30/03/2025
Here are some of the days I know my pre-speaking or minimally speaking clients love their Mums:
❤️ They regulate with them.
❤️ Some toys are so precious that I am not allowed to touch them. But Mum? Yeah, she can hold it, that's no problem
❤️ They'll play with me for a few mins, sure. But they'll play with Mum for much longer.
❤️ Communication is more often directed towards Mum than me.
❤️ They're authentically, fully themselves with Mum. Stimming, vocalising, protesting - none of it is hidden from Mum.
❤️ They might not notice when I walk in the room. But Mum arrives? Instant recognition.
❤️ Some of their favourite sensory regulating activities involve their Mum - deep squeezes, twiddling with Mum's hair, touching Mum's skin.
❤️ Sometimes I'm 100% sure that they're just telling me "I just need my Mummy".
I know a Mum comes in all shapes and sizes and is often a role fulfilled by others - so in these examples I'm using the words Mum/Mummy to reflect all those caregivers that carry out the role of 'Mum'.
But I am also thinking specifically about those women I know, who I am thrilled to work with or have worked with and sending love to them.