18/12/2025
We don't turn to supplements because we are lazy. At least not in the majority of my experience working with women who are worried about their health.
We turn to supplements because our cup of stress is monumentally overflowing so the easiest thing to take out to make room is the stuff that takes time for ourselves.
Working. Kids. Communicating with colleagues. Family commitments. Looking after everyone else. Future worries. Maintaining our relationships/friendships. Lack of sleep. Household admin. Cooking from scratch. Eating healthy. Exercising. Getting some fresh air.
If our cup is overflowing with tasks to do what are the first ones to get thrown out to make room? Probably working out, cooking from scratch, planning our meals around healthier choices. Because we are SPENT. It's not like we can sack off work for a month, it's not like we can stop taking care of the kids and/or family members, it's not like we can stop worrying about all the daily tasks that need to get done in order for our life to not blow up. What we DO sack off is the stuff for us.
Whenever I've done a presentation on women's health the bit that everyone's ears really perk up at is the recommended supplements part. They are about 1% of what would actually make a difference to our health & fitness goals.
It's not that we don't want to work out or eat better we just don't have the time or mental capacity to engage with it. So when a shiny bottle pops up on our social media feed that promises us the same benefits as finding that time to be exercising & eating healthy and it takes 3 seconds to pop the pill, I get why we get suckered in.
It's not laziness. It's being pulled from pillar to post in every other aspect of life.
So what can we do about it?
Firstly (and rationally most of us probably know this) that magic electrolyte, ashwaganda, she-atine combo pill is absolutely not the one. It won't give you the same outcomes as the stuff we know works (exercising, eating real food, sleeping enough). It will however cost you £££ for the privilege of finding out that it's nonsense - so hopefully this post saves you money.
Secondly, let's drop the barrier of expectation to be perfect and scale it back. If you can't find the time to be exercising for an hour then please know that 20 minutes is ABSOLUTELY good enough. You can make progress, you can gain fitness, you can build muscle mass and you can obtain the benefits of exercising even in short durations.
If you don't have the time to prep your meals ahead of time then filling your fridge up with some healthier convenience foods can remove the time barrier but still tick the health box (see my previous post on convenience foods).
Pre-prepared veggie trays, marinated meats, frozen fruit and veg? If leaning into "convenience" means you eat a meal containing protein and fibre vs feeling like you have to stand and chop, peel, cook and distribute into boring little tupperware tubs in order to be healthy then I'm here to say GET THE MICROWAVE VEG.
Scaling back even further, if you're chained to a desk and you cover about 54 steps all day then parking further away when you go to the shops, breaking up a working day with ten minute walks or even just doing a ten minute simple AF bodyweight movement routine at some stage in the day is still absolutely better than nothing. It feels like it's pointless right? It feels like if we can't be perfect then what's the point at all. But I promise it makes a huge difference and not only that but a MUCH bigger difference than any pill or sachet.
You're not lazy. You're probably just spent. But the magic isn't in a supplement.
I know that's annoying, I know that's boring, I know it's a killjoy, but I'm here to be honest (and hopefully stop you from shedding a fortune on a load of nonsense). And if it changes and they bring out a pill that does the job I'll be the first one to let you know, I promise!