15/03/2026
Here are some of the ways I know my pre-speaking or minimally speaking clients love their Mums:
❤️ They regulate with them.
❤️ Some toys are so precious I’m not allowed to touch them.
But Mum? Mum can hold it, no problem.
❤️ They might play with me for a few minutes.
But with Mum, they’ll stay much longer.
❤️ Communication is more often directed towards Mum than me.
❤️ Crying when Mum leaves the room, but not bothered about my whereabouts at all.
❤️ They are completely themselves with Mum.
Stimming, vocalising, protesting - nothing is hidden.
❤️ They might not notice when I walk into the room.
But when Mum arrives? Instant recognition.
❤️ Some of their favourite regulating activities involve Mum - deep squeezes, twiddling with Mum’s hair, touching Mum’s skin.
❤️ And sometimes I’m pretty sure they’re telling me,
“I just need my Mummy.”
Being a Mum comes in many forms, and the role is often filled by different people in a child’s life. When I say Mum or Mummy here, I’m thinking about all the caregivers who hold that place.
But today I’m also thinking about the women I’ve had the privilege to work with - the ones who show up every day with patience, love and fierce dedication to their children.
Sending you all a little extra love this Mother’s Day. 💛