07/11/2025
SAD- my experience
As the seasons change and the days get shorter, many of us notice a shift in our mood and energy. For me, this time of year can be particularly tough. I often feel more tired and lethargic, and mornings can bring a wave of anxiety when the whole day stretches ahead. Everything feels that bit harder - small jobs become bigger, and I find myself with less patience and more overwhelm.
Over time, I’ve learned a few things that really help me manage these feelings:
🌤️ I try to plan something for the morning to get myself up and out - it makes a big difference to my mindset. I also try and listen to the radio whilst I get ready- music always makes me feel happier. If I can I will spend time with friends or family to make sure I am busy, so those long days don’t drag.
🧣 I prepare for the weather, so it doesn’t become a barrier: umbrella, hat & scarf are ready to go.
🕯️ Evenings are for comfort - candles, my favourite wax scents, a long hot bath with a podcast or music playing, blankets, and my trusty slow cooker make dark nights feel cosier.
It’s not always easy, but I’m learning to see the good in this time of year too. The changing leaves make for lovely walks - even with kids, it can be fun to collect things, do a bit of foraging, or just enjoy the sensory side of autumn. And on those rainy days, there’s nothing better than curling up for a movie marathon (or my favourite - a good series binge) with hot chocolate and popcorn.
Let’s not forget the little celebrations that brighten these months- Halloween, Bonfire Night, Christmas… little things to look forward to that breakup the darker days.
If you’re finding the darker months difficult, please know you’re not alone. SAD is common, and support is available. Be gentle with yourself, reach out when you need to, and find comfort in the small things that make you feel grounded.
And remember that spring always comes again. 🌸