Hi, I'm Wendy, here you'll find lighthearted midlife musings of a child free, adult orphaned oneling woman travelling purposefully towards a vague destination!
CODDIWOMPLE (v): An old English slang verb meaning "to travel in a Purposeful manner towards a vague destination." Wendy Jennings, also known as The Coddiwomple Lady, lives in the heart of Kent with her other half & soul-mate, Tim. She is a writer, Life Coach and artist who is passionate about helping others find their purpose in life and empowering them to live a joyous life. Her book "From Cancer To Coddiwomple - A Story of Love, Loss and Daring to Dream" tells her story of living with her parents' illnesses and how she re-built her life after losing them both, within weeks of each other. Travel with her as she embarks on the trip of a lifetime to Bali and Australia where she sought to discover her new Life After Loss. Here she also uncovered a deep connection with Reiki and has since qualified as a Reiki Practitioner. Wendy's mission in life is to help inspire others that they too can enjoy Life After Loss. Proceeds from her book help her support St Barnabas House hospice in Sussex and her story also raises awareness of the signs and symptoms of Ovarian Cancer as they can so easily be missed in the early stages. As well as life coaching support, Wendy is also available to write guest blogs/articles, media interviews and speaking. She has appeared on BBC Radio as well as regional magazines & newspapers. If you would like further information, please get in touch with her via email at hello@thecoddiwomplelady.com or take a look at her website thecoddiwomplelady.com. Thank you.
02/02/2026
My latest update on "A Coddiwomple Through Life" is now available. I invite you to make your favourite drink and take some time out for some slow and gentle January moments (I'll pop the link in the Comments below)
Coming up this month:
🌻January Mid-Life Musings
🌻Arty Moments & Creative Coddiwomples
🌻New Year’s Day trip to Broadstairs
🌻Spirit Signs from the Isle of Wight
🌻"The Artist" by Lucy Steeds book review
27/01/2026
It's been very stormy, and yet the clouds cleared for me to pay Mum & Dad's trees a visit today.
Later, I was treated to more magic outside our hotel bedroom window.
26/01/2026
This.
Today.
Magic.
07/01/2026
My first piece completed for 2026.
Fineliners on cartridge paper.
I've loved seeing his little cheeky face emerge over the past few months!
I have an idea for a fundraising project brewing and would like some ideas, please:
what's your favourite British wild animal?
Please pop your thoughts in the comments, I'd be very grateful!
07/12/2025
Christmas card creative coddiwomples: I always set out with a purposeful idea of how they’re meant to look, but the end destination is always a bit vague!
And yes, I work in chaos 🤣
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06/12/2025
Good morning Coddiwomplers!
I have recently added these journals to my shop on Buy Me A Coffee shop for £15 (inc. UK only P&P) They’re created from my original painting ‘Field of Dreams” and would make the perfect stocking filler for Christmas 🎄 🎅 Payments are safe and secure via Stripe.
I have a few other goodies on there too, it’s worth a peak!
“Field of Dreams” notebook/journal A beautiful hardcover journal created from one of my original paintings for you to write notes, private thoughts, ideas and lists. Allow your thoughts and dreams to
04/12/2025
My latest update is now live!
The transition from autumn to winter;
Tales from the garden shed;
creative coddiwomples;
plus some restorative and relaxing recommendations to find some calm and quiet.
Grab yourself a cuppa, sit back and relax...
November 2025 round-up
02/12/2025
***NEW PRODUCT***
"Field of Dreams" hardcover notebook available on my Buy Me A Coffee site (link in the Comments below).
If you can dream it, you can do it (as the song says). It can all start with journaling and note making. I've created this from my painting "Field of Dreams" for you to write notes, ideas and lists.
Allow you thoughts and dreams to spill out onto the page and see where they can take you.
£15 including P&P (UK only)
05/11/2025
"Piper"
Created using Faber-Castell Polychromos pencils on cartridge paper, October 2025.
Such a pretty girl, full of personality, and a delight to draw.
05/11/2025
And we’re ready for this month’s musings…
“Coddiwompling Through Grief
One huge lesson I’ve learned on my grief journey is that grief doesn’t go away. She becomes part of us, tucked away in our souls and she occasionally likes to be acknowledged. Therefore it’s important to let her in sometimes to sit with us for a while. It’s okay to cry a few releasing and healing tears.”
Want to read more? Just click on the link in my profile 🌻🌻
22/10/2025
When your Bestie is convinced she can't buy thoughtful presents but ends up getting it oh so right! (I think she even tapped into my inner child's age!)
Thank you I love them!
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19/10/2025
Last week, I celebrated 57 trips around the sun. I spent it in my Happy Place with my Special Person beginning with a beautiful sunrise. But it wasn't just a trip away; it was another piece of my journey with grief and Life After Loss. My parent's ashes are sprinkled under two trees in a spot we all loved. They've rested there for 10 years now, and I visit every couple of years. It's where I feel closest to them, and it's always bitter sweet. You don't “get over” grief. She sits with you, becomes part of you, and sometimes she just likes to be heard and acknowledged. Let her in for a moment, cry some healing tears, all is well.
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CODDIWOMPLE (v.): English slang. To travel in a purposeful manner towards a vague destination.
Have you ever had ‘one of those days? A day where one call changes the rest of your life? Wendy had one of those calls, from her father, on 19th December 2011...
Wendy Jennings, aka The Coddiwomple Lady, is the author of ‘From Cancer To Coddiwomple - A Story of Love, Loss and Daring to Dream”. This book follows her journey through her parents’ illnesses and how she re-built her life after losing them both, within weeks of each other, in 2012.
Travel with her as she embarks on the trip of a lifetime to Bali and Australia in 2015, she knew exactly where she was going, why she was going there and what she wanted to achieve by visiting these two inspiring and beautiful places. Little did she know that it would lead her to a totally different 'destination’ - writing a book...this book!
Wendy lives in the heart of the Kent countryside with Tim; her other half, soulmate, best friend and ‘Coddiwomple Companion’. As well as writing and blogging she enjoys the outdoors, drawing & painting, wine - and chocolate!
Her overarching mission is to help inspire others to enjoy Life after Loss. Wendy also offers Reiki treatments and Life Coaching to help you heal and transform into the glorious Being that you are.