17/10/2025
✨️ IT’S ALL JUST A PHASE ✨️
Is this the worst...or best...affirmation ever?
Hearing 'it's all just a phase' can feel so dismissive at times. It's not too far removed from the ultimate classic 'Enjoy it! It doesn't last forever!' (Definitely don't say this to new parents)
But for me, this is the best, or at least truest, affirmation. It got me through some tough times! It gave me perspective when things were hard... it wouldn't always look this way.
I've been reminded just how true 'it's all just a phase' is again this week...
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My energetic umbilical cord has been stretched to new lengths this week as Eadie has headed off on school camp. 2 nights away, making her own memories, without us there. Crazy.
That thickness of the newborn fog was indeed a phase. The challenges between then and now...also all just phases. We've moved through them all and now in to a new phase of growing independence. Crazy 🤯
Being a parent really does show the passage of time like nothing else.
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You will have to do hard things as a parent. Hard things like making your own decisions in your pregnancy. Hard things like getting up in the night, when you really don't want to. Hard things like watching your child move away from you. But you can get through them. Phases pass and morph in to new ones.
'It's all just a phase' might be the thing you need to hear today.
Kim ❤️