a great example of illustrating a life to be celebrated. To have someone say afterward ‘it felt like she was in the room’ is certainly good to hear.

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