15/03/2026
Here are some of the ways I know my pre-speaking or minimally speaking clients love their Mums:
â¤ď¸ They regulate with them.
â¤ď¸ Some toys are so precious Iâm not allowed to touch them.
But Mum? Mum can hold it, no problem.
â¤ď¸ They might play with me for a few minutes.
But with Mum, theyâll stay much longer.
â¤ď¸ Communication is more often directed towards Mum than me.
â¤ď¸ Crying when Mum leaves the room, but not bothered about my whereabouts at all.
â¤ď¸ They are completely themselves with Mum.
Stimming, vocalising, protesting - nothing is hidden.
â¤ď¸ They might not notice when I walk into the room.
But when Mum arrives? Instant recognition.
â¤ď¸ Some of their favourite regulating activities involve Mum - deep squeezes, twiddling with Mumâs hair, touching Mumâs skin.
â¤ď¸ And sometimes Iâm pretty sure theyâre telling me,
âI just need my Mummy.â
Being a Mum comes in many forms, and the role is often filled by different people in a childâs life. When I say Mum or Mummy here, Iâm thinking about all the caregivers who hold that place.
But today Iâm also thinking about the women Iâve had the privilege to work with - the ones who show up every day with patience, love and fierce dedication to their children.
Sending you all a little extra love this Motherâs Day. đ